(Record the eighth communication - the content of the conversation with the child, in order to protect privacy, the child is anonymous here)
Teacher Pengyu: Child, has there been any change in the family recently?
Child: Recently, the family has changed dramatically.
Teacher Pengyu: The family has undergone earth-shaking changes. So tell me, what was Mom like before?
Child: In the past, our house echoed with the roar of my mother. (Mom and Dad laughed)
Teacher Pengyu: What kind of mother is now?
Child: Mom is much gentler now.
Teacher Pengyu: What happened to Dad?
Child: Dad used to only care about working to make money, and Dad was like a familiar stranger to our siblings.
Teacher Pengyu: Are you very happy that your father is at home with you?
Child: It's okay if Dad doesn't come back, but when Dad says he wants to come back, we're even more nervous. (Dad is sad)
Teacher Pengyu: What about the current father?
Child: Dad is very patient with us now, and I am willing to talk to him when I have something to say.
Teacher Pengyu: Okay, I see. So what do you think Mom and Dad still need to adjust?
Child: I think they are much better than my girlfriends' moms and dads, and they don't need to adjust anymore. Next, they just adjust their relationship.
Teacher Pengyu: Okay, then our conversation is over, and you can go out and play.
Child: Good (hahahaha ~~~~~)
Thinking back to the anxiety and helplessness of the child's parents when they first found Teacher Pengyu to communicate in May this year, the joy gained all the way to the present is really touching and happy for her and her parents. The time experience is not long, only 3 months, but I have witnessed the rebirth of a life that is deeply depressed and bleak. The 3 months in between are not short, and we cannot know the uneasiness and even the shaking suffering experienced by our parents during this period. But they did, and the family was rebuilt with a new system. This is the power of belief, and this is the strength of parents to persist.
Therefore, no matter whether our children encounter rebellious and boredom, or suspended from school, or even more serious inhibition of SELF-CAN, we must remember that we are the father and mother of the child, we must have the strength to help the child get back on his feet, pursue the value of his life, and realize his mission in life. Because, we are parents!