The phenomenon of contemporary couples living together is very common, and there are not a few people who break up after living together, would you mind if the object has slept with someone else?
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > at the age of 20: quite mindful</h1>
Some people say that the impulse of love, triggered by emotions, is the product of emotion.
20-year-old love is young and ignorant, emotional ups and downs, maybe just a message late reply, the mood will be turbulent. At this age, don't say that they have lived together, that is, they have hugged and held hands with others, and they will be sad to be bad. Saddened by why he was not himself, saddened by how he did not wait for him to appear, and of course, angry at the imaginary enemy.
This age group is quite mindful both physically and mentally. Because the love at this time is very pure, get up in the morning to kiss the forehead, walk together will be hand in hand, every festival will have gifts, pockets like magic, candy, cherries, lychees, constantly conjured out, sleep together at night, possessive.
That sweet, hazy feeling is unforgettable, and it is a life experience unique to young people who have tasted love for the first time!
Think of your notes: the past is important, but the most important thing is always the present and the future, as long as the TA is worth it, as long as you want, what happened in the past is just the experience of making the TA the person you like now, living every moment of being together, looking forward to every moment of tomorrow, which is more important than thinking about the past.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > two, 30 years old: acceptable</h1>
30-year-old love is a real material, emotional intelligence game, together is very natural, separated is also very natural.
It is also acceptable because it is not physical, but mental, that is mindful at this time.
Have you ever thought that before your future TA was with you, she lived with other people - they were like husband and wife, cooking together, watching movies, cleaning, taking care of each other, hugging each other to sleep, sometimes arguing, but also compromising with each other, they worked together for a long time, completely surrendered themselves to each other, unguarded, and finally broke up and moved out because of irreconcilable contradictions. Such a breakup is no different from a divorce.
It is also acceptable that of course there is a premise, as long as the TA is divided cleanly, cut off thoroughly, and never mentioned from now on, the past is the past, since the past has no fate to meet, then there is no need for people who have become the past to know.
I think you note that every couple chooses to live together, all because of the current love, then ta now choose to live with you again, but also because of the current love, and the people who have really lived together are actually very afraid in their hearts, because living together will really produce a lot of bad differences, but it depends on whether you can survive the current love and resolve this disagreement!
Three, 40 years old: I don't mind at all
When you find the best one, the past really doesn't matter anymore.
At the age of 40, I didn't mind at all. At this time, I have experienced a variety of changes in life, know that life is short, know that good people are difficult to meet, and dwell on the past, which is both annoying and uninteresting. The past has shaped you, and the past has allowed you to meet now. Living the moment is probably the only option.
In this era, it is almost impossible to ask the other party to be like a jade when they have not met themselves. Time has passed, and when you reach the age of true maturity, you will find that you have seen the gains and losses, and you can love each other more sincerely and think about each other.
Man cannot go back to the past, what has passed is irreversible, and no force can push the past back and start over.
Yesterday has become history, tomorrow is still unknown, so we take today as a gift, so today is called present.
I think you think that who else in this era will end from one? Who wouldn't have a story? As long as he is physically and mentally healthy, the last good person is himself, and his own good person is also ta, which is enough. Two people have their own experiences, gradually growing up, learning from the previous relationship to learn how to manage emotions, will better face the future!
Thoughts of your note conclusion:
Some people think that they have not lived with others, of course, they require their future other half, if they have lived with others, they will naturally not ask each other at this point.
Anyway, this kind of thing, if you can't do it yourself, ask less for this and that!
Life is inseparable from chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, but it is also inseparable from the like-minded three views, equal insight, rich and interesting soul, smart people, will pursue love at the same time, reborn, become a better self.
Thank you for reading. Think of your notes, melt into words, and take you to understand the emotional world together.