When "Cinderella" waits not for the prince, but for the executioner; when "Snow White" is not saved by the prince's kiss; when Little Red Riding Hood raises his pistol and kills the big bad wolf........ Such a fairy tale, can you accept it?
This "Rebel Nursery Rhymes" breaks our previous inherently beautiful cognition of fairy tales, and also subverts the definition of the fixed image of girls in previous fairy tales: the image of delicate, sick, passive, naïve, waiting to be saved, in the form of fairy tales, reveals the truth of real life, telling girls: don't expect the prince's salvation, the prince may be a cold-blooded killer; don't always wait and passive, that can't make life turn a little turnaround.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > you thought the "prince" would save you, but you didn't expect the "prince" to kill you. </h1>
Cinderella, who wanted to run for the queen's ball, put on a beautiful dress and shiny crystal shoes with the help of the elves and danced with the prince, and left in a hurry before midnight. The shoe she had left behind was discovered by the prince, who ordered that whoever could wear it was his bride. The prince casually shelved his shoes and was secretly dropped by Cinderella's sister.
On the 2nd day, the prince asked everyone to try on shoes, Cinderella's sister tried, just right, but the prince thought she was too ugly, cut off her head, and then cut off cinderella's thin sister's head, Cinderella came forward to see the situation, the prince wanted to cut off her head again, Cinderella fled in a hurry, which is a scene in "Rebel Nursery Rhymes".
Is this ending a surprise? But was it really unexpected? How much reality does this reflect!
Remember the wife murder case in Shanghai more than eight months ago? The 27-year-old girl was killed by her husband, who was newly married for less than three months. After the killer assassinated the girl, in order to cover up the crime, he poured gasoline on the bedroom and lit a lighter. When the girl was found, she was completely unrecognizable and had a fruit knife inserted in her neck.
Imagine how heartbreaking the girl's relatives should be to see this scene. The "prince" she thought was gentle and elegant, knowledgeable, and caring for her. In the end, I didn't know, or never had a chance to know again, that it was all a disguise for false feelings. His "elite" image is fake, studying abroad only because of poor grades; his "sweet words" are fake, just a drug that seduces her and makes her obey; his "reform" is also fake, gambling addiction, for money, you can ask for his wife's life.
Such examples, one after another, are shocking. From the case of the second generation of the rich in Nanjing who slashed and killed his wife, to the case of the wife who killed his wife and hid the body in Shanghai, to the case of Lady Lai in Hangzhou, and then to the recent Case of Ram. Behind these cruel truths, how many girls have been buried with beautiful fantasies, and how many women's grievances have been wrapped up.
So, girls, should still be "gentle and sensible"? Should it still be "virtuous and virtuous"? Should it still be "resigned"? Should you still marry a "good guy"? When "sensible" becomes "good trouble", when "virtuous" becomes "good deception", when "obedience" becomes "surrender", when the "good person" who marries does not exist, then what will happen? The "Cinderella" in the cartoon can suddenly wake up, and reality always makes people too late to escape.
Looking at these bloody lessons, the education of girls should not be just "obedient" or "sensible". When we lose the ability to discern and do not have the courage to withdraw, when will the tragedy of "man-made knife tricks, I am for fish meat" stop!
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > when "Snow White" is saved without a prince. </h1>
The hunter followed the queen's orders to hunt down Snow White, and later moved his compassion and released Snow White, who encountered seven dwarfs on his way to escape. But the story is reversed again, the dwarf is a good gamble, and his daily life is all taken care of by snow. One day, when the dwarf loses all his belongings by strength and has no rice in the house, Bai Xue sneaks back to the palace and steals the magic mirror that can be predicted. Through the magic mirror, the dwarfs gamble all the way to the horse, thus gaining financial freedom. The absurdity of this magical ending is only an adult "fairy tale" after all.
But when the princess has no prince, when the dwarf becomes the princess's care object. Bai Xue did not passively wait, but took the initiative to bear, the delicate princess who was once a delicate princess, but bravely let life be her own.
This reminds me of the story of "Dumpling Queen" Zang Jianhe. Zang Jianhe is an authentic Shandong native, and when he was working as a nurse in a hospital, he met her husband at the time, a Thai doctor who aided China. The doctor's gentleman, persistence, and dedication to this love moved the girl's heart. So the two married and gave birth to two daughters. After 6 years of marriage, Zang Jianhe's husband took the lead in returning to Thailand due to the incident and settled in Thailand, due to difficulties in documents, Zang Jianhe and his daughter stayed in Qingdao. Three years later, when Zang Jianhe took his daughter to search for relatives, he found that her husband had another family. Zang Jianhe rejected polygamy, refused the "good" arrangement of the in-laws, took his two daughters, and resolutely returned to Qingdao, so there was a follow-up story of "Wan Chai Pier".
I would have turned my heart to the bright moon, but the bright moon shone in the ditch. I don't want to bend over backwards, you bear my heart, so, cut it in two, go your separate ways.
Princesses don't need princes to save, and women don't need to find their home by clinging to men. Independence, autonomy, self-confidence, and self-reliance have never been empty theories, but solid foundations for us to build good atriums.
Therefore, the girls in the family, I don't want to tell you the story of "Snow White" and other true love, but I want to tell you about "Mulan"'s substitute father joining the army.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > wolf did not eat Little Red Riding Hood, and Little Red Riding Hood pulled the trigger. </h1>
On her way to trying to save Snow, Little Red Riding Hood picks up the hunter's dropped shotgun, and she can only watch as Snow is captured by the hunter, but she can't do anything. Back at home, Little Red Riding Hood saw through the wolf pretending to be her grandmother, and when the wolf approached Little Red Riding Hood and wanted to eat her, Little Red Riding Hood did not hesitate and pulled the trigger.
From the first trigger for self-defense, to the second trigger as a bounty hunter, to the third trigger to get rid of the pig boss who cheated money, Little Red Riding Hood had two more wolfskin coats and a pigskin bag. Little Red Riding Hood holds her fate tightly in the palm of her hand while she awakens herself, and her bottom line is also decreasing step by step.
The character is plump and deep, and slightly blackened. It symbolizes women's anti-killing and independence after encountering family affection, friendship, cheating and betrayal. But in the end, Uncle Wolf chooses not to take revenge, and the scene of silent departure hints at the preciousness of letting go and choosing kindness.
It seems that "Rebel Nursery Rhymes" is the truth of reality. Don't expect the salvation of others, don't fantasize about cross-class love, fate can only be tightened on your own, even if you are deep in the quagmire, you still have to let go of the past and be full of hope for the future. Perhaps, this is what we want to talk to girls.
Life will never be gentle because you are a girl, fairy tales are only fairy tales, hope that girls unveil fairy tales, see the fangs of the truth, become their own warriors, pluck up the courage to achieve their own future, to protect themselves, to protect love.
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