Some time ago, there was an incident on the Internet that stung the hearts of many people.
On August 23, when a bus in Nanchang, Jiangxi Province passed the platform, a middle-aged elder sister stumbled to catch up with the bus, and after falling, she had a hard time getting up to chase the bus, and the bus driver saw the situation of the elder sister from the rearview mirror, stopped the bus to wait for her, and helped the elder sister to the car, after inquiring, she knew that the elder sister was in a hurry to work.
The bus driver saw that the eldest sister was in a bad state and asked her, "Do you still go to work like this?" Hurry up and go to the hospital to see it", the eldest sister not only did not listen, but also said vigorously: "If you want to go to work, if you don't go, you will deduct 300 full attendance awards." ”
The woman chased the bus with illness for 300 yuan
The company driver saw that the persuasion was ineffective, and the eldest sister refused to disclose the contact information of her family, so she had to call the police for help. After understanding, I learned that this eldest sister had entered the hospital after working the night shift before, and she had just finished the injection for the 300 yuan full attendance award.
As soon as the video was exposed, it immediately caused a hot discussion, and most people were lamenting that the adult world was not easy, saying that they saw their own shadow from the eldest sister, but there was also a voice that said: For a mere 300 yuan, I really don't even want to die.
Yes, this 300 yuan is just a meal money for you, but for many people, it may be a week, or even a month's living expenses.
The mere 300 yuan you are talking about may be nothing more than an hourly wage for you, but it may be a hard week's salary for others.
The saddest thing about people is that they always like to use their own standards to measure others, you would rather deduct money than grab the red light for a few seconds, you feel that others should be like you; you would rather not have 300 full attendance and rest well, you think that others are stupid for 300.
If you have not been poor, you do not know what it is like to be poor.
No one who has ever been poor is not qualified to judge others at will.
No poor person is not qualified to judge others at will
There was a program on the Internet that was recorded 10 years ago and suddenly caught fire, and this program was "The Poor and The Rich" The general content of the program is to let four elites of high society experience the life of the lowest people in the lower society.
These elites include business tycoons, rich second-generations, models and lawyers, and the people they want to experience are cleaners, single mothers, petty traders, and even homeless people.
Before going, some of these elites swore that if you have fighting spirit, even the weak can become strong;
Others say he learned from elementary school how to spend the least amount of money to do the most;
Others shouted that the golden spoon was born, never knowing why.
Before experiencing it, confidently say that the weak can also become the strong
But without exception, when these elites really live as the roles of people at the bottom of society, they find that some of their lives are so difficult that they can't support themselves for a day.
The elite who said that the weak can also become strong experience is the cleaner, and when he handed over all his belongings and received 50 yuan, he came to the cleaner's residence and found that it was only a 1.6 square meter place, just enough for one person to sleep. This 1.6 square meter place also costs more than a thousand a month, but the salary of the cleaner is only 6,7 thousand yuan a month.
This is just the beginning, when he went to work the next day, he knew that the one-way fare from the place of residence to the place of work would cost more than 13 yuan, and this time 27 yuan would be gone, that is to say, he only had 23 yuan left on this day, and he had to arrange three meals a day.
In the show, this high-class person seems to be very embarrassed, the high transportation cost occupies a large part, how to live with the rest of the money?
When he went to the store after a hard day's work to buy some food, he found that he only had enough money to buy a sandwich. After a long day of work, how can this sandwich fill your stomach?
But this is the most real state of life of the people at the bottom, and the hard work of the whole day may not even fill the stomach.
After a hard day's work, I found that the rest of the money could not afford dinner
Finally, the elite said frankly: If such a life lasts for a month or more, he may not have the fighting spirit. Because I really insisted on not coming, I only worked for two days to end the experience.
You see, before you have experienced true poverty, you can confidently say that as long as you have fighting spirit, the weak can become strong. But when he experienced life at the bottom of society, he found that poverty would only make people think about how to live, and would not inspire morale at all.
Of course, in this show, there are three other people who also start the experience with confidence, and end the experience with a tired face.
People who have never been poor always talk about you not working hard and not changing your thinking, in fact, the real poor, they are full of thoughts about how to survive, how to fill their stomachs.
Believe it or not, there is some poverty in this society that cannot be changed by how hard you try.
There is a kind of poverty that cannot be changed no matter how hard you try
I once asked my friends around me, at what moment, do you think life is too hard.
Some of my friends told me that the credit card expires tomorrow, but it is difficult for her to buy instant noodles now; some people tell me that it is just after resigning that the family calls to let me transfer some money back; others tell me that after the divorce, the pressure of the child's tuition and mortgage makes her sleepless all night...
In fact, everyone is not easy, we are born ordinary, there is no rich family, no open life, everyone is desperate to live, but still can not compete with reality.
People who have lived hard know how hard life really is
How hard life really is, only those who have actually experienced it know.
Just like the above comments, the big sister doesn't even want to die for 300 yuan, because you have never experienced the taste of poverty, nor have you ever experienced the hardships of life.
The same elite who took 50 yuan a day in the "Poor and Rich Men War" program, after spending 27 yuan to ride in the car, found that they did not even eat enough and would be embarrassed.
But coincidentally, when someone commented on the high subway fare a few years ago, he said that if you feel expensive, there are other options for opening, and we are not a social welfare agency.
When you don't have personal experience, others say that you feel bitter is a pretense, and others say that they can't change what you think is stupid. But when you really live as someone else, you know how hard life is.
When you really live as someone else, you know how hard life is
In the eyes of many people, you are poor only because you are too lazy to change, you are stupid and do not know how to change.
So for these people at the bottom of life. Many people can't help but evaluate others and use their own standards to measure others: saying that others bargain for a few dollars, saying that others are dying for hundreds of dollars, and even saying that others are poor because they have no fighting spirit.
If there is a choice, who does not want to live in a big house, do not worry about food and clothing, but most people still worry about life all day long, and those at the bottom of society are more worried about how to survive.
So don't always judge others from your own point of view, you are not qualified to evaluate others without experiencing other people's lives. Therefore, to understand more about the lives of others, to understand more about the pain behind poverty, is the greatest respect for others.
Seeing those who are running for their lives, giving people a little more smiley faces, giving more warmth, and less contempt is the best respect for them.
It is not a sin for the poor in this world, and the guilty people despise the poor.
A little more understanding and tolerance is the greatest respect for those at the bottom of life
Everyone's birth is different, the experience is different, naturally also has its own way of life, we all use our own ways to try to fight against this society, but others are not the same as your level, different from your expectations.
So none of us have the right to blame anyone, even if it's poverty.
Because you haven't been poor, you really don't understand the taste of poverty.