"Don't think about me too often, I don't want you to be sad, live well, live." Love your Will. ”
Will in a wheelchair opted for euthanasia.
This is a scene from the movie "Before I Met You".
The film tells the story of Will, a high paralyzed person, who met clark, an ordinary small town girl, and had an unforgettable love affair for 6 months.
Clark, the girl who loves him deeply, can he still live?
Will is a young and promising rich and handsome man who was paralyzed by a car accident during a rainstorm, and has changed from a surfing, skiing and mountaineering tour to a person who needs to be cared for all day.
He could only rely on various drugs to survive, sitting in a wheelchair and counting his days in despair.
Will attempted suicide several times, and his beloved girlfriend left him. In an instant, he could not decide his life, he made the most important decision in his life, he only wanted to decide for himself once: to go to Switzerland to euthanize.
He made a six-month agreement with his parents to live.
Clark, a small-town girl after losing her job, became Will's caregiver. They went from initial resistance to indifference to later acquaintances and loves, just as Cinderella met Prince Charming.
In order to get Will to muster up the courage to live, Clark did everything he could. Even planned to take Will on a trip. As long as Will lived, she willingly accepted love without embrace.
Will, who had reached for the entire world, is now trapped in a wheelchair and never recovers, requiring someone else to take care of him every day to stay alive.
"You know what? You are the only motivation I have now to wake up every day. When Clark and Will dance together in a wheelchair, Will can't help but confess.
He loves Clark in his heart, but because of his body, he can't give her a hug. His inner torment made him worse off than dead.
This kind of pain and gap, if it were not for the fact that he had lived about six months with his parents, he would not want to live for a day.
Initially Clark didn't know Will's plan to live for six months. She is kind and optimistic, has no lofty ideals, but is a pragmatic girl.
Originally, the two of them were people from different worlds, but fate made them meet.
They spend their days and nights together, with each other's companionship, natural affection that makes an irrepressible spark of love bubble up in their hearts, and Carack knows that Will can only live in a wheelchair and cannot even give her a hug, as long as there is love, Clark feels happy.
"I know that becoming like this is not your choice. But I can make you happy. Clark declares his true feelings to Will.
"No, Clark, I understand that life can be beautiful, but it's not my life, it's too far away, you haven't seen me before." 」 Will answered calmly.
Before they met, each other had their own lives. After they met, they both changed drastically.
Clark changed dress, loved music and literature, even went to school diving, got tattoos for the first time, and under the influence of Will, she slowly transformed into a princess in the castle.
She went from the original cute to the atmospheric, sexy, comfortable behind, from the initial vagueness, just wanting to have a job to earn money, to pursuing what she wanted.
Clark gained courage, self-confidence, the ability to change, the ability to love someone. It was Will who gave her the courage to change.
Before the town was all she had to live, she even knew that there were only 150 steps from the bakery to her own home.
Because of Will, she began to have her own dreams, and she began to think about whether she could also reach out and own the world.
She has the courage to change Will's dream, she loves him, and she hopes that even if she can't hug him, she is willing to love him, as long as this love can keep Will alive.
Will brings Clark's inner growth, and love makes Clark transform and regenerate.
The six months they spent together were the best times in each other's lives.
Will is deeply in love with Clark, but insists on euthanasia. Before he died, he tried everything he could to make Clark himself aware of the possibilities lurking deep within her. Make her willing to have the ability to change her life in the future, let Clark seek the life she wants.
They watch movies together, enjoy music together, go horse racing together, and feel Clark reading. He endured severe physical pain and had a long trip with Clark before he died.
He loves Clark but can't give her a hug, and the only thing he's happy about is that he can still bring certain possibilities for a better life for her.
What is true love? Love is that you can make the other person better, you can achieve each other, you can make the other person live a really good life, a better life than when you didn't meet yourself.
When it comes to love, there is nothing more than Jin Yuelin loving Lin Weiyin. Even in the old age of "the things of the early years are modern history, and the things of the present are ancient history", he still remembers Lin Weiyin so clearly.
Modern love, on the other hand, is relatively fragile and is usually mixed with many factors. It seems to be inferior to Jin Yuelin's unconditional lifelong waiting, and even less than the life-and-death love between Will and Clark.
Just like Will dies with love, Clark lives with love. Will loves Clark and doesn't want her wheelchair to imprison her future.
Before Will went to Switzerland, he planned how to fulfill Clark's wishes and arranged for her to give her the opportunity and capital to live. Although it was only six months, it was the best six months of their entire lives, because of the beauty, six months were longer than 60 years.
Leaving is Will's greater love for Clark, and completing Clark's good life is Will's whole love.
In a person's life, he must experience countless kinds of love, the love of parents, the love of husband and wife, the love of children, the love of friends, and the love of family affection.
Will's mother, Mrs. Trela, faces her son's choice, and her heart is immersed in the edge of the cliff day and night, constantly worried about Will's departure.
How she wished Will could live. What kind of suffering in the world can make a mother agree to the euthanasia of her son and see life slowly disappear before her eyes?
In order to keep his son alive, he even had to be selfish. When she discovers that Clark has moved into her boyfriend's house with Patrick, Therera is conflicted and entangled.
She is a decent judge, but she has to make irrational requests to Clark:
"Can you wait a little while before you grab your happiness in front of Will?"
The bitterness and helplessness of a mother and the unbearable pain of the world are vividly reflected in Trela.
Before euthanasia, she personally went to Negotiate with Clark, who she asked to accompany Will to Switzerland. She knew that her son's last wish was to see her beloved Clarke before he died.
Clark's parents, despite their strenuous opposition, finally had to fulfill Clarke's wishes and love.
Euthanasia is controversial after all, and if one's own child participates in the known Will death plan as a helper, even if it is legal, one cannot be at peace with one's own soul.
Heartbroken, they supported Clark from the last few hours of blockage to fly to Switzerland. This torment of love for children allows us to see the brilliance of human nature.
The most selfless and great love in the world is the love of parents, who are willing to give their lives for their children, can lose their dignity, can save money, can endure disease and poverty, can endure loneliness and parting, and even accept that children choose euthanasia.
Mrs. Trela and Clark's parents. Although their status is very different, their love for their children is the same.
Clark had inadvertently learned that Will and his family had agreed to his euthanasia plan, and her whole soul was frightened.
She was originally a very ordinary girl, with an ordinary warm family, a boyfriend who had been in a stable relationship for seven years, and her life was the same, and she thought that she would always be in this town.
She is kind, sunny, and talkative. She thought that as long as she believed, there would be more spectacular scenery, a better future.
She overcame all odds and did so many things that she couldn't do even for herself, and she just wanted Will to change his mind before euthanasia and live.
Will wants Clark to meet a better version of himself, he doesn't want to drag Clark down, he wants her to get the life she wants.
Clark loves him and does not want to give birth to his departure, but love is also a kind of fulfillment, another hope of life after Will's liberation.
As long as there is love, there is hope, even if life is gone, love will never disappear, and so is hope.
With hope, the living can live better, and because of hope, the dead have not wasted their lives in vain.
Love is a kind of fulfillment, but also a kind of hope, love is the true meaning of all things in the universe, hope is all the courage of the world to pursue beauty.
With her love for Clark, Will fearlessly chooses to go to Switzerland as she plans, and Clark loves Will, and she accepts and understands Will's departure with heartbreak.
Mrs. Trela lost her son in despair and helplessness, and Karak lost her lover in grief. It's like the changing seasons, everything withers away, but life goes on, and everyone is part of a cycle.
Just as sunlight gives the illusion that the warmth of commitment is less than what it actually gives. Just as darkness's fear of man is not the whole picture.
"You're engraved on my heart, Clark. You have changed my life tremendously. Far more than that money can give you a life." Will's last words were like a giant thunderbolt that struck Clark's churning grief.
I seemed to see Clark sitting in tears in the dark of the café's green shaded exit, the gentle autumn sun shining on her face.
Clark walks the streets of Paris in the pair of bumblebee pantyhose that Will gave her, and this beautiful shot is frozen in the eyes of all: she walks on the road to happiness with Will's love, and at the same time a continuation of his life.
Although broken, it is still beautiful.
The love of the soul without embrace still blooms brilliant love flowers after meeting!
"Don't think of me too often, I don't want you to be sad, live well, live well, I will accompany you every step you take." Love your Will. ”
Postscript: Before I met you
Can't people living in wheelchairs have love?
As Clark's parents, would you support your daughter when she chose to fall in love with a boy who could only live in a wheelchair and couldn't even give hugs?
If you were Will, would you fulfill Clark and choose euthanasia without hesitation?
If you were Will's parents, what would you do in the face of your son's choices?
There are only a few countries in the world today that can legitimately choose euthanasia, what do you think?
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【Text: ANNIE Hawaii】
【Editor: Fanghua's Diary】
【Typesetting: Osamu Taniya】
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