It is said that women chase men and layer yarn, but Cheng Lisha, who was born in Shuxiangmendi, chased Guo Xiaodong, who was born in the countryside, but repeatedly hit a wall. It is not easy to be together, and it is also the humble side.
Cheng Lisha
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"I am Guo Xiaodong's wife." On almost any occasion, Cheng Lisha introduced herself in this way. It seems that in her subconscious, she is Guo Xiaodong's wife first, followed by Cheng Lisha.
In the "Wife's Romantic Trip" program, she does not leave her husband Guo Xiaodong in three sentences, as if Guo Xiaodong has become the center point of her entire world. For his sake, she was willing to humble herself to dust.
Cheng Lisha's self-introduction
What really surprised everyone was that Cheng Lisha confessed that she had been cruelly dumped more than twenty times after she had chased Guo Xiaodong.
After many years of separation and integration, and finally under his own unremitting efforts, this relationship was able to end well, and finally entered the palace of marriage.
Cheng Lisha confessed to frequent breakups
As soon as this remark came out, a fierce discussion was immediately set off. After all, for most people, it is a very embarrassing thing for girls to actively pursue boys.
But Cheng Lisha was good, not only chased after others, but also abandoned so many times, still not abandoned. This is really curious, how much love must be loved to be so generous?
Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong
For the doubts of the crowd, Cheng Lisha also laughed and talked about the past. How is it possible not to complain? In fact, she had asked herself over and over again, was it really necessary for him? Or let it go.
It's funny to say, after weighing it up again and again, the answer is really that he has to. Speaking of this, Cheng Lisha smiled bitterly, and the smile contained too many grievances and helplessness.
Cheng Lisha bluntly said that he had to
Today, Cheng Lisha, who is in her forties, has not hesitated to get more than 100 injections in her stomach in order to fight for the second child.
But even if the endocrine system is seriously disturbed, even if the pressure is so great that there is depression in the spirit, and the state of the whole person is super bad, she still has not given up. It seems that having children for the man she loves has become an essential part of her life.
More than 100 injections were given for the second child
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Cheng Lisha rarely appears in front of the audience now, so many people don't know that she is actually an actress.
Graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy, Cheng Lisha entered the show business circle in 2002 for starring in the TV series "Love Code", and has since participated in many excellent TV series.
Stills from "The Love Code"
After getting married and having children, she changed from "actress Cheng Lisha" to "actor Guo Xiaodong's wife". She changed from the proud literary young woman to the full-time wife of her husband's godson.
At the beginning, he resolutely chose to retire for the sake of the person he loved, and wholeheartedly became a housewife. But ten years have passed in a hurry, and now Cheng Lisha suddenly turned back, but helplessly found that today's entertainment industry, I don't know when it has long since lost its place.
Cheng Lisha talks about acting career
Cheng Lisha said: "It seems that since I got married, someone has constantly asked me how do I plan to balance the relationship between family and career? But sadly, no one ever asked my husband this question. It was as if marriage was all my business. ”
After marriage, because of his traditional thinking, she never wore a knee-baring skirt and had not traveled alone for ten years.
She said that as long as Guo Xiaodong needed it, she would immediately go to his side. Even if the boat is tired, even if she is tired, she will go to him and overcome all the good in this world.
She said that he did not have to give gifts during the New Year's Festival, only responsible for loving her, gifts she would buy herself, and she would earn money herself.
And Guo Xiaodong, born in the countryside, ran the dragon set in his early years, and when he was a group performance, when he was the poorest, a bag of instant noodles was broken into three days to eat.
Therefore, he had some inferiority in his bones, and in the face of the pursuit of the rich woman Cheng Lisha, he instinctively chose to refuse.
Guo Xiaodong
He thought she was just trying to be fresh, and when the momentum passed, he would turn around and fall in love with someone else.
But this time he was wrong, Cheng Lisha seemed to have already identified him, and chased after him, never abandoned.
Since she's so insistent, let's try to be together.
Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha
Guo Xiaodong only weighed the pros and cons, and felt that Cheng Lisha was not bad, but Cheng Lisha jumped up happily and threw herself wholeheartedly into this relationship.
When he finally decided to enter marriage, we don't know what kind of attitude Guo Xiaodong had.
But the person who invested more was definitely Cheng Lisha.
Cheng Lisha said to herself
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The favored are always fearless.
After getting married, Guo Xiaodong was even more spoiled by Cheng Lisha's life and could not take care of himself at all.
He didn't know what the keys to the house looked like, where their first date was, her preferences, and much less her grievances.
Cheng Lisha pets Guo Xiaodong
Maybe he knew her dream, but chose to pretend to be deaf and dumb, and enjoy all her good with peace of mind.
When Cheng Lisha regretted stopping "Sister Lang 2", he was not distressed, but just shouted over the air to let her go home quickly and cook.
He was her dream, but the stage was also her soul's dream.
Guo Xiaodong shouted in the air
When asked what he thought of his wife's distant dreams and lost feelings, Guo Xiaodong only had a fluttering thank you and a guilt that did not know whether it was true or false in his eyes.
But what Cheng Lisha needs is not this, but his sincere concern and meticulous care.
Guo Xiaodong coaxed Cheng Lisa
For the sake of this family, she put her life and dreams aside, and her husband and godson had no complaints or regrets, and did not ask him to be grateful to Dade, but asked him to understand his own difficulties.
There is also a clip that countless viewers feel sad after watching it.
Cheng Lisha, who usually seems to be grinning and fearless, was asked in an interview what her biggest wish was at present, and she actually stammered and said: "In fact, I still hope that he can chase me once, so many years I have chased after him, and it is false to think that I am not sorry." Then his voice choked and he didn't say a word.
Cheng Lisha confessed that she wanted to be chased once
It can be seen that even if Cheng Lisha is strong on the surface and strong in the heart, she is still a little woman who hopes to be held in the palm of her hand and seriously loved.
Guo Xiaodong always praised Cheng Lisha outside, how well he took care of him, and even took care of him so that he did not even have the basic ability to take care of himself. But he seemed to have overlooked a point, even the omnipotent Cheng Lisha hoped that he could care more about himself.
If you can be a little woman, who would want to be a woman?
In a family, there must always be someone to sacrifice a little more, Guo Xiaodong is not willing, then it can only be Cheng Lisha.
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If Cheng Lisha can bravely jump out of the "family circle" of her husband's godson, no longer surround her husband Guo Xiaodong in every detail, to bravely pursue her dreams, then will she also live her own style, will she also proudly say again: "I am the actor Cheng Lisha"?
Cheng Lisha's early years
When talking about the way marriage is run, Cheng Lisha is a little self-deprecating, saying that she is living less and less like herself. Even if you give everything in your marriage, few people will really see the bitterness behind her and listen to her voice.
To outsiders, they are like a model couple, but what outsiders can't see is that she, as a wife's party, actually spends more time and energy to maintain this marriage. Even many times, she learned to pretend to be stupid and seek perfection, so that this marriage can go long.
Cheng Lisha burst into tears
Coincidentally, the same is true of the big S couple who have always had good feelings in the eyes of the outside world. Before getting married, Big S was a well-known weight loss guru, the beauty king.
But after getting married, in order to have a healthy baby, she began to gain weight, began to reduce the use of makeup, and induced epilepsy during childbirth, vomiting and fainting and bleeding, and she encountered them all. She once loved beauty as her life, and took her life to give birth to their child for Wang Xiaofei.
Big S family of three
A generation of goddess Zhong Liti, known for her sexiness in the circle. But in order to have a child with her husband Zhang Lunshou, who is twelve years younger than herself, she is still desperately trying to get an injection at the age of nearly 50.
Even if her figure is completely out of shape and swollen to the point of no beauty, she is still willing to eat. In her mind, having a child for her beloved is the happiest thing in the world.
Zhong Liti and Zhang Lunshuo
Elderly childbirth problems, children's education problems, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions, husband and wife emotional problems... The monster that can't be beaten, the level that can't be upgraded.
Every level is deadly.
So is Cheng Lisha really happy? We don't know.
Even if her heart has long been fragile, even if she has long since lost herself, even if there are a hundred disappointed thoughts in private, she still forced a smile when facing the camera, saying that all this was her willingness.
Perhaps she still has the greatest vision of love and the greatest yearning for marriage. Even if you are disappointed a hundred times, you still can't die.
Maybe one day, she really waited for Guo Xiaodong's "chasing her once".
Although in marriage, the giving is often not directly proportional to the gain. The more you give, the more the other party feels that it is deserved, and the less you naturally get. The higher the cost, the lower the bargaining power and the higher the sunk cost.
But I think Cheng Lisa knows this better than any of us.
Do your best for what you want in your heart, and always be sober and willing to do everything.
Even if she still can't get her wish in the end, she has loved this scene.
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