When watching the TV series "Growing Up with You", Jiang Bo, the son-in-law of the door, gave people a feeling of rationality and justice, and did not have too much attention to many issues. On the contrary, the performance of Ho Jinghua and his parents was extremely bad. As the saying goes, there is no harm without contrast. Finally, with the stimulation of various family conflicts, Jiang Bo also saw clearly his position in this family, which was so unbearable and looked down upon. Specifics, and see the following details.
First of all, the status of the door-to-door son-in-law is naturally despised, especially when in trouble. In the face of He Jinghua's parents' sudden fall, Jiang Bo finally couldn't bear it, and he didn't perish in silence, but was bound to erupt in silence. Obviously, this time the responsibility is all due to the unreliability of He Jinghua's parents and The imprudence of He Jinghua, so that the family's money is cheated, and then He Father and He Mother attribute the responsibility to Jiang Bo's incompetence. From this, we can see the weak position of the door-to-door son-in-law, on the one hand, the other party's family is a family, there are many people, you alone can not deal with it at all; on the other hand, since you are a door-to-door son-in-law, you must be inferior to the woman's ability in the economy and other aspects, and it is naturally easy to be despised. From Gu Jiawei, it can be seen that people's families have a great cause, and the old man and the mother-in-law are all following the knot, where do you dare to say a word!
Secondly, all that is asked for is not respected, and men only have self-reliance, which is the basis for survival. In the play, we see Jiang Bo's embarrassing position as a door-to-door son-in-law, which boils down to low income and has not achieved his due family status. Although Jiang Bo has always been obedient to the He family, he has not received the respect he deserves, and has become the target of overthrow and attack. From this, we can see the complexity of human nature, which is really insufficient and has more than enough to make up. If Jiang Bo, like Gu Jiawei, has a successful career, then the position in the He family is naturally impregnable, and no one can shake it.
Therefore, as a man, if you want to achieve the dignity you deserve, you must rely on your own self-reliance and make yourself stronger, which can achieve good results and thus solve the fundamental problem. In fact, the door-to-door son-in-law is not shameful, and should know how to use the platform to seek better development, rather than blindly seeking perfection.