In fact, each of us has our own unique experience, some people tell it and become a story; some people hide it in their hearts and become an eternal secret.
To a large extent, we see that what others see is a surface, and we can't get close to his heart.
We are also full of self-confidence, thinking that our judgment is correct, putting a beautiful aura on others, making others more tall and magnificent; sometimes we also demean others to worthless.
1. Chat.
At noon, the glasses man brought the meal back to the room to eat, maybe he was afraid that I would go to someone to point out. After all, the fact that we did not return last night may still leave a deep memory for everyone. Out of sight, out of mind.
Anyway, we are all from different places, there are no people I know, there are no people who know me, and there is nothing to worry about.
After lunch, I received a text message notification from the leader that this afternoon we will not organize a unified tour, we can go to the Youjia Garden, you can also rest in the residence, and emphasize one, you must return to the team on time, you can not stay overnight.
I think the special emphasis on the night without return may refer specifically to me and the glasses man last night. In fact, everyone knows it at a glance.
After eating and returning to the room, the door was not closed, and from inside came the voice of Old Cai, who was discussing with the grandmother whether I would go back to lunch break at noon today. Because Old Cai's ears are a little deaf, he speaks loudly.
I walked into the room, and Old Cai saw that I was smiling and closing my mouth, but it seemed to be a little reluctant.
The grandmother said to Old Cai, go back to rest early, at noon this side also want to sleep for a while, half a day in the morning running waist sore legs hurt. Old Cai made an ok gesture and left the room.
I slept in bed, and my grandmother seemed to care more about me, so she chatted with me for a while.
He asked me about a few children, my parents were in good health, my husband and my work unit, like checking my household registration. I answered her one by one, and there were no lies, because I didn't feel the need to tell a lie.
Later we talked about the relationship between husband and wife. This may be the point she wants to say, because I didn't go home last night, and she must know it best.
Second, the story of the grandmother and the old Cai.
She said, people, sometimes confused, you are like me are seventy or eighty years old, and even with my first love out of the tour, you see if I am a little confused, if acquaintances know, this is not a laughing stock for everyone.
I smiled and didn't answer, because I wasn't the one in question, I couldn't feel her experience, I couldn't judge anyone by moral standards, so that I didn't think I was a gentleman, and everyone else became a villain.
He went on to say, In fact, after I returned to the city from the countryside, I threw Lao Cai away with a fierce heart, because at that time in the countryside, eating enough had become a problem, and I was really afraid of suffering again. After returning to the city, I worked as a worker in the fertilizer factory, and someone just introduced me to my current husband, who was the squad leader of the workshop at that time, and the person was quite handsome, about one meter and eight tall, and was still an alternate member of the city basketball team. You think about it, at that time, he worked well and was the object of many girls' pursuit.
Speaking of this, the grandmother's face is full of youthful smiles, as if she is back to her youth.
I married my husband in town. Soon after getting married, my husband went to the city basketball team, and he was out all year round, either participating in or training. And I have to go to work with two kids. Then she added that the older boy was my husband and his ex-wife, and we later had a girl, both of whom I took.
Women may not care about feelings when they are busy, I spent my energy mainly on them during the two children from elementary school to college, and there is not much time to think wildly, even if I occasionally think of Lao Cai, I myself will shake my head, thinking that I have no chance to meet him at all.
Later, the children left home, my husband was paralyzed due to a balling injury, I took care of it for many years, and I couldn't take care of it before I was sent to a nursing home.
In fact, I think that after living with my husband for so many years, when I can fight and jump, I always live separately, and I have not lived much happy life, paralyzed and taken care of him for so many years, as if I owed him in my previous life.
Somehow, a few years ago, I was extremely eager to meet Lao Cai, I inquired everywhere, and finally found his contact information. You know, it's this old man who comes to me every day.
Old Cai had a bad reputation in the countryside because he was in love with me, and finally married a widow, and he never returned to the city. They have a son who works in Shanghai, and his wife lives with his son all year round.
He himself remains in the same place where we once sent down. He said he liked that place, that place had his youth, and it was also a place where we used to live together, and he couldn't live without that land.
In fact, over the years, he has never forgotten the places we have been to, where there are the best memories of his youth.
When I went to the countryside, my parents gave me a watch and I gave it to him. You see for so many years, this old Shanghai is still wearing it on his hand.
You find that no, that watch has actually stopped a long time ago, maybe his heart is still stuck in that moment.
Later, I wanted to give him a new piece, but he said, what else do you want, this table is always correct at two points in time, which is always more meaningful than walking every day without a point in time being correct!
When Grandma finished speaking, she was suddenly silent... ～
Third, my story.
Later we talked about my marriage. In fact, my love and marriage have been said before.
But the grandmother did not know, he told me, women, when the child is small, the child is the woman's day.
Sometimes our marriage is not the happiness or unhappiness of our own life, but to a large extent, the children are happy and unhappy, happy and unhappy, which may be the responsibility for the family.
Later, when I talked about my husband, I told him that my husband was actually a homosexual, he didn't like me and his son at all, and he only saw himself in his eyes.
He is constantly climbing up the unit, with the sole purpose of improving his desire for control and power! Last time, a handsome young man in the unit also accused him of indecency, and as a result, he sly argued that he was caring. The police station came to my house to investigate, and I also want to say how he took care of his family, how he loved me... ～
I glanced at Grandma, his eyes were a little moist, and I thought she might know a little about my family... ～