In 1995, the late British Princess Diana was interviewed by B~B~C TV reporter Martin Bashir, in which she said something like this: "There are three people in our marriage, it's too crowded."
At that time, everyone thought that this was the princess's disappointment after disappointment, and it was her expression that she wanted to get out of this three-person marriage, including the queen, who also believed that their marriage could no longer last.
So, the queen personally wrote a letter to Charles and Diana, ordering them to divorce immediately.
And at that time, Buckingham Palace said in a statement:
"In light of the current situation, the Queen wrote a letter to both the prince and princess earlier this week, expressing her view with the support of the Duke of Edinburgh that an early divorce is desirable. ”
According to the information, the queen wrote to the two in December, and Charles then wrote back, agreeing to the divorce. But Diana did not reply to the queen, and this dragged on until February 1996.
It can be seen that everyone misunderstood Diana's thoughts, although the marriage of the three people was very crowded, in her opinion, it was not herself who wanted to leave, but Camilla.
It's not surprising at all, even after the divorce, Diana has been wearing an engagement ring, which is enough to show that divorce is not what she really thinks in her heart.
In fact, Diana expressed her true thoughts about this matter to her friends before she died: "Divorce is not something I want. ”
Here's what Diana's former friend Jenny Bond said, and she expressed her relationship with Diana:
"We can be like mothers of two, sitting in a café and talking about everything that's going on in each other's lives. ”
Jenny recalls Diana's true thoughts at that time:
"Princess Diana once said, 'Divorce is not something I want' because she had tried so hard to adjust to the fact that she was separated parents and guarded their two sons together. ”
What's more, Diana herself came from a family where her parents divorced, and she understood the helplessness of her children in such a family, she once said:
"I think that like any marriage, especially when you have divorced parents like me, you're going to want to run the marriage harder, and you don't want what you're seeing happening in your own family. ”
Married in 1981 and separated in 1991, Diana has actually been trying to get the marriage back to the way it was.
"I very much hope it works, I love my husband very much, I want to share everything with him, I think we are a very nice couple".
Unfortunately, Diana's wisdom was not enough to bring a failed marriage back to life, and she could not control the real thoughts she was instigating to jump. The sentence "marriage of three people" completely turned the royal family upside down.
Divorce is inevitable, even if Diana took out all the tricks and spicy, she still signed a divorce agreement with Charles in the end. It's just that the moment she finished signing, she sat on the couch and cried.
Charles was Diana's first love, and even though he hurt her deeply, she still loved him deeply.
In The Princess Diana Chronicle, author Tina Brown says:
"But she (Diana) told me that at lunch she said that she knew that Charles's love was Camilla, but that I still wanted to go back to him and reconcile with him if he needed me. ”
This is Diana, who can't love, but can't and doesn't want to let go, divorce is not something she wants, she knows what the royal family means to her, and she also knows the weight of Charles in her heart: "She still expects that her marriage with Charles can be renewed and started again." ”
After the divorce, Diana was relieved in the eyes of everyone, and they all thought that she could have a better future and live happily and happily.
Only Diana herself knows that she is not happy at all when she is divorced:
"Diana after the divorce, never said, oh, finally divorced, I'm happy or something like that, I think, that was the hardest time for her. ”
Jenny affirms this:
The divorce hurt Diana deeply, especially in public, she had to pretend to be strong, but the moment she returned home, she cried bitterly. Come to think of it, she once expressed her wish to the media and hoped that the marriage would be long-lasting. ”
Even, in order to renew her marriage, Diana has recognized the existence of Camilla.
She is very aware of what her popularity, her title, means, it is not just a personal aura, but also the future of her two children.
There is an argument that a month before Diana's death, she had not really given up on the idea of returning to the royal family.
It's not even surprising at all, she has always been such a person who admits death and drills the horns, and her love with Charles is like this, and so is her divorce.
But there is no regret medicine in the world, Charles is not an amorous lover, and Diana has gone so willfully all the way, how can the royal family let this marriage continue?
Royal experts have commented on this: "Everything is Princess Diana's wishful thinking, and Prince Charles does not agree".
It can be said that the interview on B~B~C radio station is Diana's counterattack in this marriage, and she thinks that she can bring the marriage back to life.
However, there have always been more routines than methods in the world, and the naïve Diana overturned again, and she became a bow without turning back, she was invited out by the royal family, and it was impossible to go back.
When Diana died in a car accident in Paris in 1997, she didn't even think about doing anything good with Dodi. As her butler said, "It's just fun."
The cruelest thing is that Diana only learned after the divorce that Charles already knew about her interview with B~B~C radio. Her personal secretary, Patrick Jeffson, said about it.
At that time, Diana felt that it was inappropriate after the interview and talked to Jeffson about it, and he finally understood:
At the first moment of the incident, Charles just calmly replied yes, got it. ”
It can be seen that Diana thinks that she has found an opportunity to pinch Charles and urge him to turn back, but in fact she is just getting on a ship with no turning back, and when the interview is over, Charles finally has an excuse for divorce.
The water of the royal family is too deep, Diana is too naïve, so even if she is reluctant to leave, she can't help other people's decisions, after all, no team likes a simple-minded "employee" who does not act according to orders.