When exactly did we start to become real adults?
Is it the moment when you suddenly realize that the sorrows of your youth have long since been released?
Is it the moment when you feel like you should fight for something for your life?
Is it the moment when students transform into social people and begin to live independently?
Is it the moment when you begin to slowly accept the ordinary and unsatisfactory self?
However, this kind of snickering of adulthood did not last long, and it was surrounded by the full troubles of adults.
Busy in the workplace, the usual of the family, the years are slowly moving forward, give yourself a moderate evaluation, like there is no ups and downs in life.
So at this time, I began to envy the teenager who wrote childish and enthusiastic love letters.
By TINTIN
Chiaki Yoshino said,
I thought people wouldn't feel lonely when they became adults. It turned out that this was not the case at all.
But, it's not just me, everyone is like this.
Although it is uneasy and lonely, it will not be on the lips.
Laugh happily and forget about it all.
This may be called growing up.
Chiaki Yoshino, 45, a tv producer in Tokyo and a single middle-aged white-collar elite, has recently come to feel pressure from young viewers. After work, she likes to get together with her two or three old friends who are also unmarried to drink and chat.
50-year-old Nagakura Heping, the head of the Tourism Promotion Division of the Kamakura City Council, worked hard to pull together his younger siblings in his early years, lost his wife in middle age, and lived with his daughter. The young colleagues he worked with liked to make painless jokes with him, his rebellious daughter treated him coldly, his two younger sisters were housewives and one was squatting at home; his younger brother Yang Ping ran a small café at home.
Two lonely adults, once on their own tracks, neither had ever met anyone.
The failure of the love affair and the unhappiness of the work, Chiaki said to her old friend, let's move to Kamakura together. They all didn't care when she was joking until one day she excitedly talked about her new neighbor in Kamakura.
In this slow-paced little town, it seems that everything is choppy. I used to think it would be a middle-aged and elderly love story that exuded an old atmosphere, and then, with a little bit of the smell of the once vicissitudes. But their encounter was so different, with all kinds of misunderstandings, and the arrogance of middle-aged people.
However, everything has long been predestined, whether it is the unexpected encounter at the exit of the train, or the side-by-side view of the sea by the Kamakura Sea, or the neighbors of the cause of all these fates.
It's hard to be sure when they developed a crush on each other, maybe even without knowing it.
Because all you can see is a large conversation between them and a short argument between parents, and the opponents spit on each other, like two young people who are holding their breath and are more real.
How old does it take for people to stop falling in love?
Qianming has actually not stopped falling in love, and her last relationship was a typical mature female relationship. Peace has always refused to be introduced by blind dates, he still can't let go of his dead wife in his heart, and he is worried that his rebellious daughter will not be able to accept it.
They probably all used to pessimistically feel that they could no longer or did not deserve to have love that could lead to the end of their lives.
They always think seriously about their work, family, and friends, but when they talk about themselves, they hide it, and cover up the past with quarrels and quarrels. After the quarrel, they will drink and chat, open their hearts in a slightly drunk state, and change their usual arrogant posture.
This love story is told slowly for two seasons, as if the writers meaningfully arranged their encounter in the peaceful and tranquil town of Kamakura.
Perhaps for middle-aged people, love is too heavy a topic.
So later Peace said to Chiaki, no matter what time, you will always be a sister who is five years younger than me. This pair of CP, whose age adds up to almost 100 years old, just because of this sentence, forced me to stuff a sweet and sad sugar in front of the screen.
The title of the play is "Penultimate Love", which I understand means that it is probably necessary to enjoy time as if it were the penultimate love of life, rather than having the caution and worry of seeing it as the last love.
This time, none of them pleased and catered to anyone, no worries of gain or loss; they were no longer clinging to eternal love like young boys and girls, but only hoped that it was a beautiful feeling that went with the flow.
I can't help but think of my relatives and friends around me. Although their love stories are different and take place at different stages of life, they also have some similar bridges. Maybe they were young and unsuspecting, maybe they met in the vast sea of people later. But what does it matter? Sooner or later, love is not too late, as long as you come, it is just right. When you look back one day in the future, you may find that the encounter alone has already cost you so much effort, it is almost fatal.
And before love comes along, you just have to continue to be responsible for loving life. In this way, when a ta appears in front of you, you still have a heart that can be loved, don't you? Talk about a bland but sincere relationship, like you've never been hurt.
(Unless noted, the pictures are from the Internet)
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