A girl named Wanjun, a thousand kinds of love, all in one, suddenly looking back, cold and clear...
Qiong Yao drama "Wanjun" is our post-80s memory, when we were particularly envious of Wanjun being loved by three excellent brothers at the same time, and secretly fantasized that when she grew up, if she was chased by many boys, it must be a very happy thing
Later, when it comes to adolescence, it is sad to find that it is not a good thing to be liked by many people, because when others like you and you don't like it, for his dedication, the heart will be very repulsive, and you will be rejected, the problem is that he is not good enough
Back to the point, among the three brothers, Bo Jian's age is too different from them, always giving people a sense of stability and old age, so for young boys and girls who are about 16 years old, his depth seems to be incompatible with them; and although the old third uncle Hao is older than Wanjun, he does not appear to be more mature than the precocious Wanjun, appearing innocent, so it is not suitable for love
Zhongkang is slightly older than Wanjun, and he is a young man who has received a new type of education, has ideals and ambitions, and is full of youthful passion, so it is easier to arouse the fascination of young people. Therefore, Zhongkang is undoubtedly the most suitable candidate for Wan jun, at least we in front of the TV set think so
Later, Zhongkang did not have Wanjun together after all, and once made us grumble, why can't two people who love each other be together?
After many years, we revisited the TV again, only to find that Zhongkang's love for Wanjun seemed impulsive and superficial, and he was not suitable for Wanjun.
Bing Xin once said:
People's left hand is love, right hand is sympathy, people walk on their own road throughout their lives and continue to sow seeds left and right, then when you reach the end, you will find that your life road is full of gorgeous flowers, and sometimes there is no difference between sympathy and love
At the beginning of the TV, Zhongkang agrees that Wanjun is the wife of the eldest brother, does not have any ideas about her, and also promotes the narrow ridicule of the conjugal love between the eldest brother and Wanjun, at that time he sincerely blessed Wanjun.
However, when Wanjun hinted at him, he suddenly realized that Wanjun did not actually love his eldest brother, and that he might love himself. So he advised Wanjun to have the courage to speak his mind, and even asked Shangqi to give advice, and even boldly took her to elope.
He sympathized with women who were bound by feudal etiquette, and their thoughts and personalities could not develop normally, resulting in their happiness being sacrificed and buried. Therefore, he hoped that Wanjun would be like a new generation of Chinese women, dare to break through feudal ideas and bravely speak out her needs
At this time, in fact, his affection for Wanjun is both brother and sister who grew up together, as well as the love of men and women, but more out of sympathy for the weak, just like he actively participated in the patriotic movement, with a passion to save the world, and Wanjun, that is, the woman oppressed by the feudal etiquette system that he first wanted to liberate, but he mistakenly regarded sympathy as love, and was moved by his own passion beyond measure
Wanjun always looked like a miserable, weak and windy look, which stimulated his desire for protection and made him immersed in his own deep affection and unable to extricate himself
At that time, Zhongkang was about 18 years old, just a school student, his life experience was not rich enough, and his germination of feelings was not yet mature, so it was not surprising that he would foolishly treat sympathy as love
Under the unremitting efforts of Zhongkang, Zhou Laoye finally agreed to let Wanjun choose a man he liked among the three brothers, Wanjun did not want to choose, but chose to commit suicide, he was frightened, so he chose to quit.
He said that love is selfish, when the eldest brother abdicated and left, didn't he have the opportunity to marry Wanjun, but he did not do so, but instead smeared oil on the soles of his feet, threw himself into the patriotic activities in Shanghai, and saved the motherland
Then soon Shang Qi married, opened a newspaper office, and lived a normal couple's fireworks life
Shang Qi is also a new generation of women receiving a new type of education, dare to love and hate, have their own opinions, it is the women that Zhongkang appreciates, he does not hesitate to praise her in Wanjun, the personalities and hobbies of the two of them have too many places to match, it can be seen that the combination of the two of them is more called the spiritual doorman, Shang Qi is the person that Zhongkang needs.
If you really love a person, how can you let go of a person so easily and marry someone else casually, even if Shangqi has the grace to save his life, but can the grace be compared with love, he is not a person who accepts feudal ideas, of course, he understands that he cannot be blessed with others because of his kindness
Therefore, Zhongkang's love for Wanjun, just like his personality, is warm and impulsive, vigorous when he loves, and disappears without a trace when he runs
On the contrary, the eldest brother Bo Jian refused to take a concubine from the age of 17, but single-mindedly waited for Wanjun to grow up, waited for eight years, found that Wanjun did not want to marry him, he was the first to complete Wanjun, left a book and ran away.
After leaving, he traveled all over the country, and there were also very good women who pursued him, but he refused again, and this time, he waited for another eight years. What's more, when he was wandering in the field, he always thought that Wanjun had married his brother, but he still couldn't let go of Wanjun in his heart
It is really "once the sea was shipwrecked as water, except for the Wushan Mountain is not a cloud"
In this way, compared with the two, who loves more deeply, and sees it immediately
Zhang Ailing said: Because I love you, I understand; because I understand you, I am tolerant
Zhongkang actually never understood Wanjun, or he didn't want to understand it at all, he was always expressing his thoughts strongly
Wanjun's maternal aunt is a vampire, and every time she will keep taking money from the Zhou family, wanjun, who has always been inferior, has no place to look at herself.
Zhongkang directly rebuked his aunt's ugly face and fought with them, his idea was not wrong, for this kind of vampire, the most direct way is to refuse, rather than like the boss, using the way of mud and mud to meet their requirements again and again.
The boss has always been stable, Yan Neng does not know this truth, the reason why he is willing to move to his aunt's house is completely from the position of Wan Jun. In this way, he protected the dignity of Wanjun, so that she could raise her eyebrows in front of her mother's family, not to mention what her aunt wanted, he could afford to give, and spend a little money to get the vanity of loving his wife, what could he not do
On the contrary, Zhongkang's behavior seemed too impulsive. He obviously did not stand in Wanjun's position, and his demolition of the platform of his mother's house was equivalent to embarrassing Wanjun, making her hate herself for having such a background, so that she looked down on herself even more
He asked Wanjun to go to the countryside to ride a horse, through Shangqi constantly stimulated Wanjun, hoping that she would be as brave as Shangqi to do what she wanted to do, but completely forgot the identity of Wanjun, her identity and Shangqi's identity are not the same, the education received is not the same, and Wanjun has not ridden a horse, even Shuhao is worried that she will fall off the horse, but he let Wanjun try, compared to the young Uncle Hao, he does not have Shuhao's care
Shuhao is completely based on Wanjun's joy, concerned about taking care of her small emotions, every time she is unhappy, it is Shuhao who tries to make her happy, so Wanjun will say that Shuhao will make her feel calm, because he will never oppress Wanjun, he really pities her
The three brothers all have their own strengths, and their goodness is reflected in the needs of each stage of life
When I was a child, I liked Uncle Hao, because he was innocent and had no offensive power, he would accompany you crazy and laugh with you, make you happy when you were sad, and it was your forgetful grass and explanation flower;
When he was twenty or thirty years old, he liked Zhongkang, he was idealistic, passionate, passionate and romantic, would give you strong love, and would also quarrel fiercely because of a little disagreement, make you cry and make you laugh, bring you spring and warm flowers, and also bring you full of wind and rain;
He's fit for a relationship.
After the age of forty, I found that I had a vigorous love and directly saw the light of death in the face of married life. Bo Jian is mature and stable, considerate and tolerant, and is the best candidate to live a life.
All in all, Shuhao is suitable for being a playmate; Zhongkang is suitable for falling in love; Bo Jian is suitable for being a husband