There is a kind of wisdom called seeing through without saying broken, understanding without piercing, knowing and silent.
A man, if he sees through an event, is his personal skill. However, if the truth is told without knowing the danger, it is an act of "self-inflicted guilt.".
This society seems to be a calm society, but behind the scenes, it hides an "undercurrent" that most of us cannot detect. Maybe the next moment, this "undercurrent" will sweep you away.
Someone once said: "In a restless society, if you meet a person who is in peace, then this person who is in peace will become a victim of life." ”
This statement is very realistic and cruel. Especially in today's society, the speed of development is faster, people's hearts are impatient, and competition has increased. In this way, how to protect ourselves and seek development is one of the things we have to think about.
If it is difficult to save oneself, if even eating is a problem, then how can he say that he can achieve something?
In this regard, many people will wonder, which people can protect themselves and then seek development? I think there are probably two types of people.
The first type of people, they have a background, rich and powerful, they are standing on a high starting point. The second category of people is a wise and foolish person. They may have no money and no background, but they have the ability to beat ordinary people.
If you want to survive in society, you have to learn how to "pretend to be stupid" when necessary and reduce the vigilance of others against themselves. In this way, we can be ready to attack and strike later.
An archer, if he shoots his own arrows directly, without paying any attention to the movements of the enemies and competitors around him, then his arrows may "shoot in the air".
Really powerful people, really strategic archers, they don't shoot the first arrow easily, but they keep bending their bows, waiting for the right moment, and then "one shot" at the crucial moment.
As a person, we should be a person with thoughts, strategies, understanding of advances and retreats, and clear planning, rather than being like a child, doing things with spirit.
You know, in this society, people who are too arrogant, they are often the first target and exclusion object of others. Because these people have been seen through. In this way, if others do not pinch them, who will they pinch?
In this way, know how to hide yourself when you do not have a certain strength, converge your own sharpness, and make yourself low-key. Only in this way can we make our minds clear and our hearts calm.
A man, excessively sharp, but his heart is absolutely fanatical. Then, the final result of this person is either rejected by others or calculated by others. That's all.
On the contrary, people who are wise and foolish do not care what others think of them. Therefore, they can make their hearts as calm as water, and then plan their future with a rational heart, and they can win over others.
People who are really capable, they will not show their true strength to others, but are waiting for the opportunity to "make a splash".
Someone once said: "It is natural to raise your head, and it is possible to bow your head." ”
Everyone wants to lift their noble head, and they don't want to be looked down upon. Because in the hearts of people, there is a vanity in existence, and they all want to make their faces light.
But who in life can fully achieve such a state of behavior?
Those who have wisdom and realm, they will not care whether others look up to them, nor do they care about their own face. Because in their view, these two have no vested interests for themselves, so why bother?
In this way, they choose to "lie dormant", to be in a corner, to be a person who is "ignored" by others.
In the eyes of many people, being "ignored" by others does not prove that they have no ability? In fact, the real ability and talent do not need to be deliberately exposed, just like gold you do not need to emphasize that it shines.
Just like we want to achieve something in the workplace, we can't be too impatient, and we can't show ourselves too much to avoid becoming the "target of everyone".
There is a saying that "a gentleman hides his instrument in his body and moves from time to time." ”
When it is time to plan and accumulate strength, it is absolutely impossible to show it. And when it is time to show the real power, it must not be flashed back. In what kind of environment, what kind of things you do, this is what a gentleman does.
People who can really "go smoothly in their lives", they all know how to "lie dormant". Because they know that the fist that has been stored for a long time is the most powerful.
Speaking of "great wisdom and foolishness", in fact, the first thing we can think of is the sand monk in "Journey to the West".
Sha Monk, this person, did not have the fame and strength of Sun Wukong, nor the high emotional intelligence of the Eight Precepts of the Pig, nor did he have the deep background of Tang Sanzang. So, why can he be the least "contradictory" existence in the team?
Generally speaking, people who have nothing are the most criticized and the most prone to contradictions. But the sand monk did not. why? Only because his secret of dealing with the world is to retreat into progress, pretending to be stupid on the outside, but shrewd on the inside.
Just like when he usually fights a monster, he will definitely not be the first to fight, but first let Sun Wukong play, then ask Pig Eight Commandments to play, and finally play himself.
In this way, a person who "does not argue", a person who can be a person, who will embarrass him?
Therefore, the sand monk can learn the scriptures successfully and become famous. But when we carefully analyzed it, we found that the character of the sand monk was not just us ordinary people?
Most of us, with no background and no family background, can only start from scratch. Then, if we know how to be a person, know how to make concessions and make concessions, fight for what we should strive for, and have a degree of progress and retreat, we can be in an invincible position.
To be wise is to be foolish, not to be a "stupid" person. Rather, it tells us that superficial stupidity is precisely the act of deceiving the enemy and developing one's own wisdom.
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