"Seriously you lose", I especially hate this sentence.
I don't know when the "culture of mourning" began to violently impact our lives.
I guess the person who can say this sentence is probably in this state:
I also tried to impact perfection, but it always backfired, so I began to comfort myself, thinking that this similar state was not bad now.
The rampant funeral culture probably stems from this.
When the ideal is repeatedly slapped by reality, the anxious person begins to complain about everything,
"Inspirational uselessness" prevails, and this is when poisonous chicken soup captures your consolation mentality.
"I don't think ease and happiness are the very purposes of life."
To borrow this phrase from the famous scientist Albert Einstein, it is given to those who feel that "if you are serious, you will lose".
The attitude of only asking for a pass in everything is destined to make your life so-so.
There is often such news that an actor gaines dozens of pounds for a new play, or loses dozens of pounds, just to fit the role perfectly.
And we tend to just marvel at the changes in their appearance and ignore the seriousness behind them.
matthew. McConaughey, in order to play the AIDS patient in "Dallas Buyers Club", lost 47 pounds, which made everyone stunned.
Batman Christian. Bell, who lost 63 pounds in two weeks to play the role of the insomnia-stricken "Mechanic";
He lost 30 pounds for the corner of "The Fighter", and by the time of "American Hoax" in 2013, he had gained more than 30 pounds.
Box office explosion, causing countless teenage fans to scream "Star Lord" Chris. Pratt
For "Guardians of the Galaxy" for three months, he threw 55 pounds of fat, interpreting the appearance of the new overlord of the universe with a perfect body.
Behind the brilliance of these people, in fact, there are two words, serious.
Those who always keep their mouths shut and shut up and say "seriously you lose", what they say seriously is at best stubborn.
Under the influence of deep-rooted Confucian morality, we have been walking on this moderate chopping board for thousands of years.
Many times, going with the flow becomes a statement that we don't want to take seriously.
On the contrary, we feel that people who are too serious are usually not humane and not funny.
This aspect is attributed to the human society in which we live,
On the other hand, it shows that we are serious about professionalism and seriously avoiding ourselves.
Recently, a handwritten graduation thesis of a full 129 pages was screened on the Internet.
The author of the paper is Professor Zhang Bingjian, doctoral supervisor of the Laboratory of Cultural Relics Protection Materials of Zhejiang University.
This was his master's thesis when he graduated from Zhejiang University in 1981 with a major in physical chemistry.
In the era when computers were not yet popular, all the content in the paper was written by Zhang Bingjian in one stroke.
Neat and beautiful handwriting, exquisite and beautiful hand-drawn tables, detailed and clear data records, meticulous literature citations...
The whole paper reveals a kind of careful wording.
At that time, Zhang Bingjian spent most of his time in the library, writing a review every week to sort out the theoretical concepts and research perspective methods of the articles read that week.
Relying on a pair of eyes, a pair of hands, and a pen, he consulted a large number of books and materials to have 172 references cited in his graduation thesis.
In Zhang Bingjian's body, I saw the real appearance of doing things to the extreme.
Not impatient, not flashy, serious and focused, not greedy for shortcuts, such efforts are more powerful.
Life often rewards smart people, but the success of smart people is often seemingly clumsy persistence and seriousness.
Earnestness is a watershed between mediocrity and excellence, which makes a huge difference in the results of our efforts.
Those who clamor all the time, seriously you lose, in the end really lose.
Every time someone sighs like this, I can't help but ask, where did I lose?
How can seriousness lose, and seriousness should not win?
Later, I understood that the seriousness in their mouths was nothing more than an obsession with people and things.
They want to go with the flow, they want to go with the flow, they pay attention to the destiny, they do not expect man-made, and then most of them do nothing.
Seriousness is not stubbornness, drilling the horns, those who live seriously, they always seem to be able to live so wonderfully.
Those who want to travel but do not want to do their homework seriously, casually sign up for a tour group, follow it every day without thinking, and gain nothing but make themselves tired.
But those who gather experience everywhere and earnestly do their travel homework, these good times, are the talk of them when they are old, sitting by the fire and snoozing.
Serious and not serious, there are very different lives.
Serious people never lose.
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