Zhou Zhou, a former CCTV host, shared that a bully mother used 7 sentences to get the child to make mistakes

What should I do if my child makes a mistake and does not obey? Do you follow the principle of "beating and scolding"?

Former CCTV host Zhou Zhou shared the practice of a bully mother, using a simple 7 sentences to get the child's mistakes.

This bully mother never scolds her children, but guides her children in gentle and whispered words. The child did not fail to live up to her teachings, was polite at home, and achieved excellent results in school.

First sentence: What happened? This gives the child the right to express himself and guides him to speak out.

Second sentence: How do you feel now? Guide your child to express their emotions.

Third sentence: What are your thoughts at this moment? Encourage your child to think about the needs they want to express.

Fourth sentence: So what do you think to do? Give your child the opportunity to think independently and solve problems.

Fifth sentence: Have you thought about the consequences of your decision? Encourage children to think more and calmly analyze the quality of the results.

Sixth sentence: What did you finally decide to do? Give your child the opportunity to make decisions.

Seventh sentence: What do you want me to do for you? Give your child a strong backing.

I tried this method and it felt good. A relative brought a four-year-old child to stay in our house for a few days, and at first he was shy and afraid to speak.

I took the initiative to interact with this child, and I said, you don't like to talk now, what's wrong? The child shook his head, but returned to me anyway, and he said he wanted to go home. I asked again, if I take you out to play, you can take a sports car, play with slides, a lot of things, what do you think? The child nodded and said he wanted to go. I went on to ask, so when do you want to go now? Do you want me to do anything for you? The child knows that he can play, has opened his heart, his mind is full of the idea of playing, he has become a small talker, I want to go tomorrow, I want to play with that toy car, I want to play with the castle.

After that, this child lived in my house, I could communicate with him very well, he also liked to talk to me, every time he asked him, there was always a reply.

Usually, I hold my baby to play in the community, and some children will take the initiative to come to me. Last night there was a little girl who ran over to tease my baby, and I asked, what are you playing with just now, can you take this little baby to play with you or something. I get their permission every time.

Children are actually a small adult, talk to them on an equal footing, encourage them to express their needs more, think more about the causes and consequences of things, and listen to their ideas. I believe that children can cultivate an independent personality, be able to take responsibility, be brave and confident, and have a sense of security.