The famous director Feng Xiaogang had two marriages.
His first wife was named Zhang Di, who wanted to be good-looking, talented, and a good wife and mother.
Between Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di, she also gave birth to a beautiful daughter.
His second wife was Xu Fan, who was also a wise, gentle, considerate, dignified and beautiful woman.
Xu Fan is a native of Jianghan District, Wuhan, born in 1967 in an artistic family, and his parents are both Chu opera actors.
Undoubtedly, such a birth is the envy of many girls of the same age.
Xu Fan grew up watching her parents sing opera, it should be said that she was influenced by a certain degree of art, and she did have a strong interest in opera art.
But maybe she usually speaks less, a little reticent, and Dad thinks that she lacks artistic cells.
It was a bit of a blow to her, and there was even a sense of inferiority.
But fate is not certain, as he grew up, Xu Fan embarked on the road of art, which made his father somewhat surprised.
At the age of 12, Xu Fan was successfully admitted to a drama school, specializing in Qingyi and Huadan. After graduation, he became a juvenile actor in the Wuhan Repertory Theatre.
But what really changed her fate was in 1987, when he met a nobleman named Yang Lixin.
Yang Lixin is very optimistic about Xu Fan, believing that Xu Fan has a talent for acting, and if he studies further, he will definitely have a great achievement in his acting career.
Therefore, with the encouragement and help of Yang Lixin, in 1987, Xu Fan was successfully admitted to the first experimental class jointly organized by the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama and the Beijing People's Art Theater.
In this way, she and Chen Xiaoyi, Jiang Shan, Hu Jun and others became classmates.
After 4 years of hard study, Xu Fan laid a solid foundation in performance theory and performance skills, and became a high-achieving student in Chinese opera.
After graduating from Chinese Opera in 1991, she was assigned to Beijing Renyi. In 1992, the film "The Great Satan" began filming, and Xu Fan played the female lead.
In 1996, with the drama "Ruan Lingyu", Xu Fan won the 13th Drama Plum Blossom Award.
In 1998, in the New Year film "Not Seen, Not Scattered" directed by Feng Xiaogang, Xu Fan served as the female number one.
For everyone, college is a youthful, wonderful, and unforgettable time.
Like many female students, when she went to college, it was also the time when Xu Fan's love dou first opened.
However, no one may have expected that Xu Fan, who had just entered the university, fell in love with his teacher Wang Zhiwen, and he loved him deeply.
At that time, Wang Zhiwen, a cousin of talent, was a handsome man with beautiful women around him, and he was indifferent to some of Xu Fan's intimate actions.
With his personal charm and unique advantages, Wang Zhiwen has touched the hearts of many girls (female students).
His students Pan Jie and He Qing talked with him about the vigorous "teacher-student love" successively, and once chased after him and vowed to "grow old with a white head" with his dear teacher Wang.
When Xu Fan saw Pan Jie, He Qing and other beauties making love to Teacher Wang, the vinegar jar was overturned, and his teeth itched with hatred.
Therefore, in order to "fight for teachers", she used the killer skill - preemptive strike.
She did not stop, directly chased to Wang Zhiwen's dormitory, cooked and washed for Wang Zhiwen, warmly served, and secretly sent Qiu Bo from time to time, warm pulse, and quickly moved Teacher Wang.
In just a few rounds, Xu Fan basically defeated all the love enemies and became Teacher Wang's girlfriend.
It can be seen from this incident that Xu Fan is a very clever woman and a woman with strong executive ability.
Before Xu Fan graduated, he had already generously lived in Wang Zhiwen's dormitory, eating and living and studying together, and Teacher Wang even taught Xu Fan his experience in the world and ancestral exercises without reservation.
This matter has caused a lot of criticism in the Chinese drama, but the parties seem to feel that it does not matter.
However, not long after, Wang Zhiwen heard a bad scandal: Xu Fan had already got together with director Tian Zhuangzhuang and became a "crew couple".
It should be noted that although Tian Zhuangzhuang is not proud of his appearance, and even has a feeling of a bad old man, he is a very good director.
It is said that even when Zhang Yimou saw him, he had to bow his head, and Zhang Kaige had to bow his head when he saw him.
The reason why Xu Fan is involved with him in the crew is definitely "taking what he needs".
But Wang Zhiwen was willing to wear a "green hat", and in a fit of anger, he had a big quarrel with Xu Fan, and then drove Xu Fan out of the dormitory without mercy, and also threw Xu Fan's luggage and belongings to the door, and since then he has parted ways and not interacted with each other.
And Director Xu Fan and Director Tian Zhuangzhuang did not wait for the scene to finish, they went their separate ways.
First driven out of the dormitory by Wang Zhiwen, and then abandoned by Tian Zhuangzhuang, Xu Fan had nowhere to go at this time. There was no way, she could only live with her classmate Chen Xiaoyi in the renyi dormitory.
Fate is a tricky thing, and soon, God arranged for Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang to meet, that is, when the movie "The Great Satan" was filmed in 1992.
At that time, Feng Xiaogang was already famous in the entertainment industry, but he did not like Xu Fan very much, and he once told her about it.
However, when the fate arrived, no one could stop it. With the long time of communication, Feng Xiaogang discovered the advantages of Xu Fan, and Xu Fan also saw the talent of Feng Xiaogang.
Coming and going, several times eyebrows flirted, and by 1993, there was a spark of love between them.
At this time, Xu Fan clearly knew that Feng Xiaogang was married and had a daughter, but she could not control herself and willingly played the role of "Little Three".
However, what Xu Fan did not expect was that Feng Xiaogang was a person who could not hide things in his heart.
Soon after the "underground love" of the two, Feng Xiaogang urgently announced "falling in love with Xu Fan" at the "Golden Rooster Awards Party" and admitted that "we began to fall in love".
It should be said that after falling in love with Feng Xiaogang, Xu Fan's career gradually improved.
She has starred in Feng Xiaogang's "Chicken Feathers in a Place", "Not Seen and Not Scattered", "Party A and Party B", etc., becoming a female star at the level of film queens.
However, what makes Xu Fan distressed is that although Feng Xiaogang acquiesced to the relationship, he did not divorce for a long time. So, she sat on the "little three" seat for 7 years.
In 1999, Feng Xiaogang was under the "face-to-face instruction" of Wang Shuo, a "master of the love field", coupled with Xu Fan's coercion and inducement, Feng Xiaogang and Zhang Di finally agreed to divorce.
After all, Feng Xiaogang is a person with a conscience, and out of guilt for his ex-wife and children, he gave most of his property to Zhang Di, almost leaving the house.
Feng Xiaogang's speed was also quite fast, he divorced Zhang Di on the front foot, and the back foot entered the cave with Xu Fan.
On the day of the license, the two did not hold a wedding ceremony, only ate bowls of noodles at a stall on the side of the road, even if they were officially married.
It is said that although Zhang Di lost her husband, she won her life, made a fortune after divorce, was rich in money, and lived a very moist and happy life.
But in the days after Xu Fan married Feng Xiaogang, he was not as relaxed and comfortable and happy as Zhang Di. Some people even said that Xu Fan was really sad and hateful!
The root of this problem mainly comes from Feng Xiaogang.
First, Feng Xiaogang often did not return home at night, hanging out with some beautiful actresses, of which the improper relationship with Fan Bingbing was the most prominent.
For the vast majority of women, it must be a big jealous thing, and it can't be tolerated.
But Xu Fan always believed that Feng Xiaogang had given her a warm home and was full of gratitude to him, so he chose to be "content and happy" and repeatedly gave in to tolerance.
What's even more ridiculous is that when it comes to her husband's tired derailment, Xu Fan is also amazing when he faces reporters!
She said: "Count one as one, fall under our guns, I will not suffer." ”
She also said: "I never expected him to change his bad habits, because I can tolerate what others can't tolerate, and anyway, my men don't suffer losses." ”
Some people joked that maybe this is Xu Fan's cleverness, she looks like a small white rabbit on the surface, but she is actually more ruthless than we think.
It is precisely because she has endured her husband's affair again and again, and her heart is very deep, so many years have been able to let her sit firmly in the position of the main palace.
Second, in 2007, Feng Xiaogang suffered from vitiligo, and his face was covered with white spots, and it continued to spread.
Vitiligo, commonly known as "flower face disease", is a chronic skin disease that has little impact on life expectancy except for the appearance.
Therefore, Feng Dao did not take the "flower face disease" to heart, but only took conservative treatment. It is precisely because of the lack of attention in thinking that Feng Dao often gathers with friends to drink when he is happy.
However, Xu Fan believes that drinking alcohol will aggravate the "flower face disease" disease, and always advises her husband not to drink.
But once, when she saw her husband toasting with a few friends, she said to Feng Dao, "Your vitiligo doesn't want to be good, how dare you drink so much?" ”
Feng Xiaogang is a very faceless director, he was immediately embarrassed and angry, directly stood up and gave Xu Fan a slap: "This is Lao Tzu's hobby, or let me not live?" ”
After being slapped, Xu Fan burst into tears and cried, very sad.
However, what makes her even more sad is that the doctor said that vitiligo will be passed on to the next generation.
This made Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang stunned, because it meant that if the disease was not cured, the two could not have children between them, and Xu Fan's wish to become a mother would also be disappointed.
However, people are not as good as heaven, and Feng Xiaogang's "flower face disease" is not only not controlled, but it is constantly deteriorating, making the two mouths miserable.
Helplessly, Xu Fan had to give up his plan to become a mother and said to Feng Xiaogang: It is better that we adopt a child first, and wait until your illness is cured.
Feng Xiaogang nodded in agreement, and later, the two adopted a girl and named duo'er. Today, Doll has become the spiritual comfort of the couple.
Because he failed to make Xu Fan a real mother, Feng Xiaogang has always felt sorry for Xu Fan.
And Xu Fan always comforted him, as long as the two of us are old and old, life and death are dependent on each other.
Author: Wild Mango