Daughter: Mom, why did you give birth to me?
Me: Because I love you!
Daughter: That dad doesn't love me.
Me: Dad loves you very much, it's just that the way he loves you don't like it.
Daughter: You have the right to choose whether to give birth to me or not, but I don't.
Me: Exactly. But you have the right and freedom to live your people the way you want them to be, and we don't.