On November 10, Yi Nengjing forwarded her answer to the topic of "whether age is a restriction in feelings" that she talked about in the variety show "Let's Fall in Love", and sent a long article about her sister-brother love with her husband Qin Hao, who was ten years apart, reviewing the feelings and experiences along the way, and the words were full of love and happiness.
The full text is as follows:
At the beginning with Mr. Qin, the age gap between the two people attracted many malicious voices, many even of the same sex.
But in the eight years with Mr. Qin, the society has become more and more progressive, and sister-brother love is no longer a special situation. Men can be older than women, women are older than men, and it is no longer a controversial topic.
Now; more of a blessing. Although we will still see some articles discussing the derogatory treatment of women and men, we sincerely hope that we will not deliberately talk about how men look better than women, nor will we quote women.
This part I myself am learning to change. I also grew up under the traditional concept of education, when I even felt guilty about this feeling, feeling that it was a pity to be old, and wondering if I would accept it if I changed it to my son. But in the days spent with Mr. Qin, many of his thoughts were more stable than mine, and he also had a very healthy family concept when his original family was happy, and I found out, "What I resist is not what I experience." "I haven't experienced the experience of deciding whether a marriage is happy or not when I'm older than a man. But I was very resistant at the beginning, this concept is given by the traditional collective consciousness, and now that the times have changed, the thinking is more open, the sister-brother love has been blessed, and I am really grateful for the voices around me that have turned from malice to blessing.
Doing something different from the traditional concept of society will also be doubtful, and there will be residual uneasiness when you think about it, but time will prove that you are brave enough to accept the fate of people. If you are also uneasy like I used to be because of the distance of your age, I hope you know that there are still more people in this world who bless you.
Netizens commented: "The main thing is that two people are really living a life, it is enough", "age is not a problem, height is not a distance".