Communication has always been a hot topic in the recent "Do Not Disturb" program. Tonight (September 18) show, one male guest believes that "mixing mouths" is a kind of love between lovers; another male guest emphasizes that his mate selection criteria are "I hope that the other half can have something to say well". The three teachers discussed how to communicate between lovers in the Internet age and unanimously suggested: we must upgrade from superficial expression to deep spiritual communication to form a good emotional interaction, which is not only needed for love, but also needed for life.
"Mixing mouth" is a kind of fun? Communication is not only by mouth, but also by "brain" and "stomach"
Male guest Zhang Hui is a person who likes to be lively, and hopes that the other half can mix with himself from time to time, "My parents will often mix their mouths, their feelings have been very good, and I think that in the process of mixing mouths, everyone will say everything out, which is more conducive to the promotion of feelings." Meng Fei shared a story on the spot: a handsome man from a company where a girl works, she especially likes him, wants to communicate with him, and looks for him every day, hoping to come together through this "happy enemy" model, noisy and finally happy to come together, and as a result, the boy resigned a month later. Meng Fei suggested: When expressing, it is best to express the true meaning, I like that you want to attract your attention, can not use anger to attract attention, "If the lovers between the mouth has become a kind of eroticism, it is a high-level technology of language expression, there is a very important premise is that the relationship has been stable and the two people are very familiar, you can try this kind of erotic mixing." ”
In love, Zhang Hui is a shy person, "I will hide my feelings in an expression, a sentence, a song, in the past feelings, the time is long two people like two parallel lines, two people eat together, everyone holds a mobile phone, each has nothing to talk about, in that moment I feel that we can't go on." "What is the right fit for two people together?" Female guest Maino gave such a standard: "Two people together, do not play mobile phones, do not eat, do not do anything can not talk for more than two hours, I think this kind of soul communication, spiritual communication is a particularly suitable pair." Zhang Hui also said: "So I hope to mix my mouth rather than communicate." Meng Fei suggested: "Communication is not only a will, but also requires skill. We should all learn to open ourselves, expand ourselves, and try to go further towards topics that interest each other in order to achieve better communication. Huang Lan and Chen Ming also said: "Many people think that communication is a problem of the mouth, but in fact, it is a problem of the brain and stomach. The brain is your experience and thinking, the experience can satisfy your breadth, the thinking is responsible for your depth; your belly is the part that embraces listening. The mouth without thinking can only be a superficial emotional back and forth, and it cannot satisfy the long-term relationship. We must not only have the willingness to communicate, but also have common hobbies and lives, and spiritual communication is the greatest support. ”
As a physical teacher, Zhang Hui has a straight figure and handsome appearance, and when he learned that his heartwarming girl Chen Shengnan happened to be a zhitui girl, he couldn't help but issue an invitation to walk on the same stage. In the cheers of the crowd, can two people successfully hold hands?
In the Internet era, it is more necessary to upgrade from superficial expression to deep spiritual communication
Male guest Chen Bing has a very special mate selection standard, "I hope to be able to drink once a week with my future girlfriend, in fact, I do not love to drink, or I think that everyone is usually busy, some small problems encountered when getting along may not have the energy to resolve in time, I hope there is an opportunity for everyone to open their hearts and have heart-to-heart communication once a week." Meng Fei couldn't help but sigh: "The focus of the male guests is to talk once a week, and not long ago, there was a boy who hoped to set up a 'love communication board' with his other half." I found that men in this era especially want two people to have their hearts to say, and they are eager to be able to have something to say together. ”
Chen Bing said on the spot: "For feelings, what I want is long-term, and I think the most important thing is to talk well and accompany each other." I hope that I can always give each other a sense of security, I hope that two people can calmly communicate and solve problems when they encounter difficulties, and I will rush to your side at the first time when encountering difficulties, and become the person who fights for you. In the recent program, the on-site topic is highly focused on the matter of "communication", and the three teachers can't help but sigh: "Now more and more boys, the willingness to communicate in love is particularly strong." But communication is one is willingness and the other is ability, which are two things. Especially in the Internet age, we are often superficial expressions, and the desire for deep spiritual level and deep soul communication is becoming more and more urgent. As some female guests said, it is even more likely to have someone who can sit across from you, look into your eyes, and talk happily for two hours. We keep discussing the topic of communication, it is indeed worth thinking about whether we can keep a little distance from network expression, and use the way outside of network thinking to form a good communication and interaction with people close to us, which is what love needs, and it is also needed for life outside of love. ”
Female guest Su Yuan insisted on leaving the lamp until the end, and the male guest also said: "Through the exchange on the field, I feel that we have a special chat! "In the end, can two people successfully hold hands?
Watch tips: Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Do Not Disturb" is brilliantly staged tonight (Saturday, September 18) at 20:30!