Mr. He Huaihong said: "Love makes people stupid: love words are a bunch of stupid words, love letters are stupid words, and lovers are little fools. ”
It has to be said that sweet talk is an indispensable thing in a relationship, and almost every woman has heard a man's sweet talk.
In order to meet women's needs, or to please women, many men are becoming more and more able to talk about love, and sweet words seem to be a matter of hand.
As people often say, women listen to love with their ears. Therefore, in real life, many women will be overwhelmed by men's sweet words and become passive.
In fact, not all men's sweet words are true, and many times it's their lies.
Those mountain alliances and promises are often considered by women to be true, and foolishly believe, and even give everything to the other party because of it.
But some men say sweet words because they really love you, while some men are perfunctory and cheating on you.
The word "mouth-to-mouth love" should be heard by everyone. Those men who speak all kinds of sweet words out of perfunctory you are actually "mouth-to-mouth love" for you.
Sweet words can make a woman happy, but it can also hurt a woman. If you happen to meet a man like this, sweet words are a poison for you.
As the saying goes, "the authorities are fans", in such love, you will often be unable to distinguish between the other party's true feelings and false intentions for you, and again and again to forgive, longing, pay...
Therefore, as a woman, you must have the ability to discern, understand that these sweet words of men are not loving you, but perfunctory:
"I did it because I loved you"
There is a kind of man who will always love you in the name of doing something that hurts you or makes you feel uncomfortable.
And you have to understand that such a man, he usually does not really love you.
Many times, he obviously does something for his own selfish desires, but he will blame you for it.
For example, he always goes out to dinner and parties with others, and when you give an opinion, he will say things like "I did this because I love you" and "I'm not here for our future."
On the surface, he's working hard for your future, but in reality, he's just perfunctory, making excuses for himself.
At these moments, he doesn't want to have unnecessary quarrels with you, and he doesn't want to change for you, so he often uses such sweet words to block your mouth so as not to cause unnecessary trouble.
I'll buy it for you later and be nice to you
The sweet words of the "paint the big pie" style are also the performance of a man perfunctory, such a man who speaks better than anyone, but never puts it into practice.
You will find that he will always say things like "I will buy it for you later, it will be good for you", but he will always lose his temper with you.
Not only that, but when you actually want him to buy you something, he will start making excuses. And you are still convinced, thinking that it will be better later.
In fact, what you don't know is that he is just perfunctory. He may never have thought about your future, or be sure if he can go to the end with you.
In other words, he said this, but he didn't want to argue with you, and he didn't want to be separated from you for the time being. With such words, he is both perfunctory and trapping you.
In short, you are together, what you like to hear, he naturally says. And a man who truly loves you, he will not only say, but will definitely work hard for it.
You are what I love the most
In a relationship, every woman wants to figure out if a man really loves himself. But in this regard, many women are a bit stupid, thinking that the other party says "I love you", which is really love.
In the past, the phrase "I love you" was really precious, but now, this sentence is actually not much value.
Especially when he and other members of the opposite sex are not clear, his sentence "You are what I love the most" is often particularly false. You think he loves you the most, but he's just perfunctory.
You know, if he is truly in love with you, then he will give you a full sense of security from the actual action, let you feel his love for you, and make you feel at ease.
Instead of being ambiguous with others while saying "I love you the most" with your heart.
Feelings are exclusive, a single-minded and serious man, he will know to take the initiative to keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex, directly refuse unnecessary contact.
Conclusion:
In fact, a man who truly loves you, he is silent most of the time, will only silently give for you and be good to you.
And a man who is not sincere with you, whether it is perfunctory or useful, he is "just talking and not doing false style", and will only say good things.
Just like Yan Mo in the TV series "I Only Like You", although he never expresses his feelings, he remembers everything about Qiao Yi.
And the boyfriend in the TV series "Youth Must Be Early", he said that he loved her the most and wanted to give her the best life, but he treated her as a nanny and never cared about her feelings.
Loving someone doesn't necessarily have to be said, and sometimes love is silent. The more you love someone, the more you will want to prove it with your actions, instead of talking all day about how much you love.
Although, sweet talk sounds sweet, it doesn't necessarily benefit you. Just like candy is sweet and cake is delicious, but eating too much is not good for your health.
So, don't fall in love and take all the sweet words of the other party as the truth, otherwise you will find that you have always been a "clown".