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I am 28 years old and a course consultant at an adult education and training institution.
The so-called course consultant is to recommend courses to students according to their own situation, and at the same time plan the learning and development path of students.
This position does not teach, so we cannot be called a "teacher". To put it simply, we have two main purposes, the first is planning, and the second is to sell lessons.
Therefore, the sales performance of each month can determine whether my salary for the month is more or less.
This is my sixth year in the industry, and I've been in the industry ever since I graduated from college. To this day, I know all kinds of qualifications and all kinds of continuing education qualifications. It can be said that I have my own unique views on the national examinations, large and small examinations, and the attributes of large and small qualification certificates.
So, after staying in this industry for a long time, I dare to call myself half an expert. Because I have my own unique set of views on the development of academic planning.
Since I have been in this industry for a long time, I have a lot of students and a good reputation. This state has brought me a lot of new students. These students often inexplicably find me in various ways and ask me to help them plan their future learning careers.
This is equivalent to indirectly introducing me to a lot of high-quality customers, which allows me to get more performance every month.
So I have always believed that anything in the world, as long as the early stage is in place, the later stage will definitely get better and better.
Compared with Zheng Zhengxiangrong in my career, my emotional path is unusually flat.
I have not had an earth-shattering love experience, nor have I ever made a vow of life and death.
Ever since I went to college, I've been uninterested in my emotional life. It doesn't have much to do with my orientation, I'm just particularly afraid of trouble.
In my bones, I am a person who is very afraid of trouble, and I see many friends around me who have a big change in temperament after falling in love, and often complain about the discomfort of the object and the discomfort of the love life, which makes me feel more unfriendly to love.
Therefore, I have always hoped to wait for a person who fits the three views, so that I can save a lot of time to cultivate my emotions.
It is because of my personality that I have been single since college.
I have no ambiguous objects, no pursuits, and even a few women's avatars in the WeChat list, the reason is that I have an overly autistic heart.
In fact, I am a particularly able to speak the Tao, and colleagues of the opposite sex around me also say that I have a feminine relationship. But I am afraid of trouble, afraid of all kinds of problems after falling in love, so I dare not take the first step.
My colleagues once tried to bridge the gap between me and the trainees, but the end result was that the trainees refunded the tuition fees and pulled me into her blacklist.
My colleague was very puzzled, so he secretly added this student and asked her what the situation was.
The student was very honest, she said that I was a particularly boring person, so she chose not to contact.
I don't understand the meaning of "boring", I am obviously a very interesting person, why does she think I am boring?
Thinking about it, I found the problem.
It is because I am afraid of trouble, so I will never let the two sides have any disagreements.
I accept the questions she raises, I accept the objections she raises, I accept the views she puts forward, I accept the demands she makes, and in our world, there is no disagreement at all.
There is naturally no problem without disagreement, and there is naturally no trouble without problem.
It's this alternative thinking that has made me a single dog all the time! So I decided to change myself first, at least my thinking.
The first step to making a change is to stop rejecting any of the opposite sex around you.
If there is a suitable opportunity, I will take the initiative to chat with the opposite sex and take the initiative to ask the opposite sex to eat.
My friends have also noticed my recent changes, so they will take me to their small gatherings from time to time.
But after several parties, the wine is not less to drink, the girl is not rare, but there is no suitable girl.
In fact, my so-called fit is really very simple, as long as people are kind and have common topics with me. But the side they showed me at these meals was completely unacceptable to me, and the sense of estrangement made me very disgusted.
In desperation, I still decided to take it slowly. I believe that perseverance will bring happiness.
And the turning point in my life also came very quickly, which is absolutely closely related to my perseverance.
It was a very ordinary rest day, and I practiced in the morning in the community as usual. Usually, my way of morning exercise is relatively simple, that is, jogging in the community.
I've always believed that running is a great way to slow down your body and mind and strengthen your physique.
But in the middle of my running, a huge golden retriever suddenly emerged from the grass. The golden retriever chased after me all the time, and then it found the right moment and threw me to the ground at once.
When I couldn't figure out what was going on, a woman's panicked voice rang out from behind.
"Duoduo, you stop me!"
Coincidentally, the golden retriever and I looked back at the girl at the same time.
My nickname is also Toto.
The girl stood in front of me breathlessly, "I'm sorry, my family saw you running a lot, and thought you were going to play with it, so I chased after it." I'm really sorry. The girl said to me.
"How can you not chain your dog in the community?" How dangerous this is! I said without anger.
"I'm really sorry, it's just so exciting, my family doesn't bite!" Hearing her say this, I was even angrier! I was actually a name with her dog!
"Your dog barks a lot?" I asked.
"Yeah, what's wrong?" The girl looked at me, "Isn't the name particularly cute?" ”
"My name is Toto too!" I was so drunk! "I got up while patting my ass.
"What a coincidence! I apologize to you! Shall I invite you to dinner? She stared into her own big eyes and looked straight at me.
"It's okay to eat, I want to eat dog meat!" Just eat your family's lot! I quipped.
"Oh, I know it's wrong, how well-behaved you are!" Then let's add a WeChat, about time to eat! ”
In this way, this girl and I added WeChat to each other, and together we ate spicy skewers outside the community.
During the meal, we had a very close conversation. It's not just that I and her dog share the same name, it's even more coincidental that we're in the same industry. The only difference is that she is a course instructor and I am a course consultant.
Because of the same industry, the cooperation between our two companies has become more and more numerous, and the communication between the two of us has become more and more frequent.
You come and go, and we both have a good feeling for each other. And just like that, after a year, we came together naturally.
After three years in love, we walked into the hall of marriage hand in hand with the blessings of friends and family.
I am very grateful for that encounter, which gave us the opportunity to meet.
I am also thankful that my family has a lot to offer us a partner for each other.
When fate comes, you can't hide from it, even if your fate is a dog that runs wildly towards you.
The twisted melon is not sweet, and the love that awaits is the most perfect.
This is my love story.
At the end of this article, the author Xi Han, thank you for reading.