Introduction: In "Dream of the Red Chamber", the only woman who does not deserve sympathy is You Sanjie. Third Sister You was not only lascivious and confused before she died, but she did not even repent after her death. The ghosts are all deceiving Liu Xiang and carrying out moral kidnapping and conscience torture against Liu Xianglian in the form of a dream.
1: You Sanjie is willing to fall, and after playing enough, she "blames" others
Don't think that You Sanjie swore that she would no longer "fool around" with Jia Zhen and Jia Rong, even if it was "congliang". In fact, she did not think that this kind of behavior was shameful before she had to turn back, but she saw that her sister had found a home, and she also had a sense of urgency. After all, being so ambiguous with your brother-in-law and nephew is not a game after all.
Jia Zhen and Jia Rong didn't love her, they just wanted to play with her. Even later, even Jia Lian wanted to eat a "chowder soup" together. Under such circumstances, You Sanjie finally realized that something was wrong.
Before, she had never imagined that she was such a "unbearable" person, and in the eyes of the father and son, she was just a prostitute and a fan, and she was not worthy of cherishing and respecting at all. Otherwise, Jia Lian would not have the idea of "stretching out a leg".
Obviously, Jia Lian already knew what kind of "goods" she was, so she dared to think of this idea. Jia Lian means: why don't you raise one more "brother-in-law", anyway, one is also raised, two are also raised, you are young, and you are not "unable to afford"? Horizontal and vertical we brothers will not be jealous of each other, let's all play together happily, okay?
This time, Third Sister You was really annoyed, and sneered: "Shimizu under the miscellaneous noodles, you eat I see... Let's not puncture this layer of paper. ”
The translation means: You two still have a face to face me, really think I don't know what you are? But just save face for you, you should also save some face for me, don't make me too ugly. Otherwise, annoyed with the aunt and grandmother, everyone is faceless, I am barefoot and not afraid to wear shoes, just afraid that you can't afford to lose!
You Sanjie can also be regarded as "beating the snake seven inches", and really scares the brothers. Originally, secretly marrying You Erjie during the period of filial piety and family filial piety had already violated the law, and if zhang yang went out, wouldn't it be equivalent to throwing himself into the net?
Moreover, at this time, Jia Lian still cared about Second Sister You very much, and did not want Second Sister You to be dissatisfied with him because of her sister's affairs. Seeing that Third Sister You was really not easy to mess with, she had to retreat to the position of "pure brother-in-law".
At this time, You Sanjie finally saw the true face of these grandfathers in Jia Province, and in the eyes of their fathers and sons and brothers, they were just a plaything. They will never give themselves a dignified name and a home. Instead of this, it is better to marry yourself off while you are young, or leave this "dirty, shameful circle" and bid farewell to this unforgettable past.
If she wanted to say goodbye to the past completely, she could only jump out of Jia Province, so she thought of Liu Xianglian. Although Liu Xianglian is from a family background, she has fallen into the middle of the family, and presumably she is worthy of him.
However, in the end, it is "the flowers fall intentionally, and the flow of water is merciless". You Sanjie thought that as long as she could marry Liu Xianglian, she could wash away the stain and become a person again. Unexpectedly, the world is difficult to fulfill people's wishes, Liu Xianglian did not know where to find out the news, actually found out her details, and insisted on retiring from marriage.
Hope is shattered, reputation is ruined, and it is impossible to live and "become a person again". If this is not the case, I am afraid that the only way is to "reincarnate" first - and then get a new life. As a result, You Sanjie was ashamed and desperate, and the horizontal sword killed herself.
Although You Sanjie died, it was not enough to prove her innocence. "Innocence" cannot be proved by sacrificing one's life, these are two different things. The ugly things she did did not mean that she could get rid of them all by "one death".
In the original work, it is clearly described that when Jia Rong suggested that Jia Rong outsource the Yang You sisters, its purpose was also to "play for their own convenience".
After You Erjie was married to Huazhi Lane, one night, Jia Zhen went to "comfort" the sisters, and although You Erjie avoided it, You Third Sister catered to it, sitting on Jia Zhen's lap, and all kinds of frictions were electric. The little girl who was waiting on the side called out her hot eyes, and she really couldn't look at it anymore, so she withdrew with interest. There were only two of them left in the room, and the book said," I don't know what I was doing." ”
In fact, regarding her relationship with her brother-in-law, You Sanjie later admitted it herself. When Liu Xianglian came to Huazhi Lane to retire, there was a text dedicated to describing You Sanjie's psychological reaction, the original text is as follows:
Third Sister Nayu clearly heard it in the room. It was so easy to wait for him to come, but now that he suddenly saw the remorse, he knew that he had received the news in the Jia Mansion, and naturally he felt that he was obscene and shameless, and disdained his wife..."
See? You Sanjie's inner monologue is "Knowing that he got the news in Jia Fu", not "Knowing that he heard rumors in Jia Fu by mistake". Isn't that obvious? You Sanjie knew that her fig leaf had been ripped off by others, and she could not hide it, so she had to commit suicide. The reason for suicide is that it is really "no face to live again".
Originally, as a reader, I praised You Sanjie's behavior at that time, "knowing shame is almost courageous." Since she had the courage to end her life, it meant that she had woken up and repented—and was finally willing to face up to her shamelessness and absurdity. Courage is commendable, and the next life can be expected.
However, what I never expected was that Third Sister You did not realize because of death, but was more hypocritical, selfish, cunning and vicious. She not only made Liu Xianglian fully responsible for her death, but also made Liu Xianglian pay for her death for the rest of her life, so that he spent the rest of his life in guilt and extreme guilt.
Let's look at the original text again to see how You Sanjie gave Liu Xianglian a dream and said something. The original text is as follows:
Liu Xianglian went out of the house for nothing, drowsy and silent, thinking about the matter of Fang Cai, and regretting herself. Between walking, I saw Xue Pan's little house looking for his home, and that Xianglian only had to take care of the gods. The little house took him to the new house, very neat. Overhearing Huan Pei's jingling, You Sanjie entered from outside, holding the Mandarin Duck Sword in one hand and a booklet in the other, and wept to Liu Xianglian: "Concubines have been waiting for Jun for five years!" Unexpectedly, Junguo was cold-hearted and cold-hearted, and the concubine repaid this infatuation with death. Concubine Jin was ordered by the police to go to the too illusory realm to repair all the ghosts in the case. The concubines could not bear to be separated, so they came for a while, and they could never see each other again! He said and left.
If you have not read the previous article, do not know the details of You Sanjie, at first reading, you really think that You Sanjie is a woman who is obsessed with loyalty, and actually waited for Liu Xianglian for five years! In the end, what awaited was a cold-hearted and cold-faced thin lover. Poor "Idiots meet heartless people." ”
You Sanjie's heart is precisely here, because Liu Xianglian only listened to others say something that had no empirical evidence, but it was conjured up, but there was no evidence to prove that You Sanjie had an affair with Jia Zhen and Jia Rong. At this moment, Liu Xianglian must think that she had wronged You Sanjie, which caused You Sanjie to kill herself.
Isn't a woman who uses her life to prove her innocence not worth believing? There has always been only "people cheating on ghosts", where have you heard of "ghosts deceiving people"? Under such circumstances, how could Liu Xianglian not regret and blame herself? How can you easily forgive yourself for your sins?
But in fact, did You Sanjie really "wait for Liu Xianglian for five years"? Everyone knows that she did not "wait" at all. "Wait" means "only for one person to stick to", which is the real sense of "wait". But Third Sister You has not been idle at all in the past five years, and she has always had her brother-in-law and nephew "mat bar", how did she become "waiting for Liu Xianglian for five years"? Isn't that a lie?
Therefore, You Sanjie is really hopeless, and she has not really repented and reflected on herself until her death, and has also destroyed an innocent outsider.
If she hadn't had to marry Liu Xianglian, Liu Xianglian would have been living well all the time, and she wouldn't have to become a monk or carry a human life.
She had enough to play with to find an honest person to take over the plate, people do not take over the plate she will be forced to die, and finally do not let the ghost let go of people, but also ruined people's lives.
Is such a Third Sister You worthy of everyone's sympathy and regret? In my opinion, she is dead and has more than enough to do, but she pitied Liu Xianglian, who was teased by her in vain, and she also had to take her own life for no reason.