Recently, the third season of "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" is scheduled to start production. The broadcast time is tentatively scheduled for the beginning of 2022, because wang Xinling is in the guest list that broke out, which has aroused a lot of attention.
At that time, a song "Eyelash Bending" was popular all over the streets, and the brisk and sweet melody was matched with cute and playful dance steps, so that Wang Xinling won the title of "Sweetheart Sect Leader".
Together with Jolin Tsai, Rainie Yang and Zhang Shaohan, she is also known as the "Four Great Masters" of the leading figures in Taiwan's Chinese music scene.
Times have passed, jolin Tsai at the same time has become the queen of heaven; Rainie Yang and Zhang Shaohan are still active in the music scene, and when Wang Xinling is mentioned, the public's eyes seem to be on the entangled scandal between her and her ex-boyfriend.
Now, the 39-year-old has returned to people's vision, in addition to appearing in variety shows, Wang Xinling's tour concert is also about to meet the audience in 2022.
This generation of actresses who are often occupied by the "Sweetheart Sect Leader" and the "Scumbag Magnet" are going to fight in the end?
About Wang Xinling's love history, it is a well-known story of a simple girl who has been repeatedly hurt by a scumbag. This imperfect character allows everyone who once loved hard to find similar memories.
In 2003, the 21-year-old Wang Xinling officially debuted as an idol singer with his first album "cyndi begin".
In 2004, she starred in the idol drama "The Wedding Dress of Heaven", in which Wang Xinling sang a song "The Wedding Dress of Flowers" sung by wang Xinling.
Since then, Wang Xinling's career has begun to hang all the way, she is the "sweetheart god" of the music world, and she is also a professional household of the "Mary Sue" heroine. That classic oblique bangs style has set off a trend and triggered a fanatical chase.
However, in 2009, with the invasion of the Korean Wave, the vitality of taiwan's music scene gradually lost, and idol dramas also began to decline. Wang Xinling's last well-known work on the mainland was "In Love with Cha Mei Le" broadcast on Zhejiang Satellite TV in 2011.
She began to actively seek transformation, but she couldn't seem to find a suitable style for her. In addition, because of the unhappiness on the emotional road, Wang Xinling's career has also been hit hard.
At the age of 17, Wang Xinling and actor Fan Zhiwei had an affair because of the play. Fan Zhiwei was once a popular young student in Taiwan, and in 2002 he became famous for starring in the base rot TV series "Evil Son" based on Bai Xianyong's novel.
During the love period, Fan Zhiwei split his legs twice, and the scandal continued, but whenever Fan Zhiwei bowed his head and confessed his mistake, Wang Xinling softly chose to forgive.
Even when Fan Zhiwei first split his leg, Wang Xinling not only did not leave in anger, but stood up to excuse Fan Zhiwei: "That period was vague, and he could tell the outside world that he was single. ”
In a reporter interview, Fan Zhiwei also proudly revealed the details of the two people's relationship - he once beat Wang Xinling, "once at the airport, once on the street."
Fan Zhiwei spoke lightly and without any sense of guilt, as if Wang Xinling was an item at his disposal. In this relationship, Wang Xinling compromised everywhere and forgave everything, and she thought that she could be firmly loved in this way.
Entangled for six years, the relationship between the two reached an end, but the story did not end.
Five years after the breakup, Fan Zhiwei broke out intimate photos with Wang Xinling in order to win attention, and rumored that his private life was chaotic, and he lost his first time at the age of 17.
Since then, Wang Xinling's image of a pure girl has collapsed, her popularity has plummeted, and gossip has abounded.
However, even if she was so hurt by the scumbag, Wang Xinling did not condemn the other party, she shed tears in the interview, blaming herself for loving too deeply and being too spineless.
After coming out of the last bad love, in 2010, Wang Xinling and Yao Yuanhao's love affair was exposed.
Yao Yuanhao's predecessor, Sui Tang, constantly hinted at and crusaded against Wang Xinling Xiaosan. Yao Yuanhao refused to admit the relationship between the two from beginning to end, and never even stood up for her.
Only Wang Xinling was left to hold a press conference to emphasize, "I have also been hurt by a third party, and I absolutely do not allow myself to become a third party in other people's feelings." ”
However, unilateral rhetoric did not help at all, she fell into a storm of public opinion, her career stagnated, and the long-planned Little Dome concert had to be cancelled.
After 8 years, Wang Xinling finally woke up and broke up decisively, and she also carried the insult of 8 years of Xiaosan.
Six months after the separation, a photo of Wang Xinling wearing a thin shoulder strap top and pink panties circulated online.
Her friend scolded Yao Yuanhao: "Dogs and photos are not well kept." ”
The agency also stated for the first time: "The photo of the artist taking a nap at home, circulating this photo has involved the secret of prevention and seriously infringed on the privacy of the artist." ”
But Yao Yuanhao repeatedly stressed that he was innocent. He admitted that he had taken the pictures, but definitely not him scattered them.
The company said it would pursue responsibility, but at this time Wang Xinling chose to believe him and withdrew the lawsuit. Clearly the victim, she issued an apology statement.
Many people do not understand, why can't Wang Xinling bravely defend his own interests?
Psychology has a term called "blame for oneself," which means to see everything as one's own problem. By doing so, you can create some sense of control on a deeper level.
But if we blindly blame ourselves and excessively degrade ourselves and dislike themselves, we will only make our hearts weaker and so caught in a vicious circle.
For example, Qibao said the words of debater Huang Zhizhong: "I don't want to hear that the girls are 'scumed' and still find mistakes in themselves." Because as long as you are willing to find your own problems, you can always find problems. ”
Since her debut, Wang Xinling has always been well-behaved and sensible in people's impressions, which is also the background of her personality. Growing up in a single-parent family, she rarely received the love and care of her mother.
Her mother, who once suffered from mental illness, often vented negative emotions on Wang Xinling and beat and scolded her. It wasn't until she released a few albums that her mother finally gave a compliment: "You sang really well." ”
The strong mother made her insecure from an early age, so that the boys she met later, as long as they were gentle, she would fall.
She is also accustomed to being patient and giving in everywhere, exchanging obedience and compromise for love and affirmation. Even if you are cheated on, domestic violence, and repeatedly touch the bottom line, you do not have the courage to fight and resist.
Being well-behaved and obedient, desperately paying, and unable to exchange for long-term companionship and love, this is a correct and useless sentence, because the key to the problem is to have a self first, and then have a good intimate relationship.
And it takes a lot of things to build the self, and the first thing you need is to see the real needs of the self.
Wang Xinling, who was plagued by various negative news, began to decline his career.
She no longer stuck to the "sweet" wind, and began to experiment with various styles, sexy, exaggerated, charming... But the path to transformation has had little effect.
In 2016, Wang Xinling was photographed with a set of airport maps. "Stiff face, puffy, broken..." All kinds of sharp words made her involved in the "storm of cosmetic failures."
As everyone knows, when filming "Love Charmele" in 2011, Wang Xinling suffered from acute cellulitis, facial necrosis, bacterial infection caused "disfigurement", and the treatment process was even more painful.
"She had to take 6 antibiotics a day, she was tortured to death by the pain, so in order not to let everyone wait too long, she rushed back to the set on the first day after recovery."
And this "Love Chamille" also became Wang Xinling's last idol drama work.
At a certain stage of life, after the difficulties ensued, we will inevitably ask life: Are you living the life you want now? Is the focus of your life on the things that are most meaningful to you? Is your lifestyle vibrant or unsettling?
This kind of questioning will make people re-examine themselves and embrace life.
After experiencing career decline and illness, Wang Xinling's pace seemed to slow down.
For a long time, she disappeared from the public eye. She went on trips and started working out. Weighing only 84 pounds, she can lift 80 pounds of barbells. In solitude, people can feel their own existence more.
When he returned, Wang Xinling released the album "The 10th Wang Xinling".
She began to accept her own girlish label and accept all other people's judgments of good or bad:
"In my mind, girls should be ageless. Sweet feeling, it is not my baggage, it should be a characteristic of my birth. ”
Once, her evaluation of music was overly dependent on the outside world.
If the album is rated too sexy, then the next album becomes conservative; "Someone said she would just jump and sing, and she immediately changed the lyric song to the title song." ”
This time, she completely relied on her own decision and chose the content of her favorite song for the first time. "Love and marriage come with fate, and the most important thing for you now is your career," she said.
She will use the strength to pursue being loved, use it for self-fulfillment, and also usher in a new peak of her career.
In 2018, Wang Xinling won her twelfth album "cyndiloves2sing Love." "Heart Ling" won the Chinese Five Gold List Annual Women's Championship.
Knowing the question "Who is the most underrated singer", Wang Xinling is on the list.
She has released a total of 12 albums, the transformation of songs from sweet girlish style to mature and delicate style, and the songs are also excellent works involving musicians such as Chen Shanni, Ge Dawei, and Shi Rencheng.
Today, she is still expanding her boundaries, experimenting with hip-hop styles, singing on the Little Dome, hosting world tours, and starring in comedy movies.
A song "Big Sleep" was popular all over the Internet, not only winning the annual Top Ten Chinese Song Award, but also setting off a wave of cover singing trends. She fulfilled a dream that had been delayed, and once again let everyone remember her name.
Her achievement after achievement shows that Wang Xinling has never stopped his steps, but has continued to move forward. Her seriousness and persistence in her career is something that many fast food idols can't do.
Write at the end:
Some time ago, Wang Xinling and Rainie Yang collaborated on a song "Girls", they used a gentle voice to advise all girls: "The business is inward, don't lose yourself, no longer treat yourself badly", "Free, as a girl, please love yourself." ”
Today, Wang Xinling's new perspective on herself and life is a reward for her hard years.
In fact, what we can have is to satisfy ourselves.
Contradiction and pain are a process of self-struggle, mature to face those who do not go well, accept the desire will be disappointed, the self will grow in the process.
You don't just take a relationship or someone as a wing to shelter, you can provide love and protection for yourself, and the branches of life will spread out and reach wider.
Finally, may you dare to put on your armor, cut through thorns, and be the one who always pleases you.