You have not suffered from me, please do not accuse me of the way

Su Shi once said:

Horizontally, it is a peak on the side of the ridge, and the height of the distance is different. I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but I am only in this mountain.

It is deeply believed that everyone stands in a different position, is in a different environment, and looks at the problem from different angles, so it is difficult to truly understand the feelings of others.

Cold and warm self-knowledge, do not judge the life quality of others, without the suffering of others, do not accuse others of choosing the path of life.

Everyone has untold heartache, there are unspeakable stories, everyone will have helplessness, sadness, learn to appreciate and compassion, rather than accusations and insults.

Learning to be kind to others and not to blame at will is not only a big pattern, a good cultivation, but also a blessing for yourself.



You have not suffered from me, please do not accuse me of the way

People, not because of their high authority and reverence, but because they are in a high position and still self-denying, have a moderate speech, and do not accuse others at will, which is really admirable from the heart.

Everyone's life is different, the things encountered are different, we have not experienced the encounters of others, do not talk about the river, casually judge others.

People who like to talk about right and wrong are often non-human, and this kind of person, with a dark psychology and inferior moral character, sees things that are also extremely dark.

Without the suffering of others, how can we know that others are difficult, and how can we have the right to accuse others of their choices?

In fact, each of us experiences differently, what we see and think is different, and the things we are not accustomed to are often just thinking about problems from our own perspective, measuring others by our own standards, and ignoring the different situations of each person.

No one is perfect, everyone has flaws, even the most powerful people, there are shortcomings, even if people are happy, there are unknown heartaches.

If you stare at the flaws of others, your pattern will become smaller and smaller, and the trouble will only be yourself; if you know how to appreciate the strengths of others, you will continue to improve, repair yourself, and become a better self.

As the saying goes: The heart is a scale, and the person is called himself first.

Getting along with people, if you tolerate people with a generous heart, you will inevitably become more open-minded and open-minded, and if you treat people with a critical heart, your life will only become more and more tired, and life will only be limited everywhere.

If you were me, you might not be able to have my generosity

Lao Tzu has a saying: The journey of the great road is not to blame others.

People live in the world, have their own stories, have their own heartache, if we have not participated in the lives of others, do not easily stand on the moral high ground to blame others, many times, when things really happen to themselves, there may not be others generous.

Not arbitrarily criticizing others is not only a kind of cultivation, but also a way of dealing with the world.

As a human being, we must know how to score inches, we must not say absolutely, we must not do absolute things, and we must leave room for words and deeds.

Many times, when we know how to leave room for others, we are actually leaving a way back for ourselves.

Criticizing others at will will only cause dissatisfaction among others, be rejected by others, and invite unnecessary disasters.

Getting along with people, not demanding others by their own standards, not criticizing others with their own cognition, and learning to be considerate and respectful, will inevitably be able to get the understanding and cherishing of others and be respected by others.

Criticizing others with our own cognition is the most stupid behavior, how others behave and how others behave in the world has nothing to do with us, and we do not criticize others, which is the cultivation of people.

Knowing how to respect others, not to be harsh on others, to give and understand and understand, must be a person of great wisdom.

Between people, there is less harshness and more understanding; less criticism, more respect.

Cause and effect have reincarnation, good and evil have retribution, and when you speak evil words to others, it will inevitably cause others to be bored. If there is virtue in the heart, there will be blessings for the rest of the life; if there is virtue in the mouth, there will be good luck in the rest of the life.

Not easily accusing anyone is a kind of cultivation

I remember that there was a cloud in the "Book of Rites and Music": likes and dislikes are not inward, knowledge is tempted outside, cannot be reversed, and heaven is destroyed.

A person who knows how to reflect on himself in advance and not easily blame others is a kind of cultivation.

Many things, we are not in it, we can not understand at all, since we can not understand, do not go to other people's world to point fingers, not only uncultured, but also annoying.

When you want to blame others, be sure to see if you're doing what you're doing when you're in the same situation.

The world, all sentient beings, complex, everyone's life is not easy, people and people should learn to understand and tolerate each other, everything more empathetic thinking.

Don't put it in your heart when things happen, try to stand in the perspective of others, compare your heart to your heart more, and blame others less.

Without the suffering of others, do not persuade others to be generous, and when speaking, you must be cautious and think twice.

Leave room for others, don't be aggressive, and don't be unreasonable and expose the shortcomings of others.

The most mature sign of a person is that he does not blame at will and can be considerate!

A person's cultivation, a person's pattern, and a person's mind also determine the height you stand on and determine your destiny.

In this life, people must know how to restrain themselves, learn to be lenient with others, know how to think in a different position, compare their hearts to their hearts, and blame others less, so that they can be worthy of their conscience!