On November 2, Olympic champion Chen Lijun successfully proposed to his girlfriend Yuan Mei in his hometown in Hunan.
According to the news of friends at the scene at the time, Yuan Mei did not know, only knew that her boyfriend Chen Lijun asked him to go to the restaurant to eat.
Yuan Mei was taken to the stage, and when she saw the pictures of the two, Chen Lijun knelt down on one knee on her on the stage and took out a ring to propose to her.
Chen Lijun said: "I have lifted a 339kg barbell, but the heaviest thing I have ever lifted is this diamond ring, because it represents my commitment to love only one person in my life!" ”
Dr's diamond ring is very special, and when the brand was first founded, it set a romantic rule: men can only customize one ring in their lifetime with an ID card. It can be seen how deep Chen Lijun's love for his girlfriend is.
This year, it is a real "harvest year" for Chen Lijun, he not only successfully proposed marriage, but also achieved a good result of the weightlifting championship in the Olympic Games, which can be described as a double harvest of love and career!
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Chen Lijun was born in Anhua County, Yiyang, Hunan Province, and was a rural baby with poor economic conditions.
Chen Lijun's father was a Hercules, and Chen Lijun felt from an early age that no one could defeat his father because his father's arm strength was too great.
Chen Lijun was very naughty in his childhood, but his father did not dare to hit his son with his hands, so he wanted to beat Chen Lijun with a branch, but because he ran too fast, his father could not catch up.
Her mother was smarter, she knew how to trick Chen Lijun, she said: "You come here, I won't hit you!" Chen Lijun believed it every time, but he was beaten by his mother every time.
Before the age of 10, it was a carefree life for Chen Lijun.
But after Chen Lijun arrived at the provincial team, the changes in his family forced him to grow up. He only knew that his father was not in good health, and when he suddenly learned the bad news of his father's death, he knew that his father's illness was so serious.
Chen Lijun's father suffered from a brain tumor and diabetes, and could not go out to work, and the expenses of the whole family had to be borne by Chen Lijun's mother alone.
That period of time was very difficult for Chen Lijun's mother, she directly told Chen Lijun not to practice, Chen Lijun did not agree, he said: "Then I will not practice, so long suffering, will not eat in vain?" ”
Since then, Chen Lijun felt that the burden on his shoulders had become heavier.
Now he feels sorry that he has achieved good results in weightlifting, but unfortunately his father will never see it again.
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In 2021, Chen Lijun won the gold medal in the men's 67 kg weightlifting competition at the Tokyo Olympic Games with a total of 145 kg in snatch, 187 kg in deadlift and 332 kg. After winning the championship, Chen Lijun was finally able to breathe a sigh of relief.
In fact, Chen Lijun's weightlifting championship was not easy to come by.
In 2016, when Chen Lijun competed in the 62 kg weightlifting competition at the Rio Olympics, he withdrew due to cramps. This was very helpless for the then 23-year-old.
When others mentioned Chen Lijun's game, the young and vigorous man especially wanted to lose his temper, but he resisted. To this day, I dare not look at the picture of the game at that time.
He said: "I can win the championship with a random hand, and there is this accident." If I lose in strength, I admit it. ”
Later, Chen Lijun won the championship after participating in the National Games, which allowed him to slowly come out of the shadows.
Now, Chen Lijun is also slowly relieved. He said, "It's better to be bitter and then sweet than to be sweet and then bitter!" ”
In 2021, when Chen Lijun participated in the weightlifting competition of the Tokyo Olympic Games, he actually lost twice in the trial and deadlift. Fortunately, chen lijun relied on its own strength to win the championship by counterattacking 11 kilograms behind its opponents.
Chen Lijun did not expect that he would actually lose twice, he said that perhaps because he wanted to win too much, but he forgot the action. After the second defeat, Chen Lijun was forced to a desperate road and could only fight in one breath.
After Chen Lijun lifted up for the last time, the pressure of the game and the shadow of withdrawal were completely released.
Chen Lijun, who has accepted the fact that he did not win the Olympic title in 2016, said he was too young to be proud and would not be able to get it after that.
Chen Lijun said: "Things are too simple to take, you will not cherish!" It's too hard, you get it, but it's more cherished! ”
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As an athlete, Chen Lijun basically has no leisure activities, and the whole day is training, treatment, and sleep. They could only stay in their rooms and could not go out, and he had not been out for years to see movies and go shopping.
Even if they are dating their girlfriend Yuan Mei, they are eating at home. Athletes can only drink a little drink and dessert when eating out, and cannot eat meat because of stimulants.
In 2016, Chen Lijun and Yuan Mei met and fell in love at a friend party. After Chen Lijun had no choice but to retire from the game, when he was in the lowest mood, he met his girlfriend Yuan Mei.
After falling in love, Chen Lijun became happy and slowly walked out of the shadow of retirement.
Chen Lijun and his girlfriend Yuan Mei have been in a long-distance relationship for a long time because he has very little vacation. And Yuan Mei is also very considerate of him, rarely complaining that the two people can't see each other, only occasionally she will have a mood, but she will also figure it out on her own.
Yuan Mei admires her boyfriend Chen Lijun very much and thinks he is very good. Yuan Mei looked at the efforts and efforts of her boyfriend Chen Lijun, and she was very distressed, and sometimes even selfishly hoped that he would stop lifting weights or go home.
Yuan Mei knew that this idea was not right, but she just felt that Chen Lijun was training there alone and did not have a family to accompany and take care of him, so she was very distressed about him.
Yuan Mei said: "When he plays, I have a hope, I believe in him, as long as he is not injured, to surpass himself, I don't have too much to ask for." ”
Chen Lijun really met a very good girl, she did not lose her temper because she could not see the object for a long time, and even did not have too many requirements for him, nor did she hope that the object must win the championship, she just hoped that Chen Lijun could not be injured, what a simple wish.
Yuan Mei is very sensible, and she praises Chen Lijun for being quite tolerant of her. And Chen Lijun said that it was all mutual.
In fact, people around them question the long-distance relationship of two people, and they do not believe that the feelings of two people actually come to video calls to maintain, but the feelings of two people are really good.
Chen Lijun's emotional intelligence is quite high, and the host Lu Yu asked him what is the secret of the success of long-distance relationships? Chen Lijun said that because his daughter-in-law was well found.
The couple never quarreled, and as soon as the two people had signs of quarrel, Chen Lijun immediately confessed and surrendered.
Chen Lijun is very much looking forward to the future of family life, he said that he would often take his daughter-in-law out to play and give her a massage.
summary:
Chen Lijun is quite wise and atmospheric about maintaining feelings.
In life, when there are many couples arguing, men will always talk about some truths that girlfriends don't like to hear, two people are deadlocked, no one admits mistakes, or some men directly choose cold violence to escape the problem.
And Chen Lijun is very smart, he knows that both people are angry, it is difficult to be reasonable, so he chooses to immediately admit his mistake and surrender, and his girlfriend's anger will disappear.
After a while, the two people talk calmly, and the girlfriend will not be so angry.
No wonder two people rarely quarrel, men are willing to bow their heads first, both people are willing to be considerate and tolerant of each other, and the feelings will naturally get better and better! I wish Chen Lijun and Yuan Mei a happy and happy life in the future!
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