Zhang Dai's "Tao An Dream Memories" in the clouds:
"Man has no fetish and cannot be intercourse, and his lack of affection is also."
For people, it is affectionate and interesting.
Choose one thing to become a habit, choose one thing to grow old. There is no deep love in life, just like drinking clear soup and water, it is boring.
Fetishes are the spice of life
Those who have a fetish must be gentle and affectionate at heart.
Just like Tao Yuanming's chrysanthemum, Zhou Dunyi's lotus, Li Bai's wine, Wang Zengqi's gaoyou's duck eggs that can produce red oil...
Tao Yuanming is leisurely because of chrysanthemums, Zhou Dunyi is noble because of lotuses, Li Bai is grand because of wine, and Wang Zengqi is steaming because of duck eggs, these habits embellish their lives and give them the courage and tenderness to transcend suffering.
A few years ago, the popular movie "Flying Over the Old People's Home" told the story of a group of elderly people who secretly ran out of the old people's home to chase after the things and happiness they loved from the bottom of their hearts.
The most touching part of the film is that some of these old people have amnesia, some of them have inconvenient legs and feet, and some even have diseases; but some of them can play instruments, some love to perform, some love to dance...
In order not to let the things they love be dusted, but also in order to realize the last value of their lives, they went to Tianjin to participate in the competition together to complete the final curtain of their lives.
In this process, whether they finally stand on the stage or not, they have become the most moving teenagers and girls!
Interests can be broad, but fetishes must be single-minded and affectionate, and those who have fetishes, not because of the fetishes that have achieved their status and fame, but because the fetishes give them the strength to nourish their hearts, making them braver and gentler people.
Because the really good habits must be the seasoning of life, so that the tasteless life really has a rich possibility.
Fetish, hiding your future destiny
Yuan Hongdao said: "But the people of the world have special habits, and it is not easy to live a lifetime, they are celebrities." ”
The so-called celebrity style, the real celebrity, are people who can choose a habit, live a lifetime, and end from one.
Chen Xiaoqing has loved to eat since he was a child, when he was a child, his mother waited for him at the station, let him see the luggage and go to the toilet by himself, and when he left, he told him: "Whoever gives you good food, don't go with people." When his mother came back, he cried because the man who took the good food never showed up. Mom is so angry and funny!
But the fate of Chen Xiaoqing and food began from this waiting time.
Another time, when the Wenchuan earthquake occurred, he sent materials to the front line, but that place was particularly close to Jiangyou, the hometown of fat intestines. Soft glutinous Q bomb, grease and fragrant fat intestines he wanted to taste anyway, just as he was enjoying the delicious, then the aftershocks came, and he who had escaped turned back to pick up the fat intestines and run!
It's really love, and it's so funny! When he was a child, he must not have known that he would become the most knowledgeable and best at eating in All of China.
He loves food, also understands food, and knows the unique philosophy and time of Chinese culture behind food culture, which stems from his love for fireworks in the world, so later everyone also saw that the first few seasons of "China on the Tip of the Tongue", and later "Flavor of the World", let him shoot the height that should be there, giving the audience, vision, hearing, knowledge of the triple enjoyment! It also won him high praise.
Life is short, choose a habit to end up old.
Wang Xizhi loves goose, Lu Yu loves tea, Mi Fu loves stone, Banqiao loves bamboo, what do you love, do not want you to try to cultivate, it will naturally guide you, give you the best footnote of fate, it is important to make yourself a person who loves life and is interesting.
People with fetishes are not easy to fall
When it comes to wooden hearts, you must not be able to avoid a "beautiful" word! This is the absolute sound he carved in his life, the salvation of the vast life.
When he was young, in order to read well, he once brought several large boxes of books and shut himself on the mountain to read for a few years.
In winter, the forest is snowy, the grass and trees are born in the spring, the pine waves are gusting in the summer, the yellow leaves are clustered in the autumn, the scenery of the four hours is different, but it is the most beautiful baptism of nature, coupled with the cultivation of the beauty of books and Chinese, so that his soul is free and abundant.
The power of the wilderness, the power of books, has also become the power of his forward movement! He wrote poetry, wrote books, studied aesthetic systems, and lived a meticulous life.
Even if he was later imprisoned for wrongs, he was not discouraged and was not overthrown!
He wrote a dense collection of literary masterpieces on small pieces of paper, and even painted black and white piano keys on the ground to play Mozart and Bach silently, and when he was released from prison, he was neat and tidy, and his pants were straight sewn.
He said: "The so-called abyss, going down is also a long way ahead." "A person with a fetish, it is not easy to fall, when life kisses him with pain, he will repay him with a song!"
Because I love the world deeply, because I love something deeply, I can open a garden and plant flowers in my heart, and I can deal with all kinds of hardships in life without fear, even if I fall, I can also sing bitterly and laugh at life.
May you, in the difficult years, find a thing to become obsessed, get a thing into a habit, live affectionately, live up to your heart, and live the rest of your life.
People have no fetish and cannot be deeply intercourse
People with fetishes, single-minded, interesting to get along with, are people worthy of deep friendship.
Gu Long regards wine as his destiny, there is no one among his friends who will not drink, the wine enters the intestines, three points become sword qi, seven points become a vendetta, and the spit is half a river.
Drinking alcohol is Gu Long's true temperament, and his writing fees are used to buy wine and good books, and drinking and buying books are all to write better martial arts.
Lin Qingxuan asked him for a draft, the two took the basin to drink, life should float three whites, and friends on wine as a song is the fast thing in life, writing is vulgar livelihood, this is Gu Long's spirit.
Cartoonist Huang Yulang asked him to drink, and he bought 12 bottles of famous wine to drink with him, which was a complete waste at that time!
There is also a friend who really can't drink, but wants to buy the copyright of Gulong's novel, so he poured a large glass of wine to salute Gulong, And Gulong was hot in his heart, and he said very righteously, even if you don't take money to buy me, I will sign with you.
The sons and daughters of the jianghu are happy to take revenge, but they also understand things, and they do not make mistakes because of drinking. Therefore, Gu Long's close friends are many, and everyone is very willing to make friends with him.
Therefore, after Gu Long's death, his friends deeply felt that there were no friends in the world who could drink happily!
In a person's habits, he hides his affection, hides his deep affection, and also hides his true intentions for friends, so that people are worth making friends for a lifetime.
Interacting with such friends, every meal and every meal has affection, and everything can be carried far away, and such friendship is bound to last a long time.
Zhang Chao of the Qing Dynasty said in "Shadow of Dreams":
"Flowers must not be without butterflies, mountains must not be without springs, stones must not be without moss, water must not be without algae, trees must not be without vines, and people must not be without fetishes."
People have habits, just as flowers have butterflies, mountains have springs, stones have moss, water has algae, and trees have vines, complementing each other and full of vitality.
Choosing one thing to become a habit, choosing one thing to grow old, such a life, there is fun, there is fun, there is hope.
May your heart be full of love, be consistent, and live a hot life.