There are many legendary women on the White Deer Plain. Saw an article, the name: "White Deer Original: Bai Ling pregnant with Zhaopeng's child, Zhaohai's showdown, sentence is hate" described about "Bai Ling and Zhaopeng marriage has violated morality." According to the traditional etiquette, it is understood that the older brother marries the younger brother's lover, and the older brother is actually a married person. Then this woman should not change her mind against morality and convention! Zhaohai is really pitiful. Yes, through reading and watching the whole process of playing in the TV series, the author has a new perspective on the marriage and behavior of "Bai Ling and Zhaopeng". Compared with the human nature in today's society, there is also a new insight!
First of all, we must be clear about the background and relationship between the two characters.
If you look at it according to the routine of today's romance novels, Bai Ling is a little princess who grew up next to the patriarch of Bailuyuan since childhood. She is the daughter of Bai Jiaxuan's pet in the palm of her hand, and is the only woman who can be freed in Bailuyuan. Influenced by Lu Zhaopeng's new ideas, she broke the traditional rules, did not have to accept the bad habit of foot binding, nor did she have to marry and have children prematurely according to the orders of her parents. Not to mention that like other women, they do not have to bear the fate of the old feudal system.
And Lu Zhaopeng, he is the eldest son of Lu Zilin, another large family in Bailuyuan. Carrying the responsibility of recovering the family. However, he was different from other men in that he broke through the prison of thought. Although his parents forced him to arrange a family affair: Leng Qiuyue, the daughter of the famous Mr. Leng on the White Deer Plain, married him as a wife... It was just that he did not accept the arrangement of fate, and on the wedding night, he did not perform the gift of the cave house, and left his hometown the next day to continue to advance for the revolutionary cause.
There is another person here, that is, Lu Zhaohai, who is lu Zhaopeng's brother and grew up with Bai Ling and Lu Zhaopeng. Lu Zhaohai had long been impressed with Bai Ling and promised to marry her, so they became a young plum bamboo horse, two small unsuspecting lovers.
Only later, because Bai Ling admired Lu Zhaopeng, both sides had common ideas and three views. With the distance, thoughts, and positions between her and Zhaohai, they gradually drifted apart... Finally, she changed her mind in Zhaohai's eyes. Even became his sister-in-law...
In the eyes of ordinary people, this is how unbearable, a small three who does not use this means! Is Bai Ling really as bad as others think?
Of course, this is not the case, if you really like to read, there are friends who have read "White Deer Plain", you will know that according to a theme: "White Deer Plain" expresses not a story of love and love, nor is it a teaching to others to maintain human morality. Rather, it is a story about how a group of people who are still living in old ideas have metamorphosed into new ideas. Following this line of thought, then the author further analyzes whether Bai Ling is really so unbearable?
First, Lu Zhaopeng: The fate of his parents, unwilling
Lu Zhaopeng is a man who has embraced new ideas. His mind was filled with hope for the future, so the new hope became a belief in his heart.
I saw that the Qing government, which was already in ruins at that time, was once again full of private brews in the Republic of China. It is not the path of the people to the sunshine.
In addition, Lu Zhaopeng, who accepted the new thinking, was resistant to the marriage arranged by his parents. He and Leng Qiuyue fulfilled the wedding arranged by his parents in a forced manner, and married under the witness of everyone. However, he was reluctant, so he ran away from the family the next day, and even if he got married, he would not return to the White Deer Plains if it was not an important matter. Similarly, how can he and a woman who has no common thoughts and only knows how to go against the grain can last? He also once advised Leng Qiuyue to give up this marriage, but Leng Qiuyue chose to go against the grain, keep the knot, and finally die how sad it was, becoming a victim of the old feudal system.
With Bai Ling, does he love Bai Ling? Yes, he loves Bai Ling. Why would it be hot and cold for her. Guilt in my heart. Because she was a husband with a wife, she did not dare to climb up to bailing, a simple unmarried woman.
Only in the end, in the process of pretending to be a husband and wife, he felt sorry for each other and after sincere communication, he finally broke the traditional rules and married Bai Ling.
Second, Bai Ling: Not a change of heart, but a long-term desire to marry an idol that he admires
The reason why Bai Ling was unswerving to Lu Zhaopeng to death was not because he had changed his mind in the middle of the way, or because he wanted to achieve his goal. But there is a process.
Bai Ling is the pet daughter of the patriarch Bai Jiaxuan, who lives like a princess although she is in the countryside. Influenced by Lu Zhaopeng, she bravely broke the fatalism that women had to endure at that time. She bravely went out of the countryside, read with the city people, and even refuted the teacher's misguided three views of women in the classroom.
She is like the beginning of her love for Zhaohai, who has grown up with herself, just like a pure first love. She also thought about becoming a husband and wife with Zhaohai... Only later, in the process of getting along, I gradually found that she and Zhaohai were distant. Not only are the three views different, but the temperament is also different. What she saw in Zhaohai was the temperament of a child, and Zhaopeng was the object of her admiration, and in Zhaopeng she could find a sense of security to rely on.
Maybe some people will try their best to prevent Bai Ling from interfering in other people's families because Zhaopeng has a husband with a wife! Only Zhaohai left her for half a year but became his sister-in-law.
Seeing Zhaohai's love for Bai Ling in the original work is real. No wonder after Bai Ling conceived Zhaopeng's child, Zhaohai's showdown was hatred.
However, marrying his idol, Zhaopeng, who is also a teacher and a friend, is also Bai Ling's greatest wish! Remember that the organization wants to find a woman and Zhaopeng to pretend to be a husband and wife to carry out the task, but Bai Ling recommends himself and bravely accepts the arrangement. Because she really longs to be with Zhaopeng and hopes that he will become her own dependence, the person she loves the most.
Yes, she got her wish, and she objected desperately. Although she pretends to be someone else's wife, she is really happy! At least in the eyes of others, this marriage is very happy.
A couple of men and women, getting along day and night, feeling sorry for each other! She enjoys such happiness every day... Until the mission was about to end, her dream also woke up! But she still bravely made a confession to Zhaopeng... Even help this teacher break through the obstacles of embarrassment because of his thoughts...
Finally, she married him. There is no grand wedding, only an oath to the moon. She bore children for him, and even gave up her life to save him from danger... If she was a little three who interfered with someone else, could she do it?
In fact, poor people really must have something to hate! The first is that she can't get rid of the cold autumn moon of the old system, as long as Zhaopeng has a paper break, she can live a new thinking and regain a free life. However, she did not cross the gap of the times. Eventually it became a victim of the old feudal system. You see that there are still some bitter women in the countryside today who are obedient and think that they can get the favor of their husbands by taking care of their families, because they have no independent thoughts, but in the end, their husbands cheat because they do not understand the style, and they prefer to ask for everything for the sake of face and for their children. On the contrary, in marriage, the whole person becomes more and more bitter, and the old man becomes a bad mother-in-law who manipulates his children and is jealous of his daughter-in-law! What a sad thing.
As for Zhaohai, it was the three views that made the distance between him more and more distant. If there is no correct three views of love, the two people are consistent and cannot be sustained. Even Zhaohai had the opportunity to be exposed to new ideas in the army. Yet his heart is still living in tradition! Women who think they have been identified will always be their own. This is not love, this is possession, obsession in the old feudal system. So that in the end, he was still alone and never married.
Look at today's singles, are they poor? This is only a superficial phenomenon, why is there a phenomenon of wives running away? It is because their minds are fixed in a well and they are unwilling to jump out and see how vast and wonderful the outside world is.
To sum up: Bai Ling did not use unscrupulous means to seize other people's husbands. Instead, follow your own heart and be responsible for the choices you make!
This view is solely those of the author