The love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu is deeply moving. It is said that in the Qing Dynasty, a woman who read "Dream of the Red Chamber" broke her intestines and died, which shows the regret that the ancients could not ask for "Bao Dai love". And bao dai love at the end, Junji Yakan red chamber speculated that it should be a "reconciliation". Although the two sides cannot keep each other for a long time, "if the two loves are long, they will be in the twilight of the dynasty." Therefore, the main purpose of the too illusory realm and the love comes from the nickname of Qin Guan, and Qin is too vain!
Gossip aside, Bao Dai love is an important factor that "Dream of the Red Chamber" can always make future generations pay attention to. However, the love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu was not recognized in the era of "Dream of the Red Chamber". So much so that after the book was written, many critics stood up and described it as an "obscene" text. The young lady who "died with a broken intestine" undoubtedly died because it was difficult to have the regret of "Bao Dai love" in reality, and would cut off her liver and intestines and die of suffering.
In fact, in "Dream of the Red Chamber", Bao Dai's love is also not recognized. The original text of the term "Bao Dai love" is not, but "wood and stone marriage" and "wood and stone front edge". The so-called "Bao Dai love" and "Bao Dai marriage" are the summary of future generations.
Regarding the feelings of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, it stems from the fact that Wang Xifeng always joked about them.
Sister Feng smiled and said, "Don't dream! You have made a daughter-in-law to our family, what is missing? Pointing to Bao Yu, he said, "You see, the characters and the door are not worthy, the foundation is not worthy, and the furniture is not worthy?" Who else does that insult? ”
Wang Xifeng recognized the marriage between Bao Dai and Bao Dai, especially Jia Mu also supported marrying Lin Daiyu to Jia Baoyu, so that she could kiss and kiss, representing the Jia family's wind direction about Jia Baoyu's marriage. But bao dai's love was really exposed, or it was discovered by the attackers.
The thirty-second time Shi Xiangyun came to Jia's house, Lin Daiyu was worried that Jia Baoyu would secretly come to observe because Jin Qilin and Shi Xiangyun were doing the "West Chamber" again. Not wanting to lead to "appealing to the heart and heart to live Baoyu", Jia Baoyu made an inner confession, and all of them were said in front of the attackers. The attackers were terrified.
When the attacker heard this, he was so frightened that his soul was scattered, and he only shouted, "God Heavenly Bodhisattva, I have been killed!" He pushed him and said, "That's the word there!" Dare to be evil? Not ready to go? "Here the raiders saw him go, thinking of their own words, must be because of Daiyu, so it seems that in the future it is inevitable that things will not be talented, which is frightening and frightening." Thinking of this, I didn't feel that I was dripping tears, and how to deal with the darkness in my heart to avoid this ugly disaster.
When the raider heard Jia Baoyu's confession, "frightened and dissipated", she used two words to describe Bao Dai's love, one is "untalented things" and the other is "ugly". This was not a first, but a "consensus" of the era on the love between men and women outside of marriage.
"Untalented things" are things that are not serious, things that are not successful people do.
"Ugly" is ugly, and it can cause serious things that can cause "evil".
"Untalented things" and "ugly disasters" are extremely serious and vicious accusations, highlighting the world's unblessment and fear of men's and women's private feelings. After Jia Baoyu was beaten, the attackers plucked up the courage to "speak" to Madame Wang, mainly because Bao Dai's love problems were serious, and a little carelessness could make Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu lose their reputations and could not be left to their own devices.
Jia Mu supported Bao Dai's marriage, but she also completely disagreed with the fact that Lin Daiyu used her wine glass to feed Jia Baoyu in public on the night of the Lantern Festival. She then "broke the lie", seemingly aiming at Aunt Xue's mother and daughter coming to the Jia family to plot a golden and jade marriage, but in fact, she also played fifty big boards for Bao Dai's love!
(Fifty-fourth time) This lady must be well-versed, omniscient, and a wonderful woman. Only as soon as I saw a handsome man, whether it was a relative or a friend, I remembered the lifelong events, my parents also forgot, the book ceremony also forgot, the ghost is not a ghost, the thief is not a thief, that little is a beauty? It is full of articles, and doing these things is not a good person. For example, if a man is full of articles to be a thief, is it not possible for the king to say that he is a talented man, and he will not enter the case of thief love?
"Thief love" is Jia Mu's positioning of the private love of men and women. It is a step worse than the unskilled things and ugliness. Thieves, thieves also. Although Jin Yuliang's marriage is suspected of "stealing", why doesn't Bao Dai love have it?
Jia Mu said, "There is no such thing in our family", which is not only to cover up for Bao Dai and the two of them, but also to draw a line for Bao Dai's marriage, and private feelings are not allowed!
The Marriage of Bao Dai recognized by Jia Mu is the fate of her parents, not the private feelings of the two people. Bao Dai marriage, Jia Mu support, Bao Dai love, Jia Mu resolutely oppose!
The reason why Jia Baoyu was mad because of Zi Juan's words was that Jia Mu's "breaking the lie" made him panic. He thought that Jia Mu did not support them, so he simply made it public and threatened with "life". Madame Wang's anger and corruption of the Grand View Garden were all the consequences of Jia Baoyu's impulsiveness.
But in any case, the "etiquette and rules" of that era accepted the "love" of men and women. Like "The Tale of the West Chamber" and "Peony Pavilion", including "Dream of the Red Chamber", which was once a banned book, it also originated from this!
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