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In the current hit drama "Under the Warm Sun", Guo Xiaodong plays Guan Zheng, a standard diamond elite man, whose career has progressed by leaps and bounds, but his feelings are like a pool of stagnant water.
Unlike the characters in the play, Guo Xiaodong's experience is very bumpy. He was born in Dafangqian Village, Fangqian Town, Junan County, Linyi City, Shandong Province, because of his poor family, in order to alleviate the pressure of his parents' lives, he dropped out of school to work in the second year of junior high school.
In fact, there is another reason, when the second grade of junior high school, the school requires a tuition fee of 34 yuan. In those days, $34 was a huge sum of money for a poor family.
The sensible Guo Xiaodong chose to drop out of school, but after dropping out of school, he did not complain about the world, but changed his fate by his own hands.
Guo Xiaodong entered the county printing factory and became a printer, although the days were hard, he worked hard and faced everything that life gave with an optimistic attitude.
Guo Xiaodong also has an older brother, named Guo Xiaofeng, both brothers like to sing and perform, they often find some small stories from newspapers or newspapers discarded by others, and rehearse them into sketches, just like the epitome of film and television dramas, the two enjoy it.
Bill Gates said: "Life is unfair, get used to it." Remember, never complain! ”
In the face of the fact that "the wood has become a boat", no matter how much complaining is in vain, what we need to do is to stop complaining, accept the reality, and redouble our efforts.
The turning point of fate occurred in 1992, when Guo Xiaodong, who was not yet 20 years old, saw in a magazine that the Beijing Film Academy held an actors' summer camp, so he did not hesitate to sign up for it, and later became a North Drifter in Beijing. The following year, my brother also came to Beijing and became a member of the Army of the North Drift.
This summer camp of more than half a month has allowed Guo Xiaodong to understand the wonder and prosperity of the world, and also made him more passionate about performance. When he visited the Beijing Film Studio, he was struck by the magic of the film.
When Guo Xiaodong saw the enrollment information of the Beijing Film Academy, he went to the exam with the mentality of trying it out.
Although he did not pass the first time, he did not give up, and only ate one pack of instant noodles for 3 days when he was poorest.
With strong perseverance and the encouragement of his brother, Guo Xiaodong was finally successfully admitted to Nortel, and his life trajectory is about to change.
Being admitted to film school is a dream of many people, and Guo Xiaodong is naturally very happy, but the next tuition fee makes him worry.
The tuition fee of the film school has to pay more than 10,000 yuan, and their family has only reached 4,000 yuan in total, which is still far away.
Later, guo Xiaodong was relieved to learn the news that "there is no student file and cannot be admitted". He said to the teacher, "Forget it."
For Guo Xiaodong's reply, the teacher was very confused, he had never met such a student, thousands of people desperately wanted to step into the threshold of this college, but he said lightly that it was "forget it".
Later, after several understandings, the teacher learned that he dropped out of junior high school and did not go to high school, so there was no file, but if the school made up the certificate, it could still be adjusted.
Therefore, the teacher secretly helped Guo Xiaodong to run the student file, and then informed him that he could come to school. As for the archives, the teacher never mentioned it to him.
After entering the school, the teacher took good care of Guo Xiaodong, and at the teacher's behest, the students often distributed their own meals to him, the reason is: their own meals are too much, please ask him to help solve it, so as not to waste.
When the students went on an outing together, Guo Xiaodong did not need to bring anything, and there was always a teacher or classmate who helped him prepare his share.
Another time, an advertiser asked several beautiful girls in the class to shoot advertisements, and each person could get an honorarium of 2,000 yuan.
When asking for the teacher's consent, the teacher proposed an additional condition: "It is okay to shoot advertisements, but you must bring Guo Xiaodong." ”
At first, the advertising agency was reluctant because the advertisement only needed female models, but the teacher insisted on this condition, and then the advertising agency compromised and agreed to the teacher's request.
On the shooting scene, Guo Xiaodong did everything in his power to show off eighteen martial arts, in order not to embarrass the teacher. His earnestness made the students and directors present give him a thumbs up.
After the advertisement was filmed, Guo Xiaodong also got a reward of 2,000 yuan, but he did not know that there was no shot of him in the final advertisement, because this advertisement only needed the performance of a few girls.
Guo Xiaodong did not know about this until a TV show.
Since you are studying acting, the class often engages in activities, and on holidays, it is necessary to party to perform something, and the class requires each student to pay a class fee of 2,000 yuan.
But from the beginning of the school to the graduation, for 4 years, Guo Xiaodong did not know that there was a class fee, because he had never paid it.
Why?
Because the teacher told the class president not to charge his class fee, the other 22 students in the class never revealed the payment fee.
This class collective is so loving!
Why did Guo Xiaodong's teacher hide the truth of the matter? The reason for this goes without saying.
Just think, if Guo Xiaodong knew the truth when everyone helped him, then his heart would definitely increase more burdens, and he would feel more pressure, and maybe he would leave the stage of his dreams.
For a rural child who is inferior and introverted and dignified, accepting the help of others in vain, what he feels in his heart is not only guilt, but also unhappy.
The teacher was well aware of this truth, so he hid the truth of the matter and let the students silently help him. Without the kind deception of teachers and classmates, Guo Xiaodong is likely not to become such an excellent actor as he is now.
Sometimes, without understanding the truth, life will be happier.
Guo Xiaodong's teacher is Cui Xinqin, if there is no teacher Cui, there may not be Guo Xiaodong today. From a rural child to a first-line film and television star, it seems to be staging a miracle.
Meeting Teacher Cui is the luck of Guo Xiaodong's life.
Maupassant said: "Life is never as good as we think, but it will never be as bad as we think." ”
Real life is like this, there are good and bad, and in the face of some things, you really don't have to pursue his truth too much, if you pursue the truth too much, maybe you will lose everything.
After becoming famous, Guo Xiaodong has something different from other stars, whether it is after he became famous or once a teenager who just arrived in Beijing, he has been a low-key person and acted steadily for so many years.
The image of a simple, kind, and generous good man created by Guo Xiaodong on the screen is not only because of his acting skills, but also because he has experienced the hardships of life.
Nowadays, Guo Xiaodong has worked hard with his own efforts, not only has his career succeeded, but his marriage with his wife Cheng Lisha is also happy and happy, and he has a lovely son.
People's life is like this, ups and downs, one second you may still be standing on the top of the mountain overlooking everyone, the next second will fall to the bottom of the valley to the extreme, the more prosperous, the more you must remain sober and rational.
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