I used to think that I was a person with a bad amount of wine, but the wine was not bad, and because I was still young and had a little bit of courage, others came to toast and drank together, and I myself dared to carry a wine cup or bottle to find others to toast. Of course, how uncomfortable it is after drinking, I know it. But slowly, I also found that I was really not that piece of material, others were better than me, the amount of alcohol was better than mine, and the wine gall was also bigger than me, compared with others, how can not be compared. But what really touched me was probably three things that happened not long after.
The first is a gathering, and the twenty or thirty people who went there can be regarded as important people in the big department, and anyway, they are all people with higher positions than me, and I will follow them. After drinking an unknown amount of wine and saying an unknown amount of words, I seemed to suddenly lose consciousness. When I woke up, I found that it was dark all around, and it was almost twelve o'clock in the evening. That's because when I didn't feel a little wrong before, someone else helped me to lie down on the couch in the empty private room next door. So when a few waiters who were still cleaning outside saw a person wearing a black sweater, black trousers and black leather shoes, pale and stumbling out of the room, it was not difficult to understand.
In Guangzhou, it was okay, I hit a motorcycle and went home, facing the cold wind along the way, not throwing up a place, which is already a rare and lucky thing. The price I paid this time was the loss of the driver's license and the unit work card in the pocket of my coat, according to other colleagues (leaders) who helped me take my coat, he didn't have anything in his pocket when he picked it up, so he didn't know when and who "touched" him. Of course, fortunately, my mobile phone, wallet, etc. are still in the bag of trousers, so I will not even have money to give a motorcycle, and I will have to walk a few kilometers home in the winter night. However, the one hundred yuan spare banknote clipped in the driver's license is gone, and I have to take pictures to replace the driver's license and work card (ic card also costs fifty yuan). But no matter what, it is still lucky to be able to go home by yourself, and the next day people will basically return to normal, without major accidents.
Figure 1. Guangdong popular motorcycle, or called a passenger boy, before the motorcycle is now an electric car, drink more on this home (picture and text have nothing to do, from the headline free genuine picture)
The second thing happened in a foreign country, drinking alcohol in Japan and Japanese partners. Beer, plum wine, sake, and the Chinese liquor we brought with us were all drunk, and I drank too much and was helped back to the hotel by my colleagues. The next day, when my Japanese partner and my colleague were chatting, they also asked: Does so-and-so Sang (referring to me) like to drink? My colleague said truthfully: So-and-so Sang (I) don't like to drink, and he can't drink much, but he is more straightforward and enthusiastic, and the first time he eats and drinks with everyone, according to Chinese customs (style), they are all drunk.
The Japanese partner was a little surprised, and then said very solemnly: In Japan, there will be no one who forces others to drink, that is, how much they are willing to drink; moreover, in Japanese companies, it is believed that everyone is an adult, and the self-management ability is relatively high, including personal emotions, pressure and other management are quite important, if you drink out of control, you will be considered to be unreliable, and leave a bad impression on others, so please be sure to say to so-and-so Sang (I), please pay more attention to him, Don't drink too much to please everyone, it may backfire and lose the trust of others. Alas, it was actually international friends who came to admonish me, and this face was a little too big.
Figure 2. Japanese plum wine plus ice, the entrance is very good, but unconsciously easy to drink more (pictures and texts have nothing to do, free genuine pictures from headlines)
However, back in China, after the atmosphere at the wine table became active, the practice of carrying the wine jug in front of the wine pot, yellow (beer), red, and white wine mixed and drunk, and not drinking a few people without giving up, is still the main theme. I was still an easy object for others to break, whether it was a task by the wine jug or a task by bottle, I was one of the first few to be put down. I used to think that I was a bold pie, but when I heard what others relayed to me, I learned what kind of evaluation it was, and it was a bit different.
The head of the department once asked someone in front of several people, saying that he knew me and wanted to hear what I said about me. After someone said a word of praise, he then said that there was a little deficiency, that is, he was weak, the amount of alcohol was poor, and the wine style was general, and he often drank too much and needed to be helped back by others, and he could not control himself very much, and he was slightly lacking in measure.
The big leader just smiled and listened to what he said, without any expression on the spot. I guess the big leader should not have taken it too seriously, because after that, I didn't see any special treatment or admonition from him to me. But the problem is that the trust and dependence of the big leader on someone who speaks is greater than the trust in me, and he is almost regarded as a close confidant, and if he has any real thoughts or care, I am afraid that he will first say it to that person. Instead, the other people who sat and chatted together were a little indignant when they mentioned this to me.
Figure 3. The wine dispenser with scale is more popular, you can pour a small cup of wine, you can also dry the whole pot, the wine table is shaking in all directions (the picture and text are irrelevant, from the headline free genuine picture)
If I was stimulated by these three things, I immediately changed it, and the possibility of happening in the real world is not high. Alcohol, or from time to time passive or active drinking, just as far as possible to control themselves, reduce those fragments of the situation of being helped home.
Whether you are stressed, in a bad mood, in good times, or in other people's verbal stimulation and encouragement, you should just smile and sip wine, and do not feel that getting drunk is a "name" for some people. Being drunk doesn't really have any special value. Of course, after drinking too much, I am only silent, and I will not play drunk and scold people and quarrel, which is a little reassuring to myself.
(Please note that the stories told in this article, the time, place, and characters should not be scrutinized.) ）