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What is the biggest advantage of Lü Hou? What are some girls worth learning now?

There were only two peasant uprisings in Chinese history that successfully overthrew the tyranny of the previous dynasty and eventually changed the Yuan dynasty to the founding of the country, of which the first successful was Liu Bang's White Snake Rebellion and the final establishment of the Han Dynasty, which had a profound impact on history for 400 years. As a self-made man who has achieved a great cause in the past, Liu Bang is naturally shocking the ancient and the present, which makes people sigh endlessly! However, I think that what surprised and deeply amazed the world even more should be her original --- Lü Yan, that is, the later Lü Hou.

Why? Because they are not only married to each other, but they are united in the context of their disparity in status, and they have always loved each other. According to historical records, When Liu Bang was young, he was just a pavilion chief in Surabaya, and today he is the secretary of the village committee, and he is idle all day, calling for friends and companions, and not doing the right thing. However, at this time, Lü Yan, a squire with a solid family, took a fancy to him, and in order to marry him, she also brought two boxes of gold from the family as a dowry, and was dead set on being with Liu Bang.

In the eyes of the world, she was a strange person and a joke, but she didn't care. Because she felt that her husband was an extraordinary person and could definitely create a great deed. Bear children for him, do housework, accompany him to suffer and even suffer, and endure what ordinary people cannot tolerate.

Although the process was a little difficult, she may have thought of retreating, but she still persevered, no matter how hard it was, she gritted her teeth and persevered, even when Chu Han was fighting for herself and her children were captured by Xiang Yu, she still did not maintain absolute trust in Liu Bang, because she always firmly believed that her husband Liu Bang was the best man under the heavens, would definitely succeed, and would definitely save her out...

In the end, she succeeded and became the happiest woman under the heavens. Her husband, Liu Bang, seized the world and became the empress of ten thousand people under one person, and then became the empress dowager.

It can be said that Lü Hou is the most discerning and intelligent woman under the heavens, and her vision can penetrate history and shine into the future. Her vision, wisdom, boldness, and extraordinary self-confidence are not only in any past era, but also in the time of the time, or in the future, and there is no one else. I think Qu Yuan's sentence "There is no one before and no one after" is more suitable for her.

Therefore, to choose a good man, it is necessary to see if he has potential, not to see what he has specific ready-made things. Good men are like good stocks, low open high and step by step, although the speed of rise is not necessarily fast, but as long as the upward trend is maintained, it will eventually reach the top; but if it is high and far away, the choice is wrong, then "high open low walk" is followed by endless trapping.

Girls at the crossroads, what do you think?

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