When actor Guo Xiaodong petitioned to talk about married life, he said with a smile on his face: "At home, she poured water." I just need to shout Cheng Lisa."
Logically speaking, any woman who is "instructed" by her husband like this must not be able to endure for long.
But Cheng Lisha is different, she does not feel that there is any problem in doing so, but is happy to take care of her husband.
Cheng Lisha, who did not meet Guo Xiaodong before, is a petite girl in the family, who has been spoiled since childhood.
But after being with Guo Xiaodong, Cheng Lisha continued to pay, and the two divided more than 20 times before entering marriage.
People around me said: "If you can't stay like this for a long time, sooner or later you will have to divorce."
Cheng Lisha smiled and said nothing, life is her own life, what is the use of what others say? Her husband gave her a sense of security, and she was willing to spoil her husband so that he could not live without her.
After 15 years of marriage, Cheng Lisha is still very happy, she can snuggle in her husband's arms without worries and enjoy the silent afternoon...
01, the love of a petite girl and a poor boy
In 1977, Cheng Lisha was born in Hubei.
"Sasha, it's time for egg custard"! In the 70s, it was difficult to eat an egg.
Many people can't eat meat for a month, but Cheng Lisha's family can eat eggs and meat every day. Cheng Lisha's favorite is to eat egg soup, a bowl of smooth eggs, sprinkled with a little green onion will be delicious.
Cheng Lisha ate egg soup and told her mother that she wanted to eat chicken legs.
Mom touched her head, smiled softly and said, "Okay, let Dad buy you one tomorrow".
Cheng Lisha's room is a standard princess room, with a lot of pink hanging ornaments, and even the curtains are delicate pink embroidery.
There is a skirt in the wardrobe for each color, but when Cheng Lisha is shopping, when she sees a dress she likes, her parents and grandparents will buy it for her.
When Cheng Lisha was in high school, she suddenly came home one day and told her parents that she was going to drama school and becoming a big star in the future. The mother thought about it and didn't quite agree, afraid that if she went to a strange city, she would be bullied by others.
For the family, it is more desirable that she stay in the local area to attend college so that she can return home during the holidays. But Cheng Lisha was determined to go to the drama school, and she cried, made trouble and hanged herself at home.
Grandparents saw that their granddaughter liked acting so much, so they directly clapped and let her learn, and there was no shortage of money at home, and her granddaughter could learn whatever she wanted.
In those days, the people who could go to drama school were either struggling or some had a lot of money at home. And Cheng Lisha, the kind of person who has a lot of money at home, just went to drama school because of love.
In 1997, Cheng Lisha, who had a good academic performance, entered the drama to study and became Tong Dawei's classmate.
Cheng Lisha in college, there are countless suitors, but she can't look at any of them.
A friend in the same bedroom asked her, why don't you fall in love? Cheng Lisha thought for a while: "I think they are too immature."
In fact, she has never met a person who has never met a heartbeat.
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During the 4 years of college, Cheng Lisha lived a very dull life, she did not go to the crew to film, nor did she go out to shoot advertisements and shoot short videos like other students.
For her, college time should be leisurely.
In 2002, Cheng Lisha graduated, and her first play was to be the female number two in "Love Code".
At that time, she played a lot of opponents with the female number one, so the first filming left a deep memory on everyone. Although this work did not make her popular, it also allowed her to get the attention of many directors.
It's just that love seems to favor her more than her career.
In 2003, Cheng Lisha entered the crew of the movie "Warm", and when filming, she met the poor boy Guo Xiaodong.
Guo Xiaodong's family is very difficult, and his parents are farmers.
When he was in junior high school, he had no choice but to drop out of school because he could not pay the tuition fees. When the young Guo Xiaodong broke into society, he suffered a lot, and when he was poorest, he didn't even have a place to live.
He slept on a park bench and rested in a stairwell in a building. Later, after years of struggle, he had the money to take the Northern Film exam, but unfortunately his cultural class was too poor and he was not admitted.
After experiencing failure, Guo Xiaodong continued to make money, studied in Beijing, and was finally admitted to the Beijing Film Film during the second exam.
In the years of college, he did a lot of things, did chores in the crew, went to run tricks, as long as there was work, he never refused.
After years of hard work, he finally waited for graduation, but he could only play a small supporting role in the crew. The salary is pitifully low, but fortunately there is a free box lunch to eat, allowing him to save a lot of living expenses.
After chatting with Guo Xiaodong for the first time, Cheng Lisha was full of good feelings for him. Soon after, she started the love of the "women chasing men" mode.
02, divided and merged more than 20 times, and finally got married
Cheng Lisha's first confession was a failure, and Guo Xiaodong decisively refused, saying that the two were not suitable at all.
At that time, Cheng Lisha was not short of money, but she followed Guo Xiaodong every day, and sometimes she didn't even take a taxi, but followed him to take the bus.
Once, Guo Xiaodong saw Cheng Lisha and ran onto the bus, and Cheng Lisha also hurried to catch up, but as a result, he couldn't even get a dime of bus money.
Guo Xiaodong's ears were all red, and he was very embarrassed in the car, burying his head and not daring to look at the driver or Cheng Lisha behind.
After Cheng Lisha saw it, she immediately pulled him out of the car: "Why did you hide when you saw me"?
Cheng Lisha saw that Guo Xiaodong did not speak, and asked him if he didn't like himself? If she doesn't like it, she won't pester him again.
Seeing that Cheng Lisha was angry, Guo Xiaodong was even more anxious, and he plucked up the courage to speak: "I like you, but I don't deserve it."
Before the words were finished, Cheng Lisha had already hugged him and comforted: "I know you have no money, but I still like you very much."
Cheng Lisha's love made Guo Xiaodong's heart pound, and the two fell in love.
But later in the relationship, the two quarreled because of some small contradictions. Break up without a word, but after the breakup, Cheng Lisa will chase Guo Xiaodong again.
She herself is also very entangled, obviously angry with the other party's approach, but still wants to be with the other party.
Perhaps, liking and deep love are not the same, if only liking, she will be uncomfortable breaking up, and will think of finding a better one.
But loving each other deeply is different, and if you leave, you will still miss it.
Later, Guo Xiaodong's career failed repeatedly, and he didn't have the heart to fall in love, so he took the initiative to break up with Cheng Lisha.
Cheng Lisha left very decisively, but soon after she found Guo Xiaodong again, and the two continued to fall in love. The friends around them have advised the two not to torture each other like this anymore, since they love each other, they will be together well.
Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong always broke up because of some small things, and soon got back together.
In 3 years, the two have been separated and merged more than ten times, and falling in love is like "a child passing home".
The last time the two broke up, it was Guo Xiaodong who proposed it, and he felt that Cheng Lisa was like a little princess, her family was good, she also had culture, and she was not worthy of it.
Under the influence of inferiority, he still endured the pain and proposed to break up.
Cheng Lisha was disappointed and felt that he didn't understand his love at all. That breakup was the longest, and no one contacted anyone in two years.
Until a concert two years later, Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong met again, they looked at each other, they were so familiar and strange.
But the heart, which had long been cold, still couldn't help beating.
"Guo Xiaodong, we really have a fate, do you say it is"? Cheng Lisha looked at Guo Xiaodong, her eyes full of expectation.
At that moment, they felt that meeting each other was a destined fate, and no matter how many times they broke up, they would always inadvertently meet again.
Cheng Lisha's friend, seeing the two get back together, felt very amazing. Cheng Lisha feels that there is nothing magical, he is the lover given to him by God.
Guo Xiaodong cherished this opportunity very much, and at the same time, his career also improved, and he began to have filming and became popular. His career has improved, and love has also made him feel warm.
In 2007, before proposing, Guo Xiaodong asked Cheng Lisha a question: "There is some machismo in my thinking, if you want to take care of me after marriage, will you annoy me"?
"I love you so I don't get annoyed". Cheng Lisha's answer moved Guo Xiaodong very much.
Soon after, Guo Xiaodong took the initiative to propose, and the two successfully registered.
The moment Cheng Lisa got the marriage certificate, she posted a social platform and told her friends.
Unfortunately, everyone feels that the two have been separated and united so many times, and their relationship is not stable at all, and they will have to divorce sooner or later in the future.
Cheng Lisha did not refute, nor did she ask others to bless herself. She feels that life is her own life, and it doesn't matter what others say.
03. Spoil her husband as a "waste" after marriage
After the two received the certificate, the wedding was held in the husband's hometown.
Guo Xiaodong's father died early, and his mother was old, so he was unable to handle it.
After Cheng Lisha found out, she told her husband that he went to film, and the affairs of the family were solved by her. As a result, the key person of this wedding became Cheng Lisha alone.
She had to take care of her mother-in-law while handling the affairs of the wedding, and her husband did not return from the crew until a few days before the wedding.
The wedding of the two was very simple, did not cost much, and invited some local relatives to attend. For the little couple, that's enough.
After marriage, Cheng Lisha gave up filming in order to take care of her family.
After she became a full-time wife, the financial pressure at home was all on her husband, so Guo Xiaodong could only work harder to make money by filming in order to support the family.
In 2009, Guo Xiaodong starred in works such as "Jiangshan Beauty" and "Autumn Joy", which exploded after their release.
Although Guo Xiaodong did not become a hit, he was also famous and received a lot of salary.
However, with more pay, less money on him. Since Cheng Lisha became a housewife, he has issued two cards, one for his wife and one for his own use.
The one on his body, there is not a penny in it, and he will use as much as his wife gives. And the wife's one, inside is his full salary.
Cheng Lisha will take the initiative to give her husband some money, she feels that her husband is running away, and he also needs some entertainment, and he will be laughed at if he has no money.
Guo Xiaodong was reluctant to spend money, so he saved all the money, and when the family was short of money, he took out all the money he had saved.
In 2010, Cheng Lisha gave birth to a son, and after confinement, she took care of the child alone.
Her husband was at home, and she didn't let Guo Xiaodong cook a meal and sweep the ground once.
Once, Guo Xiaodong was going to cook, and Cheng Lisha immediately grabbed it: "Are you so tired at work, can't you sit down and take a good rest"?
Guo Xiaodong didn't say a word, and was kicked out of the kitchen by his wife, who was busy in the kitchen alone.
Guo Xiaodong still wanted to enter the kitchen, but his wife looked at him angrily, and he had to go to the sofa to rest.
At first, Guo Xiaodong would feel uncomfortable, but as time passed, he also enjoyed his wife's care more and more. Later, as soon as Guo Xiaodong returned home and drank a glass of water, he just shouted his wife's name.
This kind of life, for him, is very happy, and it is also the marriage lifestyle he most expects in his heart.
When his mother saw him like this, she said that he was raised by his wife as a "waste", and Guo Xiaodong smiled and said: "She loves me and will tolerate me like this."
The lifestyle of the two often makes the people around them not optimistic, but the two enjoy it and do not feel uncomfortable at all.
After 15 years of marriage, Guo Xiaodong's world has a career and marriage. But in Cheng Lisha's world, there are only families and children. It seems that the two are not on the same channel, but the two love each other deeply.
Epilogue:
Many people see Cheng Lisha's dedication to her family, and will think that she is a typical "love brain", paying for each other until she loses herself.
But everyone ignores that Guo Xiaodong has been in the circle for so many years, but has there ever been a scandal?
His love for Cheng Lisha is invisible.
Although Cheng Lisha took care of him more when they got along with each other, if Guo Xiaodong did not give Cheng Lisha enough security, would she be willing to give up her career and return to her family?
Debuting for more than 20 years, no scandals, and no turning over with his wife once, Guo Xiaodong's tolerance and love for marriage are no less than Cheng Lisha.