There are always some people in this world who obviously have very good talents, talents, and talents, but unfortunately, the final result is always unsatisfactory, which makes people sigh, what is the reason why they have become like this? If you could have a better life and future, why do you have to become a failure, or even lose your life?
In order to clarify this problem, we may wish to take a look at Yan Shifan during the Jiajing years, although he is known as a "ghost talent", but he is a typical representative of being clever and being mistaken by cleverness, and his whole life is constantly tempting on the verge of death, and finally he is committing his own sins and not living, how did he kill himself? What can we learn from him? And listen to me carefully!
Shi Bo, short term fat body, squinting one eye, by the father to enter the army.
It is said that Yan Shifan has a special ability is not to forget, whether it is the Four Books and Five Classics or various legal texts, or even the number of official positions and addresses of the palace staff, Yan Shifan can not forget it as long as he looks at it, remembers it clearly, and knows it very well.
Relying on the shadow of his father Yan Song without taking the imperial examination, he directly served as the Left Attendant of the Ministry of Works and the Shaoqing of Shang Baosi, because he was very intelligent, so he was loved by the emperor and the ministers of the DPRK, and for a time Yan Shifan had unlimited scenery, claiming that the only contemporary talent was him and Lu Bing, Yang Bo, and was very rampant.
Yan Shifan stills
Yan Song often entrusted the affairs of the DPRK to Yan Shifan, because he was very clever and could always get it done quickly. Many difficult and complicated diseases can only be solved by Yan Shifan, and the rest of the personnel must stand aside.
Therefore, in normal times, many officials look for Help from Yan Shifan, and Yan Shifan also seized the opportunity to make a good profit. He will open his mouth according to the level of the other party's official position, small things or some people with smaller official positions, if he wants to find Yan Shifan to do things, he will have to wait in a long line, and he cannot complain, and if the official position is higher and gives more money, Yan Shifan will give priority to solving, so he will make a lot of money.
Yan Shifan specially made a cellar to store money at home, it can be said that he is rich enough to rival the country, and his life is also very extravagant and wasteful, purely a male brother style who does not learn and has no skills.
Fierce thief, pet of the father, and tireless in his power. However, he is quite familiar with the national code and knows the current affairs. Taste the world's talents, but he and Lu Bing, Yang Bo are three.
People say that Yan Shifan is a ghost talent, in addition to his ability to never forget, more is reflected in his omniscience, can cater to the holy will, all the problems that the officials of the DPRK and China do not know, the problems that cannot satisfy the emperor, will go to consult Yan Shifan, he will certainly be able to answer like a stream, give the most appropriate solution, which was the most rare and valuable at that time.
Because the Jiajing Emperor was also a strange emperor, his temper was still very hot after refining Dan, and if anyone accidentally provoked him, he was likely to lose his life, so everyone in the imperial court was afraid, and they had to be careful in doing things, for fear of provoking the emperor and being blamed.
It was based on such an environment that Yan Shifan was given more opportunities to exert himself, and yan Shifan's presence made all the ministers feel more down-to-earth, without worrying that the emperor would suddenly punish him.
Stills of the Jiajing Emperor
For example, once, Yan Song was talking with the ministers in the middle of the court, and suddenly the Jiajing Emperor, because he did not understand the content of a scripture and had some doubts, asked the ministers, but none of the ministers present knew, and everyone was extremely anxious, worried that the Jiajing Emperor would punish him.
At this moment, Yan Song remembered his son, and quickly wrote down the questions asked by the emperor and asked someone to take them back to Yan Shifan to crack, Yan Shifan opened his eyes and looked at it casually, took a pen and wrote down a line, ordered someone to send it to his father Yan Song, Yan Song handed it to the emperor, the emperor opened it, Yan Shifan marked the page of the book from which the answer came from, and the Jiajing Emperor was very satisfied.
Sejong is good at viewing the scriptures, or those who have not yet been solved, pro-Zhu Shu on a piece of paper, ordering the cabinet, and waiting for a reply. Sunset, Song and Xu Jie, etc. are not aware of the measures, Song Yue: no worries. That is, the secret writing is out, and Pegasus asks the man. 蕃曰: It is in a certain book, and its interpretation is cloudy. That is, the flying return, the inspection of the book, and indeed it is like a joy.
Because of his talent, everyone was very indulgent to him, never dared to say anything about him, did not dare to offend him, and did not help to break the siege for fear that he would be angry. His father Yan Song also allowed it to develop, so that Yan Shifan lived a life dominated by female color at home all day, which can be described as a drunken gold fan, which makes people very unhappy to see it, and he is almost always drunk at home.
Once, the emperor had another question for Yan Song and others to answer, everyone still could not answer, quickly sent someone home to inquire about Yan Shifan, it turned out that Yan Shifan was drunk and drunk, unconscious, no way, to solve the problem is important, can only order people to pour him with cold water, hot towel to him, let him wake up quickly.
Yan Song stills
This method really worked, and after a while, Yan Shifan opened his eyes, confusedly took the paper and pen, wrote down the answer, everyone was very skeptical, did not expect to show the emperor, the emperor was very satisfied, it can be seen that Yan Shifan's ability is indeed not ordinary, even in the case of drunkenness, can be so powerful.
Fill the soup with a golden basin, soak your hands in it, and surround its first three turns by hot lifting. Slightly colder, easier to wake up, but no more wine. Raise a pen to answer, deal with it thoroughly, and surprise the people, so the father is also intimidated.
The so-called talent and pride is like this, Yan Shifan took the protection of his father and the love of the emperor, so he acted arbitrarily, embezzled and corrupted brazenly, and spent a lot of money to make the palace where he lived very luxurious, looking just like the palace, magnificent and grand.
Many ministers of the court had long been dissatisfied with him, and secretly explained yan Shifan's problem to the emperor, but the Jiajing Emperor did not think so at first, thinking that it did not matter, yan Song also helped his son to be liberated again and again, completely ignoring the law and morality. Due to the excessive neglect of the ministers in the DPRK later, Jiajing still could not ignore it and decided to investigate Yan Shifan.
Yan Shifan felt that things were not good, and found a group of jianghu strangers to follow him, ready to go to Japan at any time to seek help to deal with the Jiajing Emperor, with a tendency to rebel. These things were eventually obtained by Xu Jie, who gave them to the emperor, saying that Yan Shifan not only built mansions in places with dragon qi, but also suspected of fighting with the emperor, but also made a group of strange people want to flee to Japan, which was obviously unfavorable to the Jiajing Emperor and feared rebellion.
Xu Jie stills
In order to cut his grass by hand, he married Wang Zhi alone according to Long Wen and bribed shifan for transportation. Shi Fan used Peng Kong's words to use the Nanchang cangdi to have a royal spirit, take it to rule the first, and make a king. He also formed a sect of people who were very shady and very crowded with outlaws.
I heard that there was a rebellious heart, just hit the emperor's key point, the emperor of course could not stand it, and finally Yan Shifan's home, his family was rich, rich enough to be enemy of the country, after raiding the family, Yan Shifan was also killed, ending the legendary life, leaving countless warnings and revelations for future generations.
Perhaps it is not difficult for us to find that there are many such intelligent people in life, who originally have better talents than others, but in the development of the day after tomorrow, they gradually deviate, and finally become accomplished nothing, and even more they embark on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes.
In the long road of life, we find more and more that the people who really achieve great things in the end are often those who have mediocre qualifications but are unknown, why does this phenomenon occur? In fact, it is worth our careful reflection. The first is family education, in a family, for smart children, there will always be too much spoiling, and for children with average qualifications, the requirements are harsh and strict.
The ultimate consequence of this is that children who are born intelligent become more and more arrogant and do not take anything seriously, such as basic human behavior and moral courtesy, they completely disregard, and even do whatever it takes to achieve certain ends, because they have not developed a correct value in their hearts, and they only feel that they can have it if they want.
It is such a person, after leaving his family and going to society, finds that his survival is very difficult, and he has no common language with the people around him, because a little thing will affect his dignity and thus make a lot of radical behavior. We've had a lot of news about college killings or some students committing suicide under pressure, and that's the type. These people are also intelligent people, but their psychological quality is too poor, and they have not experienced any setbacks since childhood, so that they can't stand any blows.
Our society in the focus on children's achievements and IQ at the same time, in fact, should pay more attention to the child's psychology and ideological and moral education, the cultivation of children's values is far more important than the cultivation of children's simple achievements, this society is more and more tend to be talented, the talent mentioned here is not those who have high education, but some people have a strong ability to deal with the world, strong ability to resist setbacks, such talents are more in line with the needs of the current society.
Or if we look closely, we will find that in fact, many successful people do not necessarily have a very high IQ, but the emotional intelligence is generally relatively high, and with them, you will feel a natural and approachable feeling rather than that domineering feeling.
This society finally fights or people, no matter how developed science and technology, no matter how the society develops, it is always inseparable from people, and some intelligent industries or things that require high intelligence may be replaced by robots in the future, but the human mind and morality that control robots are the most important in the future, if a talented and unscrupulous person is likely to push the world into an abyss of perdition, that is what we fear and worry about.
As the saying goes, there are talents to hide, do not be excessively ostentatious, otherwise it is always easy to attract jealousy or too publicity because of their talents to provoke the disaster of killing themselves, from ancient times to the present, this truth has always been so simple and easy to understand, but there are very few people who can really do it!
Whether it is society or family, we should consider both people's IQ and emotional intelligence, do not let a person become a person with high IQ and low emotional intelligence, and do not let those who originally have talents achieve nothing in the end or lose themselves to the abyss of crime because of coddling, that will be the disaster and loss of this society!
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