Sometimes I want to be a scarecrow, I can sway with the wind, I can stand in the rice field and watch the rice field, I don't have to think about anything, there is no trouble and no pressure.
However, after all, we are human beings rather than straws, and we still have to face the misfortune and cruelty of reality.
The Zhang family, who lives in the village, is no exception. In the early years, Grandma Zhang had a total of five children, three boys and two girls. The eldest son, after birth, when he turned one year old, he had a high fever and had no money to treat, and he died, and Zhang Apo called a sad ah, and it took a long time to ease up, and the whole person regained his spirit.
In the early hours of July 28, 1976, when everyone was asleep, the earth began to tremble, and in just a few seconds, the houses were razed to the ground and countless lives were buried.
The buried life also includes The Zhang family. In Grandma Zhang's house, the first person to crawl out of the collapsed house was Grandma Zhang's husband, Wang Agong. After Grandpa Wang climbed out, he came out of the collapsed house one after another, grandma Zhang and his third son, as well as two daughters, but the thirteen-year-old second son was missing.
At this time, the neighbors shouted for help, and Wang Gong could not find the second son, and extended the hand of life to the neighbors. However, when Wang Gong returned, he found that all he saw was the body of the second son, who had died of a prolonged lack of oxygen.
Grandma Zhang, who had a hard time coming out of the shadow of losing her eldest son, lost her second son again, and fell into infinite guilt and self-blame again. She could not blame Wang Gong, and the education she received from childhood made her lenient. She couldn't end her life, and she had a responsibility to take care of her three sons and two daughters.
Grandma Zhang was miserable and desperate but hopeful to continue her life, busy rebuilding after the disaster. But the pain of losing his son was lingering, and this lingering pain made him give all his love for the eldest and second son to his third son. He didn't remember his daughters' birthdays, only the birthdays of his third son.
The love for the third son is really enviable, so that the third son does not know how to wash clothes, how to brush dishes, how to cook porridge, how to use the gas stove, not to mention cooking stir-fry.
Grandma Zhang looked at the third son and her eyebrows were all smiling. However, what is unexpected is that after the third son got married, he joined hands with his daughter-in-law and children to calculate the old mother who loved him in every way. Grandma Zhang was sick and did not take it to the hospital, saying that there was nothing wrong. When he finally lost money because of his son's marriage banquet, he remembered that his old mother, Zhang Apo, had a deposit in the early years because Wang Agong did civil engineering.
So, at the dinner table, the three sons and daughters-in-law sang and drank. The daughter-in-law cried: "The adopted son has never been filial to me, and when he marries his daughter-in-law, not only does I pay the dowry money, but in the end, I also lose money at the banquet, and I pay it again, do I owe you the old Wang family in this life?" ”
The third son spoke and slapped his own mouth: "I am incompetent, I have not let you enjoy any blessings in this life."
Grandma Zhang could not see her son like this, and hurriedly took out a 50,000 yuan passbook to give to her daughter-in-law.
Besides, this daughter-in-law looked at her son's new daughter-in-law, Xiao Feng. When the new daughter-in-law Xiaofeng was pregnant, she bumped into her because of her speech, and she began to reach out and push her daughter-in-law Xiaofeng, and the daughter-in-law Xiaofeng almost fell to the ground. Daughter-in-law Xiaofeng confinement, she went to take care of it, the next morning got up and said to her son: "Oh, I have a heart discomfort, you see that your daughter-in-law has done a good job, all night has been letting me coax the child." The son came into the house and scolded his daughter-in-law.
Daughter-in-law Xiaofeng was very sad, decided not to use her to see the child from now on, out of the confinement, taking advantage of her own proposal to go home for the New Year to clean up the house in advance, she agreed to let the mother-in-law leave. Then there were many wars, large and small.
In the end, xiao Feng, the daughter-in-law of the son, was very sad and decided not to return to their home. New Year's Festival, the husband can go back by himself, after the child is older, see if the child wants to go back.
Speaking of Grandma Zhang, she witnessed the daughter-in-law she married in, the "filial piety" of her third son, And Grandma Zhang was hospitalized and was always taken care of by her daughters, and her daughter-in-law even poured a bucket of urine. The granddaughter-in-law Xiao Feng, the eldest grandson, has never returned from the New Year's Festival, and the children and grandchildren have never really enjoyed the joy of heaven under the knees.
On the Chinese New Year's Eve night of the New Year, the old man regretted to go away at the age of 79. In the past physical examination, the doctor said that the old lady was physically tough and had no problem living to the age of ninety.
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