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When I was a girl, among the love songs I heard, the saddest, most abusive, and most gut-wrenching was the song of Zhang Yu, the "King of Bitter Love Songs.".
Until now, when I was a young man, whenever I heard Zhang Yu sing the classic love songs "Well-intentioned", "Rain Keeps Falling", and "The Moon's Trouble" in his low, vicissitudes and slightly hoarse voice, my heart still couldn't help but gush with an indescribable sourness.
In my youthful years, I once thought silently in my heart: what kind of tragic emotional wounds the lyricist has experienced to write those "bitter like Huang Lian" lyrics; what kind of emotional process the singer has had to sing such an empathetic singing voice.
More than ten years later, after reading the love story of the lyricist Shi Yilang and the singer Zhang Yu, I was suddenly enlightened.
Seeing each other at the age of 12, falling in love at the age of 17, and getting married at the age of 30, at first glance, the love between Shi Yilang and Zhang Yu has a smell of green plum bamboo horses.
In fact, in the years before going to college, she and he were indeed immersed in the sweet love of "green plum bamboo horses, two little guesses".
He played love songs for her, used the only pocket money to buy her the little girl's favorite snacks, and said to her guiltily: "I'm sorry, only enough to buy these." I'm going to make you suffer."
She was kind to him, warm from the bottom of her heart, he was more important than herself.
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Long-distance love has always been the most test of a relationship.
After graduating from high school, Shi Yi Lang stayed in Taipei, and Zhang Yu was admitted to a college in Taichung. In the days of lack of supervision, Zhang Yu failed to resist the temptation of beautiful women on the university campus, and he cheated on other girls.
Zhang Yu, who enjoys a new love affair, has long abandoned the former Eleven Lang of the green plum bamboo horse. He proposed to break up.
Zhang Yu may not know that when he subconsciously regards Shi Yi Lang as a dispensable part of life, he is all she has.
Eleven, who could not accept the breakup, lost 20 pounds due to sadness that was visible to the naked eye. In order to dispel the depression in her chest, she wrote with a pen, "You love him, maybe with hatred, youth has consumed a lot of money, it turned out that you just played with him." It is to love to the depths of resentment against him, and it is not willing to give up..."
She did not expect that these loveless sentences written to dispel depression would later be composed by Zhang Yu and become an indispensable classic in his singing career - "The Rain Keeps Falling".
Seeing these words written by Shi Yi Lang and looking at her tragic loss of twenty pounds, Zhang Yu was heartbroken, and he began to realize her importance to his life, and immediately proposed to her to reunite.
However, Shi Yi Lang did not expect that Zhang Yu would still split his legs behind her back one after another in the near future, and propose to break up again and again.
Remembering his long-standing affection, Eleven chose to forgive several times.
When he finally mentioned the breakup, Shi Yi Lang finally couldn't bear it, and she said harshly: "If we break up this time, don't reconcile, I'm afraid I can't live."
This time, Zhang Yu finally made up his mind to live with Shi Yi Lang An Sheng, and there was no hu lai since then.
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After graduating from university, at the suggestion of Shi Yi Lang, Zhang Yu chose to sing in a folk song restaurant in Taipei.
In 1992, the 25-year-old Zhang Yu was officially debuted through the recommendation of veteran musician Yuan Weiren, who was discovered by Da Roll Records, and released his debut album "Walking with Wind" the following year.
After the release of chaosi twilight album, it was embarrassed that no one bought or listened to him, and Zhang Yu was extremely depressed, depressed and exhausted.
Looking at the tired look of her sweetheart, Shi Yi Lang looked anxious in her eyes, and she wrote a long inner monologue with delicate and sincere words.
"Your face is a little haggard, your eyes have residual tears, and your lips are beautiful with exhaustion. I'd rather look at you and sleep so quietly..."
When he woke up, Zhang Yu was deeply touched by these words, and he decided to compose music for these words wrapped in love.
In November 1993, in the newly released album, there was this new song written by Shi Yi Lang and composed by Zhang Yu - "Well-intentioned". With the song "Well-intentioned", Zhang Yu quickly became popular, and word-of-mouth awards poured in.
According to statistics, in the thirty years of interaction, Shi Yilang has written 150 songs for Zhang Yu. It can be said that without Shi Yilang, there would be no Zhang Yu, who later became popular in the Chinese music scene.
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To love someone is to give her marriage.
In 1997, the 30-year-old Zhang Yu and Shi Yilang entered the palace of marriage. Regarding "early marriage at an early age", Zhang Yu gave the explanation: it should be the disaster caused by the moon.
It turned out that once on the Canadian highway, Zhang Yu and Shi Yilang saw a bright moon in a foreign country, and they were shrouded in the bright moonlight, and they immediately had an impulse to get married.
Eleven Lang was even more emotional, writing emotionally: It's all your fault, easily falling in love with me, making me unconsciously satisfied with the vanity of being loved... I admit that it is the moon that caused the trouble, that kind of night is too beautiful, you are too gentle, will be in an instant, just want to go to the white head with you.
After Zhang Yu composed the music, a new song called "The Curse of the Moon" was freshly baked. The song has won numerous awards and become popular throughout the streets and alleys, becoming a very representative work in Zhang Yu's singing career.
After marrying Shi Yilang, Zhang Yu did not have any more scandals. In order to take care of his wife and children, he quietly returned to the family at the peak of his popularity and became a competent "family cook".
He confessed in an interview, "As a man, how to do it when the family needs it is very important." At that time, I told myself that I must be mentally prepared not to be red, and if I want to be open, I must learn to release myself. ”
Today, Zhang Yu and Shi Yilang's marriage has entered its 24th year, and both sons have grown up.
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A truly beautiful and lasting marriage is always the product of mutual achievement and equal strength.
Without Shi Yi Lang, who would know Zhang Yu? Without Zhang Yu, who would know about Shi Yi lang.
To get someone for a long time is to be an integral part of her or his life. Because of each other's existence, we have become a better version of ourselves.
Writing to the end, I suddenly thought of a small episode.
It is said that a very important reason why Zhang Yu and Shi Yi Lang reunited is that Shi Yi Lang has changed, and her love for Zhang Yu is no longer as heavy as in the past.
This little episode is also thoughtful to watch.
A person, never take the object as the whole of life, leave a little love for yourself.
Live a relaxed and happy life, and the love you give to others is pleasant, so that the other party will not feel tired, bored, or even breathless.
Not tired for a long time, the party is the highest state of a love or a marriage.
Author: Jiang Yanni, get up at 5 o'clock in the morning to write, write at least 3,000 words a day, and insist on reading 2 books a week. Work hard in the workplace during the day and take the baby to read at night. You light up your life with words, and every day is a good day.