What does a woman's life look like? "I have lived my life like this", women's steps are difficult, "I have lived a life like this" can be said to have vividly expressed the past society and a woman's life. This is the first manifestation of the authenticity of the film, that is, the authenticity of the characters. The second point is that the characters' experiences are real. The third point lies in the authenticity of the characters' emotions.

There is a line in Yang Dechang's film "Yiyi" that says: After the invention of film, at least three times longer our lives.

The existence of the movie allows us to see a completely different world and life outside of our own vision, and we can also condense a person's life into just a few hours, and after watching it, it seems that we have experienced this life.

Many people criticize that the current film is not profound, in large part because it is "not grounded". Take the most popular movie theme, youth films.

Youth tablets can be small and fresh, can be vigorous, and can also be very bloody. However, the most touching youth films are nothing more than those that depict the real life of students.

At the age presented in the youth film, students have the pursuit of dreams, the hormonal restlessness, the recklessness and enthusiasm of the unknown world, and the confusion about the future. Such youth is immature, complex, but at the same time wonderful.

To show all the youth films as desperate to fall in love, all for the sake of falling in love, is obviously very superficial and not close to life.

And "I've Lived Like This", after watching the movie, you will only feel two words: real, too real, so real that you dare not watch it a second time.

The heroine of the film is a very ordinary woman, she is gentle, a standard good wife and mother, but also strong, silently endure in the face of all sudden disasters, but at the same time full of tragedy, very pitiful.

The time span of the film is very large, and the heroine has been looking for a fiancé from Nanjing to Taiwan from young to old and old.

I believe that many people have seen this experience and feel the same way.

The first twist in her fate was that she went to Taiwan without finding her fiancé and lived under the fence at her cousin's house. This feeling is unbearable for many people, especially young people with strong self-esteem, so they hurriedly found a middle-aged man who already had children to marry. However, unexpectedly, this choice has since determined the second half of her life. This reflects the impermanence and teasing of fate.

If you find a good person, you can live a life of peace and keep to yourself, but the male protagonist loves gambling and raises women outside.

This kind of behavior is now, especially on the Internet, and it will definitely be blamed for death. But in the era at that time, in the situation of the heroine, coupled with her beautiful and gentle and stoic personality, such behavior only made her life more difficult.

This reflects the dismal reality of the low status of women in the era and their attachment to the bleak reality that men could not control their own destiny.

Later, the heroine also experienced a lot, some went to Japan to work and suffered discrimination, and some went home to start a business, but the contradiction with their children was difficult to resolve.

In short, the heroine's life can be said to be very bleak, in fact, it also shows some things that ordinary people will experience in their lives.

Many times, it is difficult for us to express our feelings for a person with a love or hate, and more often than not, various feelings are intertwined.

The heroine's husband, in our current vision, is an out-and-out scumbag, an incompetent man, and the heroine is an incomparably great and kind woman.

So when such a woman meets such a man, should she hate him and blame him?

The movie does not have such a simple binary expression of the heroine's feelings.

The character of the heroine is a very typical traditional woman. Gentle on the surface, but stubborn on the inside; seemingly weak, but in fact very strong self-esteem. Her compassion and kindness are intertwined, and we can say that she, more cowardly, cannot get rid of this man, but it is too difficult to put into practice, and the more kind of kind of kind of woman who is soft-hearted, the more vulnerable she is to suffer such a fate.

The heroine hates this man, but in the long life, the feelings between two people are not so much the love and hate between men and women, but rather the feeling of living together for a lifetime.

Therefore, when the heroine is old, in front of the hospital bed, tell the children that when it is okay, let their father play cards, and when they are old, they have no other hobbies, otherwise they will be lonely.

When I saw this scene, it brought tears to my eyes. When this life is over, all the graces and grievances have dissipated, and what remains is his own kind and sympathetic heart, the final tolerance and understanding of others.

So through this kind, we see an incomparably real female image.

In today's society, there are still a large number of such women, who are subject to unhappy marriages, but still guard their families and tolerate the people around them with their kindness and generosity and strength.

When everyone else is happy, I am the only one who has lived in the dark, but faces others with sunshine.

Such a woman can not be described as great, but it is also tragic, only hope that everyone can get the same dignity and love in a relationship, if not, then it is better to be proud to become the king of their own life.

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