<h1>01</h1>
When one person asks another person "dare or dare", the other person must say "dare", which is a rule of the game that Sophie and Julian often play. They are young plum bamboo horses that they play together from childhood to adulthood.
When they met, Sophie was being ostracized by her friends, who called her a "dirty Polish", and Julian saw the contents of her bag scattered on the ground and gave her a beautiful iron box in his hand to make her happy. Their camaraderie and game began from this moment.
Julian's mother died of a serious illness, he was very sad, his father in order to let him get through this dark time smoothly, called Sophie's mother to let Sophie come to stay with Julian at night, this accompaniment is ten years, they are intimate, sleep in the same bed.
They have been playing the game of "dare not to dare", doing a lot of jerk things in their childhood, saying dirty words, disrupting the order of the classroom, urinating in the principal's office, wearing underwear and so on, as long as one of them asks "dare not", the other must do it.
Ten years later, Julian's father suddenly stopped them from continuing to communicate and asked him to calm down and study for the exam. He and Sophie got into an awkward fight because of this, and then bet on whether the other would dare not see each other for a year.
When they reunite four years later, Julian marries someone else for Sophie's words, "You will never dare to hurt me," and invites her to be a witness. On the day of the wedding, Sophie came to church with an iron box and asked him to repent, but he did not agree. Sophie angrily prevents him from marrying, causing him and his father to break up.
Julian gets angry and takes her to the tracks to play a game of life and death, where Sophie is nearly killed by a train. The two got into a fight, and she said we wouldn't see each other for ten years.
In the decade that followed, they really never saw each other again. He had everything, wife, kids, career, garage savings, but without Sophie, the days were a bit boring. He actually missed Sophie and was afraid that she would forget herself.
Unexpectedly, on the day of the end of the decade, he received an iron box from Sophie and her new game. She made the house look like a thief had entered the house and stolen something, then called the police, and a minute after Julian arrived, the police came to arrest him, and he was in a car accident while escaping.
The final challenge is for two people to sink into the cement together.
This story comes from the movie "Two Little Guesses", to be honest, I thought it was very good when I first watched it, but the more I went to the back, the more I felt senseless and brainless, and the games they played were too boring.
There is actually love between them, and they could have had a happy ending, but they were ruined by a game.
<h1>02</h1>
Once Sophie asked Julian "dare to kiss me", Julian said "dare" without hesitation, and then they kissed deeply, Sophie asked "love me, dare not", he replied "dare" as usual, Sophie pushed him away and asked him "Is this a game for you?" ”
Without even thinking about it, he replied, "No, it's a bet, you started first." ”
Hearing this answer, she angrily left. Sophie finds herself in love with Julian, but she is insecure about the relationship.
Because they had been playing games all along, she knew that he would dare to do whatever he wanted him to do, but the only thing he couldn't be sure of was his feelings for him.
So she was confused, whether Julian liked herself or not, she did not know.
Julian actually likes Sophie too, but he is used to treating everything between them as a game, and every time when Sophie leaves, he can't always open his mouth, and he regrets it after Sophie is gone, regrets not holding her, regrets not saying his feelings for her.
They missed it again and again, and there were many opportunities to choose from together, but because of the game, they suppressed their inner feelings in their hearts. It's a shame.
The most torturous feeling is probably Sophie and Julian, two people who obviously like each other and want to be with each other, but miss because they are not sure of each other's thoughts. That specious feeling is really scratching.
<h1>03</h1>
From the first time Sophie asked Julian "dare to dare", they were doomed to only get along in a game way, and the kiss became a game, and even stupid enough to use the game to challenge each other to dare to hurt themselves.
If a relationship becomes a game, if she asks you if you dare to love me, dare to like me, dare to kiss me, even if the other party dares, you will doubt whether it is true, even if it is true, you still dare not believe it.
This is the source of the tragedy of their relationship.
When feelings become games, how to get serious, and how to make the other party believe in themselves.
If they can be honest with each other at the beginning, if they can all seriously express their likes and tell her that this is not a game, I really like you; if they stop testing each other through games, they can have a happy ending.
Love has happened, but it has been erased by the game.
This film probably wants to tell us that when dealing with feelings and treating the people around us, please be sincere, do not use the mentality of the game, who plays who has already lost.