Hearing that Tu Lei announced that he had left the ten-year love mentor stage, there were some regrets, some sadness, but more of a blessing.
I don't know how many people, like me, were once loyal viewers of "Love Defense War". Although some people say that the show has a script, the male and female guests are also invited actors. But that doesn't stop me from enjoying the show and even discussing it with my family and friends. Imagine what we would do if we met such feelings on the show.
Looking at each issue of love stories that seem to happen around you, listening to both sides tell about love troubles or parental short, contradictory conflicts, and finally love mentors or comment or persuade. Some of the endings are eclipsed and never seen again, and some are broken and reunited, and the old is repaired. It always makes us sigh, regret, anger, touch, please, or happy.
Another reason I watched this show was to like the golden pair of hosts Zhao Chuan and Tu Lei. With tacit understanding, witty words. Zhao Chuan's hosting style coupled with Tu Lei's sharp golden sentences constitute the soul of "Love Defense War". For a while, Zhao Chuan temporarily left the stage of "Aibao" due to physical reasons, and we all felt that Tu Lei seemed so lonely, and the show had a lot less feeling. Later, Zhao Chuan returned, but he did not expect that now Tu Lei was leaving again.
No matter what others say, I still like Tu Lei's hosting style. The views are clear and sharp, and the language is concise and sharp, straight to the sore spot. The guests are also not soft-mouthed, and often golden sentences are frequent.
It can be said that Tu Lei, the love mentor, is one of the biggest highlights of the show. Without Tu Lei's aibao, I don't know what kind of aibao it will be. I don't know if the next mentor will have a different personal style. The show will go on, just as life will go on.
Tu Lei superficially gives people the feeling that machismo is very strong, but you can feel his delicate heart and sense of responsibility for the family as a man from his words. His perception of love is often understanding and inclusive, and at the same time knows how to cherish and be grateful. Because of this, I was not at all surprised by his decision to reduce his work and return to his family.
About selection.
Life is a journey, and there are endless forks in the road. Every road, the scenery along the way is different. Different people have different ideas about life choices.
Fish and bear paws cannot be combined, and choice often means loss. Sometimes there is no right or wrong choice, it depends on what you care about most.
You choose fame and fortune and give up "picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, leisurely seeing the South Mountain." "If you choose a busy job, you may miss the time spent with your family.
We have no right to judge other people's lives. As long as we grasp the things that are most cherished and important to us in our limited lives and are willing to spend time, energy and even life to protect. That's enough.
There is only one destiny, but life has many choices. Just leave no regrets at the end of your life.
About parting.
People have to learn to accept parting. Because people's lives have to face countless separations, large and small.
As small as the loss of a small toy that accompanied your childhood, to the size of picking up a bag and leaving a familiar city. In one lifetime, you will meet a lot, and parting is as much as meeting.
A person, a thing, a world will disappear with time. Classmates and friends will grow apart as they grow up, parents will grow old and leave you, children will one day live independently, and we ourselves will one day leave this world.
So don't be afraid to part. Sadness and sadness are inevitable. But fortunately, we once cherished the fate of getting together, and shared experiences and memories. These deepest thoughts and feelings will be rooted in the depths of our hearts and become eternally precious.
About companionship.
Tu Lei once said: "What brings a woman hope is not love, but the responsibility of men; what brings a man a sense of security is not love, but a woman's dedication to the family." ”
He was busy with work for many years, and he felt guilty about his wife and children. That's why he was willing to work less and return to his family. Because he knows that love is just as important as companionship.
The wife needs the company of her husband, knowing the cold and knowing the heat, chai rice oil and salt, to have the warmth of home. Children need the company of their fathers, reading books and playing together to have a sense of security.
After all, human life is limited, and time is irreversible. As the years pass, we can no longer make up for what we miss. The most important moments in life, without the company of family. So what is the meaning of family?
When we are busy with work and neglect our families in the name of making money for our families, making money for our children, and working hard, then in the end, the relationship between relatives may be left with money. What a sad thing that would be.
Write at the end.
Ten years is only a short or short period of life's journey. Thank you Tu Lei for some words, thank you for the audience he has accompanied him, experienced love, marriage, children...
Now it is time for him to fulfill the promise he made with his children, to spend more time with his family, and to do a good job as a husband and father. Practice what it looks like to be a love mentor with practical actions. That's fine.
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