▶ Introduction
Many times, we like to label people or things, but we don't know that many things are only understood by our own personal experience, is it really bad to remarry? Today we come to listen to the story of Aunt Yang.
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Hello everyone, my name is Liu Limei, 56 years old this year, my husband died in the early years, one person pulled his son to grow up, the son is now married, the couple are working in the same company, and the grandson Yangyang is in the first grade.
Usually I buy vegetables, cook, pick up and drop off my grandchildren to and from school, the days are simple, every time I pick up the baby, I meet the neighbors Old Li and his wife, watching their husband and wife love, like a beautiful scenery on the boring road, I feel lonely and lonely.
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Especially on weekends, the son and daughter-in-law couple rest, they will go out to exercise, play football, play badminton, I myself am a little fat, it is very difficult to move, when I can't keep up with the rhythm, I feel that I am getting older and older, and I have the same rhythm of people, but I did not.
If they arrange to go to the movie, they must choose science fiction movies, what robots, demons, high technology, I can't understand it at all, and I feel that I am sitting in the theater very lonely.
Later, I don't want to go out with them, I want to have my own circle of life, I don't have to go around them every day, I don't have to think about what to do for them every day, fold their clothes, and tidy up.
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Once when I met old Li and his wife, Sister Li opened up Brother Li and took my hand: "Sister Liu, now we are both, are you going to live the rest of your life alone?" Time is not long, it is not short, the grandson will be big sooner or later, do you have any plans for the future?"
"Now I am helping with my children and doing housework, and my son gives me 3,000 yuan in pocket money every month, and he has saved some money." I kind of love face.
"Of course, good conditions are good, but is it just a person?" The child grows up day by day, I think I should find a companion, old Li has a friend single, or I introduce you to know, exchange and see?"
"Let me think about it, thank you Sister Li." I am grateful for my kindness.
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Back home, empty, I sat quietly, and suddenly received a call from my son: Mom, today I went to my classmates with Goryeo and Yangyang to get together, and I won't go back to eat dinner, Mom, you can eat it yourself.
After hanging up the phone, I recalled Sister Li's words, thinking that it is not bad to know each other and be a friend, even if it is not appropriate.
The next day I met Sister Li in the park, and I promised to meet their friends, as to whether they can develop, let nature take its course.
I was afraid that if I told my son about the blind date, I would be laughed at, so I didn't tell them about it.
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Under Sister Li's arrangement, I met with Lao Zhang once, and during the conversation, I felt that the other party was a bit macho, and when we separated, I politely refused: "It is more appropriate for us to be friends."
After the failure of the blind date, I had even less confidence in remarriage.
My daughter-in-law noticed that I had been sullen lately, and she took the initiative to come to my room: "Mom, are you uncomfortable anywhere, or go and see?"
Me: "No, don't worry."
"Mom, as a woman I understand you, now Yangyang is in elementary school, he can go home, he is not far from school, he can walk home by himself, or find you a companion, so that it will be happier to have someone to accompany."
"But I'm all old, and besides, if there's a suitable one, and there's no me at home, what should I do?"
The daughter-in-law understands things: "I can make breakfast in the morning, we eat at the company at noon, my son can put the lunch day, and my time does not conflict."
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After listening to my daughter-in-law's words, I was relieved, and my daughter-in-law published an advertisement for me to solicit marriage.
After the advertisement, the mobile phone felt that there was no quiet time, and the son and wife arranged for me to find a suitable object on Saturday and Sunday.
But after coming and going, I didn't find a suitable partner for me, not only, but also the mess in the house.
Back I still had to pack, full of cigarette butts, water glasses, fruit peels.
Yang Yang said: "Grandma, these people don't pay attention to hygiene, some love to smoke, the second-hand smoke we smoke is more harmful to health, some always bragging, saying that they are the diamond king of the fifth, but the clothes they wear have holes, and there is a more outrageous, when they come to borrow money, think our family is a shelter." None of these people can match your temperament, although it is not a country, grandma is also one of the best in this community. ”
I had no strength to clean up, but when my grandson said this, I cried and laughed: "Stop publishing marriage advertisements, no longer get married, I feel that there is no hope."
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The daughter-in-law said: "Since there is no suitable one, it is so difficult to find a suitable one now, maybe I can really find it, and I don't know if I will get along well in the future."
The marriage activities came to an end, I returned to my previous life, I did not pray for remarriage, even if Sister Li said that the introduction of people to me, I also politely refused.
Sister Li laughed at me: "Sister Liu, don't be discouraged, I will introduce you to the people I introduced you this time, and I guarantee that you like them."
Sister Li opened old Li again, pulled me to see her sisters, we arrived at the sister's house, saw an old gentleman was pulling erhu, a song "Erquan Yingyue", played delicately and profoundly, rigid and soft, every point is in place.
There were more than 20 people sitting around listening to it like crazy, and I was also intoxicated by the song, feeling that my soul was wandering with the music, the song was closed, and I could not return to God for a long time.
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When the students left, Sister Li introduced me to Old Zhao: "Sister Liu, this is Teacher Zhao, you have common hobbies, you are all lovers of classical instruments, you can communicate with each other."
"This is Ms. Liu, my neighbor, and a learned person."
Old Zhao and I shook hands, and everyone sat down and chatted, and we had a good image of each other.
Old Zhao is more realistic: "Sister, I divorced 10 years ago, my ex-wife has long since remarried, when my daughter went with her, music is like my partner has been with me, will you mind my hobbies?" Sometimes it may be snubbed because of busy work, will you be considerate? ”
I smiled and said, "You can be friends first, after all, you're new to contact."
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My son knew that I had met Old Zhao: "Mom, if you marry Old Zhao, you won't become a nanny, he opens an institution, you have to clean up this and that, if you are good with him, you must explain that you can't work."
I smiled and said, "I don't know, I'll come back if it's not appropriate, and you won't hate your mother when the time comes."
The daughter-in-law sweetly said: "There is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure, if your mother and Teacher Zhao are together, in the future you want to live with us, we will live together, if you want to go to Teacher Zhao then go there, as long as you are happy."
I am very relieved that my daughter-in-law will accept my other half, even if she does not know what the other person is.
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I and Old Zhao began to get along, indeed as he said usually teaching, after work there will be students to ask him questions, Old Zhao will be patient guidance, sometimes forget to eat, I think such people are informal, do not care about their own gains and losses, have the spirit of being a teacher, even if I will be busy in the future, I am willing.
Old Zhao can't take care of eating, I will remind the students well, the students will know that they will consider the teacher when asking questions in the future, after all, he is 63, and he has to raise his body to teach better.
Old Zhao laughed at me: "Before I was embarrassed to open my mouth, you helped me say it, and being a teacher is sometimes quite helpless."
I cared: "In the future, this "evil man" I will do it, and you will be a good person." ”
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After getting along for half a year, I fell in love with Old Zhao, set up a few tables a few months earlier, and simply got married.
After marriage, Old Zhao gave me the bank card for safekeeping, I moved to live with Old Zhao, the two people were in love with each other, and the house was above the institution, which was particularly convenient.
We only start classes in the afternoon, we can sleep until we wake up naturally in the morning, whoever wakes up first will do breakfast, and sometimes we go grocery shopping together and cook together.
Usually the health of the institution is also done together, I am not a nanny, we are just an ordinary couple.
I was disappointed on the way to remarry and find a partner, and I was not favored by others, but now I am very happy.
summary
Aunt Liu grew up alone to pull her son, and when she had a grandson, she circled around the family, looking at the neighbors and old couples who loved each other, and she also wanted to have a companion.
At the beginning, the object introduced by Sister Li and the daughter-in-law published a marriage advertisement to find an object, but they did not find a suitable partner, and Aunt Liu was a little lost.
Fortunately, I met Teacher La Erhu Zhao later, two like-minded old people came together, the son and the people around him will worry about Aunt Liu getting along in the future, but Aunt Liu uses practice to perceive whether It is appropriate to live with Teacher Zhao.
Bravery opened the door to happiness for Aunt Liu.
The days are their own life, rather than listening to the wind is the rain, husband and wife get along with each other is mutual response, feedback, you are good to him, he knows you, understands you, give back to you positive love, so that you will be happy and happy, I wish Uncle Zhao and Aunt Liu a sweet and sweet life.
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