In the eyes of the British people, Diana is the "princess of the people", and her charity is still remembered; in the royal family, in the eyes of the Queen, Diana is not a "qualified" princess, because she is too maverick, found 7 lovers in her life, and was interviewed bluntly: "There are three people in this marriage", and is a complete "rebel" of the British royal family.
Although Diana's charity brought great good reputation to the royal family, the image of the British royal family became tall and pro-people. But the queen also felt that this unruly daughter-in-law had lost the face of the royal family, of course, people are so double standard, for the cheating son Charles, the queen has never blamed.
In Charles's view, Diana was no more than an unqualified "tool man", and there was never love between the two; but in the eyes of William and Harry, the two princes, Diana was the best mother in their hearts. Because of Diana's premature death, William did not even dare to mention his mother for more than a decade, and he would feel sad on Mother's Day; Harry even left a place for his mother at the wedding.
On July 29, 1981, Diana's wedding of the century was the envy of everyone, giving birth to Prince William on June 21, 1982, and her second son Prince Harry on September 15, 1984. Once Diana and Charles and their two children sat together in front of the camera to shoot a family portrait, at this time Diana still had a smile on her face, carefully holding her newborn little son in her hands, and her husband held William to the camera with a kind fatherly look, looking like the years were quiet.
It can be said that Diana is gradually confronting old-fashioned dogma. The children of the royal family are generally born in the royal palace, for example, the queen's 4 children are born in the royal palace. But Diana insisted on giving birth in public hospitals, and after that, the "rule" began to remain.
After giving birth to William, Diana was in excruciating pain when she was discharged from the hospital, and she had to laugh with Charles in front of the camera, and in front of the camera, Charles was also trying to play a good husband and a good father. Diana later recalled that she was in tears of pain after getting into the car, but Charles did not ask her a word, and the good husband in front of the camera "sentenced two people".
After Charles gave birth to William, he was too lazy to pretend to be affectionate, so he began to obsess about going out on horseback and playing ball, rarely returning home, most of the time only Diana accompanied the children.
Diana did not choose to invite private teachers to the house, but sent the children to ordinary schools, and at the insistence of their mothers, the little princes had a very happy and happy childhood.
Thirty-eight years ago, in 1983, The Diana couple, who had just given birth to William, received an official visit to Australia, a formal event that the Queen had done to ease the relationship between Diana and her wife. But Diana, who had just been promoted to a mother, could not let go of her little child and insisted on taking her son out on official business.
This infuriated Charles, who felt that the matter was completely unreasonable, and that taking a milk doll on official business would make people feel very humiliated, especially if it would damage their dignity, so the two had a big fight.
The Queen felt that the purpose of the trip was to show the harmonious atmosphere of the royal family, and perhaps william would make the trip smoother, so she allowed Diana's request. But Charles couldn't understand why Diana had done so many things, and when she was a child, she was put by her mother to her grandmother.
In fact, Charles grew up to be sensitive and suspicious, which had a lot to do with the lack of his father and mother's company when he was a child. Similarly, Diana, who lacks the warmth of her family, meets Charles, and the two of them, like two hedgehogs, do not hug each other for warmth.
Diana insisted that the visit with William was a success, and the local people were extremely enthusiastic and excited to hear that the crown prince and his wife were coming with the newborn little prince. Along the way, flowers and cheers rose and fell, and the popularity of the little prince William was very high.
As the prince's mother, Diana did not put the princess's shelf in the school at all, and she was not pretentious at all. In fact, members of the royal family are not allowed to participate in any sporting activities.
Twenty-nine years ago, at a parent-child event at her youngest son Harry's school in 1992, Diana and other parents raced on the turquoise grass, which was soft and barefoot. Diana ran forward in her long skirt, without the slightest squeamishness, and enjoyed the game to the fullest.
Although it is not so convenient to run in a skirt, Diana does not care at all, and at the end of the line, she raises her hands and looks like a bird soaring freely, at this time Diana is really happy, maybe only with these innocent children, you will not feel that your life is depressed!
Little Harry also participated in the competition that day, put his legs in the sack and jumped to the finish line, the wind blew up his blond hair, looking soft and sticky, very cute! The mother and son of the day were very happy, Diana looked no different from the other parents, they were all the mothers of the children, enjoying the fun of playing with their sons together.
In fact, after marriage, Diana committed suicide several times, depression became the norm, but every time she was with the children, she would always adjust her mentality, never vent her sadness to the child, and participate in her son's activities only to prevent him from being sad, and to be able to intimately pay attention to the child's heart, which shows that Diana has invested all her energy on the child.
Diana is definitely a very qualified and excellent good mother.
24 years ago, in the summer of 1997, she took William and Harry's two sons to the private beach of the last lover, Dody, and the children did not have much opposition and resistance to playing with their mother's lover, and the four of them got along very well and looked more like a family.
Diana wears a leopard print one-piece swimsuit, although she already has a small belly, but she is slender except for her stomach, and her expression is more radiant than before. She took Harry surfing the sea, splashing, but her heart was free. She had a great time at the beach with her kids.
It can be said that from the birth of the children to the death of Diana, as a mother, she has been involved in the growth of the children, while Charles, in the impression of the children, is a "distant figure, always exhausted by official duties". Like all fathers in life, they go out and work hard to ensure that their children have a rich material life, but they turn a blind eye to their emotional needs and ignore the relatives around them.
In fact, the queen has also been criticized for being too busy to forget to get along with the children, and the children have full authority to hand over to the full-time staff, but they lack the love and warmth from their relatives that they need most. At this point, Diana gave her son a unique childhood, so her death will allow the children to spend more than two decades to heal this pain.
Whether the British royal family and the Queen admit that Diana is a "qualified" princess, she is truly a kind, great mother. She changed the stereotype of the traditional royal family, took the children out to eat McDonald's, went to the park for a picnic, although each of which challenged the authority of the royal family, but also let the little princes have ordinary people's emotions, no longer so high.
If Diana can see that her two sons have found the love of life, how good it would be to have children, but it doesn't matter, the princess of the "people" will always live in the hearts of the two sons and us.