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How did the disaster of Yang Kasa's "Puxin Man" end in the end?

Some time ago, Yang Kasa's "Puxin man" remarks that "he is obviously so ordinary, but he can be so confident" have attracted countless men's insults and criticisms. Was Yang Kasa blamed himself for being scolded for this, or was he wronged? Let's analyze it now.

First of all, self-confidence is one of the qualities of a sound personality, both men and women.

There are many characters in people, such as self-confidence, kindness, gentleness, fortitude, integrity, etc., which belong to healthy and positive personalities, of course, including cowardice, inferiority, fierceness, hypocrisy, these belong to unhealthy negative personalities. Normally speaking, people should develop positive personality qualities, rather than unhealthy negative personality qualities, in some special cases, people will develop these dark unhealthy personality qualities, such as when people want to ask others to do things, want to make a windfall, forced to be helpless, and so on. A person with low self-esteem is unsound in personality, and a person with an unsound personality may have many problems. Since ancient times, both Chinese and foreign, the development of deformed and negative personalities has not been encouraged, and it is extremely stupid and ridiculous to ridicule a sound personality, just as it is shameful to ridicule the blind and the dumb as ignorant; its reasoning is self-evident and self-evident. Therefore, many netizens reacted fiercely to Yang Kasa's remarks, so that it is not difficult to understand that they insulted and counterattacked him.

Secondly, self-confidence is an essential quality for a person to succeed, and it is also one of the important characters for realizing self-worth and promoting social development. If everyone is inferior and cowardly, then how can society cultivate excellent talents, and how can society progress and develop? If Lu Xun is not confident, how can he become a literary work that can be written in the study of literary novels that no one has expected to back up to now, and how can he write such masterpieces of literature as "Scream", "Wandering", "Weeds", "Morning Flowers and Sunsets", "Hot Wind", "Graves", and "Huagai Collections"? If Deng Jiaxian is not confident, how can he lead and develop China's atomic and hydrogen bombs, thus shaking the wolf ambitions of the US imperialist capitalist countries and defending the country? If Ma Yun is not confident, how can he persuade various governments and enterprises to stick to his dreams despite repeated setbacks, and eventually create Alibaba and Alipay, thus benefiting hundreds of millions of people? It can be said that it is difficult for a person with low self-esteem to make a career, it is difficult to succeed, and it is difficult to contribute to society. So there is no doubt that no matter how ordinary you are, you have the right to be confident, and you should be confident, so as to realize your personal and social values.

Again, the difference between self-deprecation and his mockery.

General self-deprecation is to laugh at oneself, which is harmless, because one is both the subject of ridicule and the object of ridicule, and often plays a humorous and funny effect. He laughs at the opposite, is his own ridicule of others, or others laugh at themselves, in short, the subject of ridicule is different from the object, then at this time, we will call it satire, sarcasm, ridicule, etc., which can not talk about comedic effects, even if it plays a funny effect among some people, then this is also an extremely inferior and ignorant way of funny, especially for people who joke about personality, it is not too much to say that their hearts are reprehensible.

Finally, any speech should be moderate, especially for celebrities and programs aimed at a national audience, taking into account the possible adverse social effects of their remarks.

Nowadays, due to the emergence of Yang Kasa's Puxin male remarks, some women have put this basin on men at every turn, and men are not willing to show weakness, counter violence with violence, attack poison with poison, and invent the word Puxin woman in the trend, and since then this male and female gender war has since opened the curtain. The gender war between men and women is extremely unfavorable to marriage, family, social harmony, birth rate, etc., and will eventually hinder social and economic development. Today's China's marriage rate has been declining year after year, and the birth rate continues to be depressed, which is not unrelated to these gender-antagonistic remarks.

The biggest harm of Yang Kasa's "Puxin man" is to instigate the war of gender antagonism between men and women in China, and once the concept of male and female antagonism is formed, it will be a devastating blow to the development of all aspects of China, so we cannot but pay attention to this.

This war between men and women has now begun, and the two sides have been bombarding each other, and there is a growing trend, for which I have the following two suggestions:

First, investigate Yang Kasa's background.

Yang Kasa is now regarded as a hero by some foreign anti-China media outlets such as the BBC and the New York Times, so she is likely to be the spokesperson for overseas anti-China forces in China. China's development is unstoppable and will not be bound by external anti-China forces, but we must be vigilant against the cunning means of external anti-China forces to divide and provoke the antagonism between men and women in our country through internal espionage, so as to achieve the cunning means of subjugating soldiers without a fight.

Second, for such talk shows, relevant departments and platforms should strengthen their review.

Entertainment programs pay attention to entertainment effects, bo eyeballs are beyond reproach, but can not be without a sense of social responsibility, no bottom line to publish some irresponsible remarks, for excessive entertainment programs require rectification, for possible social adverse events, contrary to basic ethics and human nature of the remarks should be cut off in the production process, banned from broadcasting.

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