Parents are now paying more and more attention to their children, which has led to an increasingly common problem - "parenting anxiety disorder". Especially if the mothers are very anxious, what if the children refuse to eat well? What should I do if I am bullied at school? Other people's children learn very well, what if my children will play blindly all day? Parents face these troubles all day long.
On September 7, former CCTV host Zhou Zhou shared a story of herself on social platforms, she blew herself up and took her husband to see a psychologist for her children's education.
Zhou Zhou said that at that time, he felt very anxious, thinking that I knew so much about children, and I was studying family education, but you did not cooperate with me, and the husband and wife often had contradictions, so they took their husband to see a psychologist, and said that they wanted to change him, but at that time, the doctor said a word, which made Zhou Zhou stunned, and the doctor said: "After I met the two of you, I found that he had no problems at all, it was all your fault." This made Zhou Zhou start to reflect on himself and make changes. First, ask yourself three questions every day; second, support your husband when he criticizes his children, and even if he doesn't agree, he will first ask his children to listen to his father. 3, every day to find the husband three advantages praise him. Later, Zhou Zhou said that since using this method, the family has also been harmonious, and the husband and wife have also been harmonious.
In educating children, parents should communicate more, coordinate more, and jointly find appropriate countermeasures. In addition, when one of the spouses is in charge of the child, the other spouse needs to mediate the relationship with the child for the other party, rather than denying either of the couples with the child. Educating children, parents are each other's partners and partners, the betrayal of either party is not only not conducive to educating children, but also brings problems to the relationship between husband and wife.