When everyone mentions Li Shuangjiang Mengge and his wife, many people are very familiar with them, they are well-known singers.
Li Shuangjiang is a well-known tenor singer in China, and has the reputation of "a generation of singers", Li Shuangjiang sang "Red Star Illuminates Me to Fight", "I Love Five Finger Mountain, I Love Wanquan River", "Return from Shooting Targets", etc., each song is popular among the population.
And Li Shuangjiang's current wife Mengge is also a well-known singer, the main songs are "Yi Meng Song", "Motherland, Always Bless You" and so on.
Compared with their fame, their son Li Tianyi is more famous, because when Li Tianyi was 17 years old, he was sentenced to 10 years in prison when he and 4 other people violated an innocent girl.
In fact, when Li Tianyi was 15 years old, he was sentenced to one year of detention and re-education for driving without a license and beating someone.
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The incident occurred in February 2013, when Li Tianyi and his friends took a girl to a hotel to commit an assault after drinking in a bar in Haidian District.
In March of the same year, Li Tianyi and others were arrested according to law, and because Li Tianyi was a minor at the time, he was handed over to the juvenile detention center.
At that time, Li Tianyi's case aroused great concern across the country, and Li Tianyi's mother Mengge, in order to excuse her son, did not hesitate to accuse the injured girl of being a third escort, and such a practice caused the anger of many people.
Under the pressure of public opinion, the case was heard several times, the court made a final judgment, and Li Tianyi was sentenced to 10 years in prison.
The girl who was violated, because of the physical and mental injury, not only suspended from school, but also entered a mental hospital for treatment because of "severe depression".
At that time, the case of Li Tianyi and five other people violating the young girl was well known, and the teacher-student love marriage between Li Shuangjiang and his wife, who was 27 years apart, and their excessive doting on their son also attracted a lot of attention and discussion.
In the year of the crime, Li Shuangjiang was 74 years old, Mengge was 47 years old, and Li Tianyi was 17 years old, and the huge gap in their family age was also questioned by many people, and many netizens ridiculed their family of three as a "cross-age family".
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In fact, Li Shuangjiang, as An outstanding tenor singer in China, is highly praised in both artistic achievements and character.
After Li Shuangjiang divorced his ex-wife Ding Ying, he married his 27-year-old student Mengge, who went through twists and turns and gave birth to a son, named Li Tianyi.
This year, Li Shuangjiang was nearly 60 years old, which can be described as "old and son", naturally he loved his son in every way, especially the dream pigeon, and he was very spoiled for his son Li Tianyi, and it was precisely because of this that he cultivated his son into this arrogant and untamed character.
As the saying goes: "Habits are like killing children." ”
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Now that Li Tianyi has been serving a prison sentence for more than 7 years, he is getting closer and closer to getting out of prison, and now Li Shuangjiang is 81 years old, and Mengge is 54 years old, and finally looks forward to his son's release from prison.
In order to welcome their son to become a new person after he was released from prison, Li Shuangjiang and his wife changed Li Tianyi's name: Li Guanfeng, expecting that their son could start again after he was released from prison.
To this end, many netizens have also begun to pay attention to the girl who was violated by Li Tianyi and other 5 people, how is her life now? Have you come out of your hurt?
According to the latest news, the girl who was hurt by Li Tianyi, in addition to being physically and mentally hurt, plus has been criticized and harassed, has suffered from "severe depression".
After the girl stopped going to the hospital for so long and receiving treatment, she still lives in a nightmare, has not come out of the shadow of the year, and has been receiving spiritual treatment.
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After Li Tianyi's case, an article titled "A Father's Letter to Dream Pigeon" quickly became popular on the Internet, pointing out that Dream Pigeon was a key person who sent his son to court.
When Li Tianyi was 14 years old, Mengge gave Li Tianyi a BMW, knowing that minors could not take the driver's license, but as a mother, Mengge was too fond of her children, she ignored these and connived at Li Tianyi, and as a result, Li Tianyi was sentenced to one year of detention and education because he drove without a license and beat others.
After knowing that Li Yiyi had violated the innocent girl, Mengge still firmly believed that Li Tianyi was innocent, and in order to exonerate her son, she accused the girl of being a "three-year-old girl" and taught her son that "everything can be balanced with money and power."
Because Li Shuangjiang is old, most of the time it is Mengge who is responsible for his son's education, and Li Tianyi is slowly growing up under the teaching of his mother.
Since ancient times, loving mothers have been many losers, and this is the case! Because the child spends the most time with the mother and is most influenced by the mother's words and deeds.
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1. Let the child endure the ordeal
Mencius wrote in "Born of Sorrow and Died of Happiness": "Suffering his mind, straining his bones and bones, starving his body, emptying his body, and messing with his deeds, so he is moved to endure and benefits what he cannot." "It is to tell us that if we want to make a person talented, we must let him endure fatigue and experience the grinding of adversity, in order to cultivate a tenacious character and increase his talent."
Now many parents are, just want their children to be happy, afraid that the children are tired, what the children want to satisfy, over time, the children will become blind.
2. Avoid over-praising your child
Now many parents blindly implement encouragement and education for their children, and are accustomed to giving their children a thumbs up and praising their children, so that children feel that they are very great and cannot stand a little frustration and grievances.
The correct approach should be: seven out of ten encouragement, two out of ten punishment, is conducive to shaping the child's healthy personality.
3. Teach by example and establish correct values
Parents' words and deeds are in the eyes of children, and they will be internalized into their own values in a subtle way, so as parents, especially as mothers who have the most contact with their children, they should pay more attention to their own behavior.
Parents should establish correct values, and reflect the correct three views in handling things related to their children, so that children can establish correct three views from an early age and will not do things recklessly.
Every parent loves their children, wants to give their children the best, and wants to let their children live a carefree, happy and happy life, but the premise is that the children have a sense of boundaries, a sense of awe, and let the children know that some things can be done and some things cannot be done.
Some people say: After Li Tianyi changed his name to "Li Guanfeng", we should accept him to start over. Do you agree with this statement?
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