In the process of a student's growth, not only does it need the correct guidance of the school teacher, but family education is inseparable from the growth of students. The influence of parents on students is even more profound than that of teachers.
The author once saw a message on the Internet, saying that after the students go to school, the school will be responsible for the guidance of students in all aspects, parents will never go, teaching students is the school's business, let our parents do what?
This must be a parent's message, in fact, the first teacher that students can contact is the parent, and indeed after going to school, students spend most of their time in school, and the teacher has to educate people in addition to teaching.
But for teachers and students: the master leads into the door, and the practice is in the individual. If the student does the right things in life, he also needs parents to advise, if the "little tree is crooked" should be corrected as soon as possible, if he is allowed to grow arbitrarily, the future may lead to serious consequences.
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Recently, there is a news story that has attracted a lot of attention on the Internet. The leader is a boy surnamed Wang, we call him Xiao Wang, after the gang was arrested, after investigation, the crime was very shocking from beginning to end, only 23 years old, why did he do this?
This age itself should be the age of just graduating from undergraduate as a student in the future, when peers at home to fight for their own future opportunities, and Xiao Wang's life may be about to draw a heavy end.
Xiao Wang is a well-known local figure, and the mention of his name makes most students shudder, and even many adults have to walk around after seeing him. It was such a person who was sentenced to death at the age of the flower season.
You know, our country is very cautious about the death penalty, if it is not a heinous crime, it will not be easy to make such a judgment, then what did Xiao Wang do?
This matter also comes from that year ago, during the middle school, boys will have martial arts dreams, hoping that they can call the wind and rain, so Xiao Wang in order to become the "big brother" of the grade, collect protection fees from classmates, but also fight around to consolidate their position, slowly there are some little brothers attached to him, it seems that "there is a face", a group of minors have become a "group".
After developing bigger and bigger, a campus romance failed, which made him very unacceptable, so he began to have extreme ideas about girls, often violently treated female classmates, and did some indescribable things, for two years, he alone forced 20 female classmates to make mistakes, nearly half of them were young girls, the plot was very serious, these mistakes only occurred in two years.
At present, the matter is still in the second instance, but the result is already doomed. The root cause of this matter can make many parents pay attention to it, because this is not a unilateral reason for the school, most of it is because of the lack of family education.
To everyone's surprise, Xiao Wang's father was still a people's teacher and taught at the school for ten years. Later, in order to improve his living standards, he changed his career to do some small business, but he did not expect that all this was seen by the neighbors, who killed his father's first wife and children. A few years later, the remarriage gave birth to Xiao Wang.
Because he is already an old man, the parents are very doting on this single seedling, since childhood, they have stretched out their hands to open their mouths, so that the doting makes the small tree grow more and more crooked, resulting in the failure of the middle school entrance examination can only go to vocational high school, and vocational high school will serve military service in the second year of high school.
According to this, in fact, there is a teacher in the family, who has also received training from the army, and after coming out, he should be a national swimming talent, relying on his own strength to fight for his own future.
In fact, although the parents doted on him, but after all, it was an ordinary family, the pocket money that could be given was limited, and it could not meet the needs of Xiao Wang, so after returning from the army, not only did the subsidy not turn in, but also loved to make the father want to continue for many years, wanted to buy a car to start a business, and achieved something.
In fact, he just set up his own crime den, and the children with him, their average age is only 17 years old, most of the students are lacking tutors, lack of parental attention and guidance, which shows the importance of family education.
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Family education is the foundation of all education, and only when the foundation of family education is laid, students can start the superstructure. In the past half century, family education has gradually begun to receive attention.
For the education of a student, there have always been three pillars, family education, school education, social education, the combination of the three mailing, mutual influence, interaction, leaving no one, the most important of which is family education.
There are many parents who may neglect communication and education with students in order to provide a better material environment for student uniforms. I think that it is good to let students go to a good school and invest more in education, but in fact, parents' education for students, not only that, but also includes the care and correction of students' psychological aspects.
In short, teaching not only depends on the school system, the teacher's teaching, but also related to the growth environment of students, which has a role in promoting students' learning attitudes and academic performance, and those who learn to do things before doing things, parents in this regard have to change what they have to do, and encourage students to become national pillars.
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