I believe that the classic line in Stephen Chow's movie "Journey to the West", we still remember it vividly: "There was once a sincere love in front of me, I did not cherish it, and when I lost it, I regretted it, and the greatest pain in the world is this... If Heaven could give me a chance to do it again, I would say three words to the girl: "I love you." This is a story of loss and cherishing, possession and missing.
Most of the time, our understanding of this sentence is only about love, in fact, in many cases, when we talk about inheritance and family affection, although this sentence does not apply, but this emotion is common. For family affection, perhaps we should understand the different truth with a deeper feeling, perhaps he is far more profound than the feeling of love.
The emotion between father and son has always been a profound and long topic, and in our environment, father and son are a pair of joyful enemies. When you were young, most people probably didn't have a close relationship with their father, but when they actually grew up, the relationship might improve. It is not until he has become a father or has truly lost his father that the son may understand his father's previous good intentions.
Empathy may not apply to such a scenario, and every detail we really understand about family affection is always gradually clarified after it is lost. But to lose is to lose, and to lose is to be gone. And cherished for so long, but few people really do it.
The movie "Absolute Sound" is a feature film about inheritance. I don't know much about director Zhang Zeming, and there are very few profiles about him on the Internet. But his work is a classic.
The film tells the story of an old artist who was sent from the provincial theater troupe to the local theater troupe because of political problems, and gradually accumulated many works during this period, and his greatest desire was to publish these works. But in that era, his works were branded "feudal". In desperation, he could only collect his own works well. The son did not understand his father from an early age. When my son grew up a little, he caught up with that turbulent era. The son was therefore far away.
When his son returned, he still couldn't understand his father's stubbornness. By chance, my father spread his works to the outside world. Unfortunately, I still can't have my own signature. Until his death, the unwilling father could only turn his life's efforts into ashes. The son returned to his hometown and witnessed the marriage of a woman who was a young woman. I can only wish silently. In an accident, the son met his half-sister. The son, who did not want to take care of him, eventually became acquainted with his sister.
At her graduation ceremony, my sister played her father's music. My father's work was finally spread. The son also understood his father at this time, but unfortunately, all this could not go back.
Missing is forever, and once you lose, that feeling will always surround you for a long time and can't leave. We see too many stories about loss, so we cherish what happens in reality.
The son in the film experienced that era of chaotic values, and in that closed era, the father was undoubtedly an alien existence. He was obsessed with songwriting, but lacked the necessary care and love for his son, who missed his mother's love at a young age. So much so that the son has buried his father's bad in his heart since he was a child. As we get older, this idea continues to take root. The focal flashpoint of the contradiction was the son's sale of his father's treasured musical instruments in order to smuggle. The contradiction between father and son finally became irreconcilable, and the father also lost hope for life from that time.
Originally, in a turbulent era, if people did not have faith, there was no way to live. The father's faith was his own musical score and his treasured instruments, but the son did not understand the father at that time. After the contradictions between the two could not be reconciled, the direct consequence was a brutal destruction of the lifelong literary and artistic atmosphere formed by the father at that time. The son seems to have broken his father's faith, but there is a kind of guilt that is deeply rooted in the heart. It wasn't until the final understanding that I finally let go.
Although it is a work related to that turbulent era, the director does not exaggerate the atmosphere of the time too much. He simply used the contradiction between father and son to bring us such a discussion. When the person you want to pass on is in an atmosphere that doesn't understand you. Your every move can only be regarded as a "no-song". The fault line of culture or the loss of culture is simply because there is a problem with the inheritance. If all the fathers under the heavens could live in harmony with the children, then the world would have a lot more to keep.
Let cherishing is not just verbal talk, when we really understand, perhaps cherishing should be a natural fixed development relationship, of course, at that time, loss can not be talked about.
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