When you open the history, you will find that many powerful figures in history include erudite geniuses, heroic people who have the courage to be brave, and of course, there are also many naughty bad teenagers. For example, Cao Cao, when he was a child, was a typical bad boy, but then he turned around gorgeously, he became a successful person, and it affected Chinese history.
Our story begins with a particularly outrageous prank when Cao Cao was a child, and the name of this story is Cao Cao's kissing.
In the last year of the Huan Emperor of the Eastern Han Dynasty, a zodiac auspicious day in the golden autumn, luoyang city wind and sunshine, on the southeast corner of the city, blowing and playing lively, came a team to greet relatives, not far behind the line of gods unconsciously, came two young people, one before and after sneaking, who are these two people? These two people are famous, one is called Cao Cao, the other is called Yuan Shao, these two young people, today to do a shameful thing, that is, to rob relatives.
According to the data, Cao Cao and Yuan Shao were good friends when they were young, the two of them played together all day long, this day Cao Cao and Yuan Shao were wandering around in the street, looking up, there was a team to greet relatives, the bride looked very beautiful, these two teenagers had a sudden whim, decided to play a game of stealing and robbing the village, snatched the bride back, see if it can be done, this thing is quite exciting, after discussion, look at the terrain, two people hidden, waiting for dark to move.
The sky said that it was dark, and the two people came out and ran outside the wall of the master's house, first to turn the tiger away from the mountain, shouting outside the wall, not good, there are thieves. The family all came out to catch the thief, Cao Cao saw that there was no one in the courtyard, pulled the knife and jumped into the house, directly abducted the bride, Yuan Shao saw the hand, the two people were very happy, taking advantage of the dark to start running, the road was not familiar, the heart was panicked, the master's family found out in the back and chased, in a hurry, left running right run lost, Yuan Shao was not careful, he fell into the thorn bushes on the side of the road, the autumn thorn barbs were very sharp, a hook Yuan Shao hooked a strong, there hard to move, is not out, hurry to call Meng De to save me.
Cao Cao looked back to see that Yuan Shao could not move, and then saw that the pursuing soldiers were coming, and at the crucial moment, Cao Cao made an incredible way to save people, put the bride on the ground and shouted back to the pursuing soldiers, Come here, the thief is here. Yuan Shao thought, Oh my God? Are you still a brother? At the critical moment to play me like this, in a hurry, Yuan Shao roared, jumped out of the thorns, the clothes were torn apart, Cao Cao did not explain, grabbed Yuan Shao and turned around and ran, through the night, the two people were finally able to get out.
Cao Cao found that in this kind of emergency situation, if you want to pull Yuan Shao, you must not be able to pull, at the critical moment, you have to let him run out by himself, the rabbit is anxious to bite people, the dog is anxious to jump the wall, and people can run out in a hurry. We all know from history that Li Guang is in a hurry, an arrow can shoot into the stone, Wu Song is in a hurry, he can kill the tiger with his bare hands, and there are reports that a mother can lift the car in order to save her child, and this potential outbreak is still to be forced out. From this incident, we can see that Cao Cao was only a teenager at that time, but his heart was very deep.
People with this kind of heart, he dares to innovate, dare to make breakthroughs, and dare to use methods that others can't think of to succeed, from the matter of Xiao Cao Cao, we can probably see what he will look like in the future. This teenage child, who dares to do anything, thinks about running into trouble all day long, and he is like this.
About Cao Cao's growth, it is necessary to involve his family lineage, Cao Cao's life is really unclear, that is called looking at flowers in the fog, looking at the moon in the water, the moon is hazy and the bird is hazy, and Cao Cao is also very hazy. The "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" records that Cao Cao's father's name is Cao Song, Cao Song's father's name is Cao Teng, this father is not a real father, it is a eunuch, Cao Song is an adopted son, and there is a sentence: "Mo can judge the end of his birth", that is to say, he does not know where it came from. The Romance of the Three Kingdoms says that Cao Song's real surname is Xiahou and is a child of the Xiahou family, but some people object, saying that there is no exact evidence, that no exact evidence has been found, and that there is really such a possibility, why did Cao Cao not make this possibility public? Maybe this belongs to the personal privacy of leaders, who dares to explore the personal privacy of leaders, that is, to find death, the ancients did not dare to write. Just like many ancient emperors and what is also their own life and the dragon connection, anyway, is to be legendary, is to be hazy, many big people's life is a mystery, Cao Cao's nickname is Ah Qi, concealed, is to hide this information from all people, can not talk about can not mention. From this nickname, we can see that Xiao Cao Cao has lived in lies and deception since he was a child, he wants to deceive the people around him, to manipulate the most real things, this kind of juvenile experience has affected his personality throughout his life, and the deceit comes from here.
Every personality has the foundation of childhood, "there are no small things in kindergarten, a flower, a grain of rice, a word, a smile can have a huge impact on the child's future." Cao Cao's youth gave him so many bad personalities, and this personality affected Cao Cao's career throughout his life. There are records that Cao Cao will frame people from a young age, play tricks on the heart and eye to do deception, there is a famous story, called Cao Cao cheated on his father, especially can show Cao Cao's character development.
Cao Cao's day long is idle, wandering east and west, Cao Cao's uncle found that this child wants to go on like this, not only harm himself but also harm others, this uncle said in front of Cao Song all day long, the child should be educated to manage, every time the result is that Cao Cao is beaten, Cao Cao hates this uncle very much, without strength, then I will fight wisdom. Cao Cao met his uncle one day, and when he saw his uncle coming across from him, Xiao Cao rolled his eyes, lay on the ground and rolled twice, and began to convulse. Uncle Cao asked Cao Cao what was wrong with you? Cao Cao tilted his mouth and said I had a stroke. Uncle quickly looked for Cao Song, said your son had a stroke, hurry to rescue, Cao Song came, found Cao Cao in that god was idle, smiling and sitting there is nothing to do, see his father coming, ask him what happened to his father? From then on, when his uncle came to report on Cao Cao's affairs, Cao Song did not believe it at all. Xiao Cao Cao was a small deception, and easily deceived the scheming Cao Song.
Then why is Cao Song so confused? In fact, Cao Song is rational, but in front of his own people this rationality does not work, people look at their own people with feelings, especially prone to blind spots and misunderstandings, "When is a wise person most dangerous?" When you look at people who are born outsiders, you especially believe in your experience and wisdom, but when you are your own people, you believe it, and the more pleasing people are, the easier it is to be confused. Because Cao Song liked Cao Cao too much and was confused, everyone else could see it, but he couldn't see it.
Under Cao Song's indulgence, Cao Cao's advantages on the one hand magnified growth, on the other hand, shortcomings also amplified growth, forming a two-sided personality.
Everyone knows that the selection of talents in the Han Dynasty is a system of inspection and removal, that is, recommendation, there is a family origin and a door that has influence, then recommend you to become an official, Cao Cao is waiting for this recommendation. But he came from a family of eunuchs, his social reputation was very poor, he was sinister and cunning, he was in trouble all day, and he robbed others of his new wife, and he did not wait for someone to recommend him.
In Cao Cao's initial life, the bad boy Cao Cao, under the doting of his father, behaved absurdly, entered the world hopelessly, had a slim future, and seemed to be getting more and more crooked, the appearance of a person almost changed his life, which was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, but his fate had a huge turnaround, so who would this noble man be?
This person's name is Qiao Xuan, the character Gongzu is a Liang guoren, in the late Eastern Han Dynasty has been a high-ranking official at the level of a lieutenant, Qiao Xuan has achieved eight words: "Prosperous and clean, chaotic world dare to act." Such a person was particularly socially influential, and he admired Cao Cao very much.
Qiao Xuan this person is honest and honest, the people in society are recognized, as for his chaotic dare to do, he is really able to lay down a cruel hand, he has a "son to protect the Law" experience, that is, his son was kidnapped by the robbers, said that it is to redeem people can be, he resolutely does not give the kidnappers any chance, do not accept negotiations, although in the end the kidnappers were eliminated, but his son was also torn up, because there is a special announcement on this matter, that is, in the future, anyone's children in the family, if they are robbed by robbers, Neither can negotiate with him, and whoever negotiates will be held legally responsible. There are really few robbers who have passed the decree, because if you are a kidnapper, it is really a dead end.
Qiao Xuan is such a person, so he is very influential in society, and Qiao Xuan does not like others, he only likes Cao Cao, he feels that Cao Cao is a "talent of destiny", and Qiao Xuan's evaluation of Cao Cao is particularly high. So why did Qiao Xuan like Cao Cao so much? You must know that in that era, the children of the eunuch family were to be ridiculed, Qiao Xuan was a Qingliu reader, and Cao Cao was a turbid eunuch.
In fact, there are two reasons, the first is the inside, Cao Cao is alert and decisive, dares to do daring, and has a special number of eyes and understands the military, which is particularly appreciated by Qiao Xuan. At the same time, Qiao Xuan also took a fancy to Cao Cao's appearance, and during the Eastern Han Dynasty, there were two forces on the political stage, one called the party, the main body was the reader, and the other was the eunuch, that is, the eunuch who held power around the emperor, the party people prided themselves on being clean, looked down on those eunuchs, and the eunuchs always suppressed and excluded the party members everywhere. The struggle between these two forces was particularly fierce, but Cao Cao was a man who had both, he had a background as a eunuch, but in terms of values, he was particularly inclined to party and reader. Cao Cao is a combination of the two,
Is a person who has both ability and capital. Qiao Xuan predicted that in the future, when the world was in chaos, this child would definitely be able to settle the country, and for this purpose, he supported Cao Cao.
After being highly praised by Qiao Xuan, Cao Cao's confidence doubled, and he hesitated to go to the political stage at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, and since then, Cao Cao can be said to have had good luck.
Qiao Xuan pointed out a direction to Cao Cao, saying that your visit to a person named Xu Yao, is a famous critic, get his approval, the whole world recognizes you, you can have the opportunity to enter the hall and do a big career, Cao Cao was not accepted at first, because Cao Cao was not born well, but because of Qiao Xuan's support, coupled with Cao Cao's persistence, finally Cao Cao got an evaluation, there are two versions, the Book of Later Han records, he got the evaluation of two sentences, "The adulterous hero of the Qingping world, the hero of the chaotic world." The evaluation of the "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" is: "The capable minister who governs the world, the adulterous male who is in turmoil." Cao Cao was very happy after listening to his evaluation, and the evaluation from the authority influenced Cao Cao's life.
In his youth, Cao Cao's wit and vigilance had the ability to randomly weigh and adapt, and he was willful and chivalrous, debauched, did not cultivate his conduct, and did not study his studies, so no one in society thought that he had any special talents, but Cao Cao was lucky, he met Qiao Xuan, met Xu Shao, academic authorities one said that he was a talent of fate, one said that he was a hero in the chaotic world, Cao Cao was talented in front of him, and what was written on the back was a hero, which is the power of the positive label. Because of this encouragement, Cao Cao also got some social resources, and everyone recognized him, and he had the first wealth in his life. This also changed Cao Cao's life. Everyone is a blank piece of paper, what painting is drawn on it, he depends on the people around this child, Cao Cao grew up in his 20s, he got the opportunity to develop a career, which is due to the reason.
Cao Cao was born as a eunuch, he has a clear stream of ambition, he has a turbid background, so Cao Cao this person has resources and ability, there are platforms and opportunities. Although on the one hand, he is a freak, causing a distortion of his personality. But on the other hand, this dual social role has brought him some unexpected advantage, others can't go up, he can go up, others can't get it, he can get it.