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"I think I'm more afraid of meeting a male obstetrician than the pain of having a baby!" A precious mother once said such a thing to me.
With the gradual increase in the number of male doctors in obstetrics and gynecology in recent years, many pregnant mothers, when they are about to give birth, suddenly find that it is a male doctor who delivers themselves, and may feel more or less embarrassed. The topic we want to talk about in this issue is: Why does obstetrics let male doctors deliver babies, and are they not afraid of maternal embarrassment? The truth pregnant mothers should know.
Many TV dramas about male obstetric doctors are also gradually increasing, hoping to let everyone know more about this industry and understand the advantages of male obstetric doctors. But there are still many pregnant mothers who worry that they will meet a male doctor when they give birth.
I believe that the reason why most pregnant mothers are disgusted by it is not that they question the skills of obstetric male doctors, but mostly because they are influenced by the idea of "not being intimate" between men and women.
Not long ago, after learning that my friend had given birth to a second baby, he had been sullen and unhappy, and his husband had no choice but to call me to persuade her. After meeting my friend, I found that the friend I knew who had a big grin and loved to talk and smile was like a change of person. Haggard,000 in the bedroom all day, not even willing to go to the living room, only when the baby is hungry and crying, he will feed the child.
I felt very incomprehensible, at first I thought that my friend had a conflict with her husband and had postpartum depression? After asking for half a day, she choked up and told me that she had encountered a male doctor during childbirth.
"It's so embarrassing, I want to erase this memory now, I always thought it was a female doctor who delivered me." And when I got into the delivery room, I realized that it was a male doctor who delivered me. Because it was a caesarean section, I didn't have much consciousness after the anesthesia, but I still felt too embarrassed. If I could run out, I don't think I'd want to be born there for a moment. ”
The friend cried silently and said, "You know what? Later, this male doctor also checked the room every day, checked the indicators of my body, and asked this and that, which was really a shame. ”
This incident has caused a lot of psychological shadows in the hearts of friends. She smiled bitterly and said, "It's really hard to be a mother, and I'll never have children again!" ”
As a person who has come over, in fact, many mothers must have had such an experience, so I feel the same after listening to her. In fact, in the eyes of doctors, there are only patients, there is no gender, this is their profession.
Although, nowadays, people's ideas are much more open. But in the delivery room, all the privacy of the mother will be exposed, which is very embarrassing in itself. If you meet a male doctor again at this time, you can imagine how embarrassed you will be.
Why are there some male doctors in obstetrics and gynecology? Why are more and more men working in obstetrics and gynecology?
Physically stronger than female doctors
It may seem that delivering a birth in the delivery room is simpler than other complex procedures. After all, in today's continuous development of medical technology, the success rate of midwifery has reached more than 90%. However, it is not easy for a woman to have a child, and a little carelessness can ruin two lives.
In the event of some unpredictable surprise, the time for a woman to give birth can be as short as one or two hours, and as long as 4 to 5 hours or more. This is a very physically demanding job, and at this time, the advantages of male doctors can be reflected. Male doctors have a strong physique and energy, and for some complex and longer surgeries, such work will be more suitable for them.
Strong psychological quality
It is also worth mentioning that the psychological quality of male doctors is much stronger than that of female doctors. For example, when some female doctors encounter maternal emergencies, they are easily affected by emotions and affect the smooth operation.
But most male doctors have a more stable psychological quality than women. Moreover, the male doctor's emotions are not as sensitive as women's, and they will be calmer when things happen.
In fact, not only obstetrics, but also the number of male doctors in other departments is also increasing. Many male doctors need to constantly improve their medical skills and literacy in order to surpass many excellent women to get this job.
So don't worry and question these male doctors because of worldly ideas. In their eyes, there is really no gender, and the skills of male doctors are just as good as that of female doctors, and even more secure.
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