The article "Kite" wrote about an incident about kites between Mr. Lu Xun and his brother when he was young, and one day when he grew up, he suddenly regretted this matter, but there was nowhere to ask for forgiveness. I read from Mr. Lu Xun's account that I felt the same way as the boss, as if I had done this to my younger brothers and sisters. I don't know if all the bosses have this look?
In the winter in Beijing, when the snow had not yet melted and there were still bald branches under the clear sky, there were one or two kites floating, but Mr. Lu Xun felt sad in his heart, because he remembered an incident in his childhood.
When flying kites in his hometown, the willow trees have sprouted, and the early peaches are budding, and they are gentle. Lu Xun's younger brother is about ten years old and loves to watch others fly kites. What does it look like when he looks at a kite? In the words of Mr. Lu Xun: "With a small mouth open, I look at the air, sometimes for half a day." ”
However, his small mouth was open and he looked at it, and that was all he could do. Because his brother did not like to fly kites, and he hated it, thinking that flying kites was only done by children who did not show up.
So where did Lu Xun's concept come from? Maybe it's the teachings of the parents and elders, maybe it's the teachings in the sages. As the eldest son of the family, the eldest brother, lu Xun was not the best able to listen to these words, and was the most able to impose such ideas on his younger brothers?
And this younger brother may be young, respect the elder brother, may not know how to express and resist, because the next brother's approach is really very excessive.
Lu Xun suddenly remembered one day that he hadn't seen his little brother for several days, and remembered that he had seen him picking up dried bamboo a few days ago, and his heart had a few points. So the angry brother ran to push open the hut where the clutter was stored, and the younger brother was inside, panicked.
This brother is a little distressed to read, and his big butterfly kite will be ready soon! Bamboo bones are placed on the big stools, and small wind wheels are placed on the small stools, almost waiting for the paste paper, the kite is just fine. However, this angry brother almost hated iron and steel, broke his wing bones, flattened the wind wheel, and flew away.
Lu Xun said: "In terms of strength and strength, he can't defeat me, of course, I won a complete victory, so I came out proudly, leaving him standing in the hut in despair." ”
Do any of your brothers and sisters in your family educate their younger siblings with such righteous words and awe-inspiring words? Do you think that you are presiding over justice, and when you are finished educating, you still throw your hands away? Or have you ever educated your younger siblings in this way?
I don't know where this great righteousness of the bosses came from? The little bit of knowledge and insight that you have to eat for a few more years and the awe of the three views relying on your parents? Maybe the little authority granted by the parents when they go out, the parents really use the authority when they go out? Maybe an older boss really understands his parents better and bears more?
I myself have done the work of having my brothers and sisters stand under the tree in the doorway and stand in front of them in a serious way to reprimand them.
However, Mr. Lu Xun said that his punishment had finally arrived, because he saw a book about children, and he knew: "Play is the most legitimate behavior of children, and toys are children's angels." His mood became as heavy as a lead block.
He wanted to ask for forgiveness, to ask for forgiveness. If his brother said he didn't blame him at all, he would be at ease.
Mr. Lu Xun said that after many years, when I met my brother, "I added a lot of 'raw' hard stripes to my face, and my heart was very heavy." When he spoke, he eagerly awaited his brother's forgiveness.
"Has there ever been such a thing?" This was the younger brother's reaction, and the heavy heart had to continue to be heavy.
When reminiscing with their younger siblings, they were still a little unconvinced by the talk and laughter of the leaders and authorities of that year.
When the hard lines of "birth" gradually increase on the face, after some years, many years, when I recall those things, I will still have some laughter, some funny, some sadness, and some warmth.