Yi Nanping will eventually pass away with the wind

Passing by is the fate; looking back is the fate; not leaving or abandoning is the fate, turning away is the fate;

Fate is a very wonderful thing, there will be many people in life, maybe somewhere, at some time you will meet a person, you know each other, fall in love, and then walk away on a windy and sunny afternoon, regret? Regret it, once you were so in love with each other, after separation, you disappeared from each other's lives.

Xiao Jie and Jia Jia are one of the many couples in the university, Xiao Jie and I are roommates, in my eyes Xiao Jie is hard-working, sunny and positive, tenacious personality, from an ordinary rural family, while Jia Jia is intellectually generous, gentle and elegant, dignified in character, born in a scholarly and fragrant doorway, in the eyes of outsiders they are not a good match. Knowing that Xiao Jie's family conditions are not good, Jia Jia often sends Xiao Jie clothes and shoes, daily necessities, and Xiao Jie goes to work-study to give back to Jia Jia, so they spent a plain and beautiful 4 years. After graduation, Xiao Jie and Jia Jia met to go to Jia Jia's city.

Because of the distance and time, gradually my contact with Xiao Jie became very little, and suddenly one day Xiao Jie called me, he came to my city, he was very depressed, I took a leave of absence to pick him up, when I saw him, I was stunned, his face was haggard, his hair was messy, his beard was pulled, this is still the big boy I know who has a sunny heart no matter what happens.

Later he told me that he and Jiajia broke up, the breakup was Jiajiati, the reason for the breakup was that Xiaojie couldn't afford to buy a house, I vaguely felt that it was not this reason, I asked Xiaojie, "Have you ever gone to find Jiajia", he said he had looked for it, but Jiajia and their family had moved away, his relatives and friends could not contact Jiajia, Shi Shenhai could no longer contact him, and disappeared into the vast sea of people.

Since that day, Xiao Jie has been drinking heavily every day, working carelessly, and frequently making mistakes, so that he has caused heavy losses to the company and has been expelled. The feelings of 7 years are so gone, unwilling, difficult to reconcile, difficult to let go.

Later, Xiao Jie found a job again, put the focus on work, every day is very busy, and after two years, found a new girlfriend, but also ready to get married, I asked Xiao Jie still want Jia Jia, he said yes, but it is not important.

Many times, our inner intentions are difficult, but we want an answer, a real reason for being abandoned, because only the answer can make us let go. It is often said that to be abandoned is to be unloved. In fact, with the passage of time, we slowly found that it did not matter whether there was an answer or not.

We should calmly accept a person's sudden appearance, but also calmly accept a person's gradual drifting away, do not regret, do not self-denial, self-doubt. After all, in addition to love, we also have careers, family affection, friendship, and if we miss the autumn maple and winter snow, we will usher in the cherry blossoms in spring. Today's regrets will definitely be compensated in another way in the coming day.

Because the rain will stop, the heart will be sunny, nothing will be bad forever, the mountains and seas will return, the wind and rain will meet, the peace will eventually be reconciled, and everything will be as expected.