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What is your use as a parent?
If you don't have the ability to take charge of your child's childhood, don't let him come into this world.
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Educating your children well is a lifelong career for every parent.
Rape of 45 people in two years
The average age of the criminal gang is 17 years old:
Recently, my cousin saw a very shocking news.
In The Left Banner of Bahrain, north of Chifeng City in the Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region, a small city that has just withdrawn from a poverty-stricken county, a case that shocked the whole country occurred.
A group of teenagers with an average age of only 17 years old formed a local evil force gang, manipulated local young students, wantonly bullied in schools, and caused dozens of violent crimes in just two years.
Of these, 45 were rapes.
The average age of the gang is only 17 years old.
The most unresolvable person in this case is the main culprit, Wang Ling.
One person raped 29 women, 28 of whom were minors, and 10 victims were girls under the age of 14.
This is even more terrifying than Sun Xiaoguo:
The main offender, Wang Ling, was born in 1998, was 23 years old, and was sentenced to death in the first instance.
In the town's 5 middle schools and a vocational high school, he set up a "big stick".
In the campus of Lindong Town, Left Banner, Bahrain, there is a kind of "standing stick" saying - publicly declaring to become the "boss", and can recruit "little brothers" and collect "protection fees".
This is an organizational form constructed by minors by imitating society, and Wang Ling and others all started from the "stick" and stepped onto the road of crime step by step.
Of the 19 defendants in the case, 8 were minors at the time of the crime, many of whom had divorced their parents and some of whom were left-behind children whose parents had been away for many years.
It is surprising to see such ferocious youth bullying.
One of the details is even more emotional – none of the victims of rape have called the police.
This shows that this "order" in the local area has been almost unable to penetrate the needle, the water can not be spilled, and even the victims themselves dare not speak out.
Although criminal suspects should be severely punished, people and units with the responsibility of guardianship, education, and supervision should also reflect.
Based on this, the surging news visited the town where Wang Ling was located, wondering why this young child had committed evil to this point.
Surprising results:
Family members and classmates who are familiar with Wang Ling all recall that this so-called "big brother" was "the most bullied one" during his study period...
Rapist "Big Brother"
But it is the bad guy who is forced to become...
When Wang Ling was in elementary school, he was often asked for money and beaten by his senior classmates.
His mother was basically not at home, and his father didn't care what happened to him at school, and in the face of the threat of his senior classmates, Wang Ling didn't dare to go home and complain.
He was still young and had his pants removed in public by his senior classmates.
Others used knives to cut his most beloved down jacket.
He was afraid, so he hid in the school's carport.
Once bullied and not resisted, the result is to be bullied again and again.
After entering middle school, the classmates who bullied him became even more intense.
Before becoming a rapist, Wang Ling had a normal relationship.
He talked about a girlfriend, who was also a student at a high school in Lin Dong.
However, in September 2015, Wang Ling joined the army in his second year of high school, and it was not until August 2017 that Wang Ling retired from the army and returned home.
And for more than half a year after returning home, Wang Ling has not found a suitable job, and his relationship with his girlfriend has a crisis at this time.
The two often quarreled, and later the woman insisted on breaking up.
In order to save this relationship, Wang Ling even knelt down and begged the other party not to break up, but in the end he did not succeed.
For women, he feels that "I think women play with feelings, so I have a relationship in the name of the person I am dealing with".
He began to resist, and beat people more fiercely and carelessly than the upper boys.
With this lifeless fierceness, Wang Ling became the big brother of the school.
He cleaned up all the classmates who had bullied him before, and even made them kneel down to break the bottle and apologize to him.
There was also a persecuted girl, who was pulled to the 303 National Highway in the winter, and Wang Ling stripped her of her clothes and let her chase the car, running about a kilometer before letting her get on the car.
Both good and evil are choices
The ending is too sad
A teenager, after feeling bullied and hurt, eventually became the one who committed violence.
The American poet Whitman once said:
"A child goes forward every day, what he sees, then it becomes a part of him."
In Wang Ling's world view, he was either bullied or bullied.
Under the influence of such deformed values, Wang Ling's personality has become more and more extreme.
Not erupting in silence, dying in silence, it is clear that Wang Ling chose the former.
This is the typical violence that spawned violence and sowed the seeds for his later criminal path.
As the saying goes, freezing three feet is not a day's cold,
In recent years, the juvenile crime rate in many places has increased year by year.
In September 2019, Yu Shumin, chief procurator of the Bahrain Left Banner Procuratorate, stressed that the Wang Ling case reflected deep-seated problems such as lack of school supervision, excessive parental coddling, participation of idle people in society, chaos in the surrounding environment of the campus, and lax supervision and law enforcement.