Wen | Cheats Jun
There is a saying called "standing on the wind outlet, pigs can fly", when the wind outlet came, some people had a keen sense of smell, and he needed to make a choice, give up the previous, and accept the present. After that, life circumstances were very different. This is called a turning point.
Doing so also takes a lot of risk, and if you don't turn right, you may fall into the abyss. Nokia of that year was a negative example.
Since I have a parenting number here, let's talk about parenting. Putting aside the background of the times, there are also several important turning points in people's lives, grasping the counterattack and not being able to catch the sigh.
If you are a parent, pay more attention to these turning points in your child. Of course, you can also apply these few turning points to reflect on your own life and see if what I say is reasonable.
◆ The first turning point: university
Seeing this, many people will be dumbfounded, and the subtext in their hearts is, they know that you will say this.
But when I say college, it's not just whether you got into college or not, and what kind of university you were admitted to.
At this big turning point of "university", there will be many small points that will be overlooked:
(1) Selected major
Whether the major is chosen correctly or not will affect the future career development, and people who enter the society should have a deep understanding of this.
Take me, graduated from the Chinese language and literature major, read and endorsed books in school, and went out of society to be either a teacher or a clerk, with a monthly salary of several thousand yuan. And the students of the computer department of the same school, even if they skip class and make up for everything, they come out to be a software engineer with a monthly salary of tens of thousands.
Can you say I didn't work hard at school? But sometimes choice is much more important than effort.
Therefore, parents must pay attention to their children when choosing a major. Don't choose an unpopular major, a jump is a pit, choose the same as the future development trend. What if we don't have that vision? Ask the smartest person around you, if not, go online and pay for advice.
(2) The direction of efforts in school
Of course, sometimes because of the score limitations, you can't choose the major you like or think is promising. So what to do? It depends on the direction of your four years of college efforts.
If you are very interested in a certain major, you can take related courses, even if you can't take them, you can also go to the department to rub classes.
When one of my students was transferred to food engineering, she liked French, went to audit the French department of foreign languages every day, and passed the grade exam. Later, the school recruited, some companies recruited foreign staff, required to know French, and the required major was just related to her, so she stood out from a group of French students.
If you want to have a good way out after graduation, the best way is to know in advance what you want to do in the future, what you can do, and then accumulate the corresponding ability in school. Otherwise, efforts without goals are also vain efforts.
◆ The second turning point: the first job
Many people think that the first job does not matter, it is to accumulate work experience. Miss by a mile. Many people after doing the first job, because of the inertia of thinking or the experience requirements of the recruitment company, the second and third jobs will also be strongly related to the first job.
Want to switch industries halfway through? Then these previous years of work will be a big burden and increase your sunk costs.
In addition, the status of "fresh graduate" is still very important now. Whether it is the examination or the examination editor, many of them are inclined to fresh graduates.
Therefore, the direction after graduation should be considered at the beginning. Do you want to go to graduate school, take the public examination or work.
◆ The third turning point: marriage
Including when to get married and what kind of people to find. The former will affect your career planning, after all, there are still children after marriage; the latter will affect your career progress and even life happiness. A good marriage will give people the confidence to struggle, and a bad marriage will consume people's self-confidence and willpower.
For women, it is an extra thing to decide when to have children and how many to prepare for.
It can be said that at this point in time to have a child, after choosing the right one, you still have a job to fight for, and if you choose the wrong one, I am afraid that your entire career will change. How to weigh it is a test of wisdom.
[Compared with the above, which turning point do you think has the greatest impact on your current life?] 】